What do you do if your blind date is ugly?
Your first mistake was to promise a stranger to do things with her in the future, before ever having met. Whatever she looks like, go through your date and be polite and gentlemanly. If you two don't hit it off or she's just not your type, then at the end of the date thank her for joining you and let her know you two just aren't a good match but you appreciated her company on that date and hope she has a great summer. In the future don't make plans and promises that you don't know if you will want to keep. You can't know if you'll like someone until you meet them, so don't get all caught up in the online friendship and commit yourself to things you'll want to break your word on later. Bad karma. Besides, the chances are just as high she won't find you appealing. It may be her that puts a stop to things, and not you.
What would you do if you turned up for your blind date and they were totally different, ugly and much older than their photo?
How is it a blind date if you already saw their photo? Blind dates are usually between two people who have absolutely no idea what the other person looks like. However if that happens you may kindly apologize and say something urgent came up and you have to leave, as brutal as it sounds, being mislead is no fun either.
I am very unattractive. Would I be able to date a blind guy?
They say that there is someone out there for everyone, and I believe it. Sometimes I see people together, and I just know that they weren't made for each other, but it's close enough. They come in all shapes and sizes.Even what are generally considered beautiful or handsome people don't get the same reaction from everyone. We're a mixed up crazy world, and what attracts one person will turn off another.It's also true that we are all our own worst judge. I personally hate photographs of myself. I hate to look at myself, but my wife says I'm cute. Either she's lying, or I am a terrible critic. So having said that, who's to say that somebody else won't have a different opinion of you? You don't say why you think you're unattractive, but thankfully you won't be dating yourself.And, to be honest, what makes a person attractive is hard to define. Maybe 10% is looks, but the rest comes down to personality and other factors. That being said, if you're ugly inside (which I'm sure you're not), a blind guy would be more likely to zone in on that immediately.I think you should try to find a seeing date before you resort to that. And no, I'm sure there are some awesome blind guys out there too, but why limit your options?
My friend set me up with an ugly date?
she has never met the guy before so she doesnt even no his personality. and he hott date brouhgt his firend(the ugly guy for me) but i still wanna go and i kind of want her date...lol. should i go for him
How can I impress a blind date?
I am meeting a girl next week. The catch is that I consider her out of my league. (I have seen a pic of her but she hasn't seen one of me)We have talked a dozen or so times on the phone. I consider myself a nice guy who treats women with respect. Its been a while since I have talked to a girl this cool and I am scared to death that she will not find me attractive. I have had attractive girlfriends but have also been shot down by girls who society deems not attractive. What can or should I do? Are looks all that matters to women? Sometimes it seems like it.
I have a blind date. Do I tell him I'm fat?
No, that is why it's a blind date.
Would you date a cute but blind girl?
Date one? Hell no! I married one. My guess is she has figured out by now that I’m fat, after all she still has both arms, but I always joke that, “I am nothing to look at these days” and she says, “You look good to me.” Haha.That said, being in a relationship with someone with “low vision” does present some challenges. When we are out, I am literally “her eyes.” After 19 years together, we have gotten quite good and work well as a team. She never drives carpool (thank God), so that extra duty will fall on you, but that is OK. I have actually found that it has brought us together and makes our relationship stronger. We literally do “everything” together. We go shopping for groceries together, we go to church together, we run errands together. I think that we have made it where other couples have not because they have very separate lives and we do not. We are part of a team and two parts of one whole. I have never once considered it a burden and cherish what we have together.
If a guy is too ugly to go on dates, and girls turn him down by making up excuses to avoid hurting his feelings, what is he to do?
Celebrate! Yep! CELEBRATE.You have received the best scenario in the form of a rejection.That is: It was politely done, with respect to your emotions. WOW.You were not, spat in the face, you were not isolated from your friends, rumors were not spread about you, jokes where not made about how worthless you are, you were not excluded from your social group for just even expressing interest in another person.If you have not experienced the above in the form of a rejection then you are ahead in the game. What I described is what women are expected to put up with in the form of a romantic rejection. In fact the above is what women are expected to put up with even if she is not romantically interested in a guy and the group of guys find her mere presence offensive to them. Sound fun huh.“…to avoid hurting his feelings…”Hence the reason why they do this for you. You are doing really well.It could be worst, reincarnation could be real and you come back as a female. You thought it was tough now. As a female it can get a hell of a lot worse.***********************EDIT*****************************I debated about highlighting this response but I decided to put it up here. Why, because it is displaying for me your attitude towards others, and I would say that this is YOUR problem and not anything to do with perceived looks. Look at your social interactions.Austin, Carol has taken the time and energy to give you an answer, possibly out of her VERY BUSY DAY. Is this how you treat people? seriously?“…If a guy is too ugly…”It is not physical ugliness that we are talking about here is it? Please Re-read what you have just said about another Quorean who has be gracious enough to give unpaid council out of concern for you.Re-read what you have just written about her. In fact re-read everything you have written. In fact, print it out, take it to a professional therapist get HIM to read what you have written.Do not think it is alright to slag off another Quorean, Get yourself into professional therapy…NOW!And the reason I say HIM. Talk to another professional level headed male.