Would you marry a girl who has slept with guys before you?
Last year, I met a girl from matrimony website. And we had this conversation:(Leaving unnecessary detail, coming to that part of conversation)She: Do you have any girlfriend Rana?Me: No, not right now. But I have had girlfriend(s) before.She: Ahhaa! I had a boyfriend too. We had 7 years of relationship.Me: You don’t have to tell me all these things.She: No, I want you to know that we were “so close”. I don’t want to hide anything before marriage.Me: That’s great, now I don’t have to teach you how to love me after marriage. But why didn’t you marry that guy?She: He left me for other girl.Me: Hmm, that is sad.(After few minutes, I had to ask this. So, I asked)Me: Will you please answer me honestly?She: Yeah sure!Me: Let’s say we are engaged but what if your boyfriend feels sorry for his act and comes back to you. What will you do? Will you go back to him?She: (She gave a thought and said) I don’t know Rana. May be! I will. I still do love him.Me: Then there is no point in marrying me. You will destroy many lives because of your confusion.There were mild discussions. And I called off that marriage proposal.What I believe, is that relationship should be built on trust, it doesn’t matter what you did in the past, but it does matter what you do in the present.No one can change their past, so there is no point of judging someone because of it. But it is important what effort you apply to make your present beautiful.Comment section is open for judging me. Good luck guys.
Do guys date/marry shy girls?
Making casual friends is easy, kenya. Almost everyone is glad to have a casual conversation. Talk about what you see. Go to the zoo, stand next to someone who is admiring an animal, and start talking about the animal. Go to the grocery, stop in the cereal aisle and start talking with whoever is there about cereal. Go to the library and ask the librarian for help finding information about a subject you like, such as cars or gardening. All the casual talk will help you to build confidence to talk with people, and eventually you'll have a conversation with someone who likes what you do. You'll talk more, exchange phone numbers, and, voila, you'll have a friend. As to your original question, yes, guys marry shy girls. My spouse was very shy, except when she was on stage. She was an actor, but was shy in real life. She lacked confidence. I'm not shy at all; had no trouble getting her to talk. We discovered we had a lot of similar interests, and became friends. One thing led to another, and we were married. For 25 years. We were soul-mates... incredibly close... faithful... trusting... our life together was wonderful. She is gone, now, but I still carry beautiful memories of her in my heart. Pretty good for a shy girl, don't you think?
Should I marry a girl who has dated many guys?
If you’re uncomfortable or cannot handle that fact, then don’t marry her.It’s mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.Clearly her dating was considerably less important to her than her decision to marry you (assuming that’s the case and not just you thinking you want to marry her). Otherwise she would have married one of the other guys already.The important point is whether she loves you, and you, her — and whether the pair of you are good for, with and to each other (and then on for, with and to your kids).
Would guys date a girl who doesn't want to get married?
In my younger years I have been put in this same situation, and we did date. Why did I agree? Well I had no plans for marriage for quite a few years, we got along extremely well, and dare I say the sex was also great. The relationship worked out quite great and lasted for a few years.Now would I do this today? No I would not. My younger years are far different from my years today. I have plans for marriage, so someone who does not wish to get married or anything similar would not be right for me to date. It would only leave with me being disappointed in the relationship and being stuck with the decision of living with that disappointment or me attempting to sway someone’s mind for the sake of making me happy. Neither of those things I could live with. But just as that girl doesn’t want to get married, there are guys out there with the same plan. So I honestly wouldn’t let it get me down. This is also why I bring up marriage and living locations within the first few months of dating. It scares a couple, but it lets others know how serious I am.While I don’t believe in “the one”, I do believe that there are various people who can mostly bit the bill of “the one”.
Will guys wait for a girl till marriage?
Honestly, it will probably be very difficult, unless you belong to a religious organization where there are like-minded people. You will probably find a guy that thinks the same way you do there, and chances are you will get married very young, because let's face it, you are both horny. And because you have the support of your religious community, there will be a higher chance of a marriage like this working out. So good luck!
Guys, if your wife died, would you get married again?
Me and my mom were talking and she told me "If I was to die, do you think your dad would marry someone else" and I was like in shock and said I wouldn't let him, but my mom said he would. And so I told her, "mom not all guys are the same" and she said "99.9% are" So guys, if your wife would die, would you marry someone else? I also ask this because this very loved lady from my church died yesterday and my mom asked me if I thought her husband would re marry, I kinda wanted to cry and said "he loved her too much, I dont think he would love someone else, everywhere he would go, she would go." But my mom thinks he will.
GUYS- would you marry a girl 2 years older than you? Girls can also answer
Okay a few weeks ago if you remember I asked advice on marrying a guy two years younger than me but i've always liked older guys n younger guys remind me of my lil brother lol but the guy is okay with it n he has the nicest parents. He's a great guy, has no bad habits n I've known him since I was 2 years old which is when he was born lol i remember him as a baby but I'm just like what if I have 5 kids n I'm 40 n he's not attracted to me anymore? I would have to work extra hard to maintain my looks n you know what the guy isn't really attractive but nobody cares if a guy is ugly. Soooo guys would you want to marry a woman two years younger than you? And girls would you constantly obsess over your looks if you were married to a younger guy? I need some hidayat lol Thanks :-)
What do guys think of girls who want to wait until marriage?
Hello, So, guys loose respect for girls who sleep around or have sex to early in a relationship. Sometimes sex can be the only reason they are actually in the relationship. I get that. But then, if a girl wants to wait until marriage, to make sure she has found 'the one' and out of respect for herself and her future husband, she is going to save herself. Guys find this a turn off too?!! Because she is too inexperienced and because they won't know thier 'sexual compatibility'. However at the end of the day isn't love - by that, I mean 'true love' about the personality of someone, and being willing to wait to make sure you are compatible on every other level, and want to spend the rest of your lives together? The main thing I am trying to find out is, how would you guys feel if your girlfriend said she wanted to wait until marriage, and how would you feel if you were on a first date with someone they said they wanted to wait til marriage (and they are a virgin). Would it turn you off? or would you respect thier choice and be willing to wait? No - I am not Christian, I am an athiest. I just have strong morals. so no religious talk please, as I am simply not interested. No disrespect intended. Thank you in advance for your views. -Gina x