Why are older guys interested, but not guys my age?
Im still in highschool, and guys 3-4 years older, or even older than that are interested in me. its kind of creepy when i walk down the street and 20 something year old guys whistle or something. i dont mind guys who are older and in highschool, but im just wondering, why is this? i mean theres hardly any guys my age who seem interested in me. i dont know if its how i dress or something? most girls my age are super skinny like a rail, but im not, i guess im an hour glass so i would have 'curves' just wondering, serious answers, why do older guys seem interested but not guys my age, its really irritating but then again guys my age are pretty immature, and i find it hard to 'connect' with them on any level.
Liking vs. interest in a guy's mind?
They often do mean the same thing. Basically, there are levels of interest from, say, 1 to 10, but I think what the person who talked to you was saying was more about being attracted to someone that you don't know anything about, so you don't really "like" them because you don't actually know them, but if you had the chance to get to know them, it could become a real crush. Although when I was younger, I had all sorts of mad crushes on guys that I didn't hardly know (not really!), so that never stopped me! So in this case, I'd say that what your friend is describing is being attracted to someone, but not having a full blown crush ("like her") because they don't know her. Sounds like a good situation to get to know the person better, because it could develop into liking her.
Is he interested in me or am i imagining things?
Ask him if he wants to join you after work for a drink or go to lunch, you will be able to talk more freely outside of work and then see what happens. Females should remember that they can take the first step, some guys are also shy, they may be friendly BUT are scared to make the first move from friendship / general conversation. Good luck
How do you ask a girl to hang out when she barely knows you? If I ask her to hang out, she will think I’m a creep. How do I ask her to hang out without seeming like a stalker?
The exact same thing happened to me, except I’m trying to ask a guy out. It happened a couple weeks ago, and I had a crush on this popular guy, the same one from here:Kimberly Hung's answer to What's the most embarrassing thing that's happened to you in front of your crush?So anyways, I later found out that one of my friends have a crush on him too, and we would talk about him together a lot. Even though I really liked him, I didn’t really want to tell him that I liked him yet, because he didn’t really know me and I didn’t really know him. My friend, who didn’t want to ask him out yet either, was constantly egging me to ask him out because according to her, I had a better chance at getting his attention.One unfortunate day, my friend decided that she will ask him out for me, because she thought I was too scared to ask him out instead of waiting and know him better, which is what I actually wanted. She, my other friend, and my crush had PE together, so she decided that she’ll be a great friend and ask him out for me. The conversation went sort of like this:Friend: Hey Liam!Crush: Hi…?Friend: Kimberly likes you, did you know that? She thinks you have hot eyebrows! She really wants to date you!Other Friend: Umm, I don’t think the eyebrow thing was necessary…Crush: (frowns) H*ll no, B**** , there’s no f***ing way I’m dating her. I don’t even f***ing know her! (mutters)Isn’t she new or something? ( lists off all the swear words)Other Friend: Oh, umm, it was a dare. Bye!( drags friend away)Later, he confronted to one of my guy friends(also his friend) about the incident…Crush: Yo, is Kimberly that Asian girl with the glasses?Guy Friend: Yeah, I guess…Crush: She’s a creep. I barely know her and she’s already trying to ask me out!So back to your question, you should wait and get to know her better. Don’t flirt with her. Just be her friend when she needs it, and please don’t talk to her more then 2 times a week until you know her better and both you and her consider each other as a friend . It’s really annoying when someone who likes you keeps talking to you to get your attention. Believe me, that trick doesn’t work. I hope I helped & good luck & don’t do anything stupid like I did!
Should I add a girl I hardly know to be a friend on Facebook?
Hey guys the question I have is this. I am working at a store and there is this girl who always says hi to me and acts like she wants to talk to me. I am interested in her and would like to know if I should add her on facebook. I just recently met her about 2 weeks ago. I hardly ever have anything to say in person. All I talk about most of the time is work related. Is it bad to add her on facebook? I found out her name and found her on facebook. I just need to know if I should add as a friend. Thanks.