My friend died but I can't cry?
i usually cry when there is a death in the family or friends but sometimes i cant i couldnt cry when my aunt emma died and we were close but we all knew that she was going to die soon she had been sick for quite a while and she was getting worse everyday but when i fnd out i couldn't cry i wanted to i felt like i was going to but couldnt its probably just shock thats what my mom said about me it all hit me hard later on you are probably just in shock and it will catch up with you later sorry about your loss
Why do I cry a lot lately?
You could be broken. "I'm Perfectly fine going into Highschool!" *Tosses anger at you* "I take it back. I'M A FAILURE." Well guess what...your wrong. I hate to say it but your friend might want to branch out, or well does want to branch out. "I'm friendless now". Don't worry, You get to make lots of new friends. Meet a cute boy or girl. And have a great life. "But I'll be without anyone. what if I have to sit alone?" I've done it. Three times. I switched schools, and when I did I had my best friends be done with me. Both of them. Yeah. Then I became home-schooled. One of them did start talking to me again, and I'm happy, but it was tough. "How do I sit alone?" You sit alone. This may happen and there is nothing wrong with it. Well except you'll be sad. Really sad. But when I did make friends one of them told me they were too shy to talk to me. So your not alone, and plus you have to know SOMEONE you can sit with. Not a new school. Your not friendless. :P "How do I react when I see her?" Like a normal person, and NOT special.. Treat her like a normal kid now, and I bet you'll die inside a little, but if anything you could upset her too. Which can help you guys reconnect. :D "How do I not cry randomly" Well... Huh. I don't know. I do the exact opposite. I don't cry cause I'm a man! Just kidding, I don't cry because I stopped. Over-cried myself and now only cried once in the last year. Anyway about you, is there a therapist you can see? Don't say your not around one there is usually one in every school. "What if my anger controls me?" Again Therapist. Also there is someone you can tell, I bet your mom would like to hear your story. She may be able to help, and if not turn to eating a lot. I'm kidding don't do that. At all. "Who do I talk too about Girl things?" Well this kinda rules 'Mom' Out doesn't it? Maybe... You'll find yourself a girl that you can talk too. Your first day you'll see not everyone has things figured out, it's not just you. "Who do I talk about boys too?" Refer to the top one. "Your a boy, why should I listen to you?" That would be sexist if you didn't just for that reason. You should listen to me because I did make a few good points. Hopefully. I'm also not super old, so I'm still a teen. I'm not a creep either!. :D Also leave your Kik below if.... You want me to randomly scream and want to destroy that idiotic website.
Lately, I have been feeling kind of depressed where I have cried the past two days and that’s because at school, I have been struggling with no friends. Is it okay to have these feelings?
I cried my way through life. I always say crying waters the face.I never had friends either, but that is not why I cried.So crying is okay.Making friends gets easier when you stop trying.School feels like a life sentence, but instead of worrying about friends, study your lessons well, get the best grades you can, and when you get out that paper they give you opens other doors.Work hard always. People admire competence, but always cover your back, there is always someone competing and not always in an honourable way.Some of us just struggle with the friend thing at school. I am too practical. I decided to find a quiet spot, eat my lunch, study my subjects and soon enough you get to the end of school.It is the easiest part of life even if you think it is so hard. It really doesn’t matter if you don’t have friends. You just think it does.You can read wonderful books.Get The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand. It is a beautiful book and it saved my intellectual life and even my soul. So be that kid that reads. You get to be smart.Just remember she is wrong in only one thing. There is a God and He has got you.You will be surprised after school how many friends you will make and they will like you. Don’t worry about the herd. Keep safe. Don’t do sex and drugs and you will get out of school in one wonderful piece. Look to that day. Prepare. Get smart.God bless and keep you.
Lately, I've been feeling very lonely and detached. My friends have garnered new ones and have been ignoring me. I feel like breaking down and crying but all I feel is this hollow feeling. I'm embarrassed to tell someone. How do I learn to move on?
Every one feels hollow inside. If you feel like crying, first do that and get over it. Then look at what you can really do to get your friends. Try and help others what you can and be in a company. Do physical activities, meet new people, focus on other areas of life. Hatha yoga, kriya yoga, meditation helps fighting loneliness and depression
Is it worth crying over your best friend?
My best friend and I have been close for over a decade (since third grade) and lately I've noticed the relationship between her and I is becoming rocky. Whenever I wanted to hang out with her alone to catch up on things (we go to different schools), she always has to bring a mutual friend over - and if this mutual friend doesn't come, then our hang outs won't take place. I've spoken to her about this before but she just shrugs it off and moves on. I've also noticed that we're liking different things and I don't know... I just feel like something between us is not the same as it used to be before. Another thing that sucks is that she has another best friend from her school who she regularly hangs out with and whenever I try to make plans to hang out with her (my best friend), she would decline saying she has other plans - which is with her best friend from her school. Now that we're seniors and going off to colleges, I can't stop crying that I might lose her. Does anyone know how can I stop crying over this and move on?
Crying because I have no friends?
Lately I've been feeling lonely because I have no friends to hangout at lunch , I've always hung out with my boyfriend in lunch but this school year he's decided to hang out with his friends also, it's not that I don't want him to hangout with his friends, it's that I have no friends who will hangout with me in lunch , I don't like asking my friends everyday to hangout in lunch because they hang out with their own boyfriends or best friends & it's a horrible feeling to hangout with them and be ignored. I feel like crying because I feel lonely most of the time
How do you make your best friend stop crying?
sometimes she just needs to cry it out, and sometimes it takes a lot longer. you're such a goood friend :) but if it's going on too long and she's too hopeless, try to crack some jokes, but don't be inappropriate with the timing on those. say some optimistic future-aimed stuff about the things she's stressing over. just, overall, comfort her when she needs it, and you'll get your reward in the future :) karma, my friend.
Lately, my friend is experiencing a lot of stress. Sometimes she starts crying for no reason. What should I do to help her?
From this point, you've figured out that Your friend is facing a really bad time and you're willing to help her! Cheers to that mate.And there are some tasks that you need to focus on.It appears that she's suffering from something that has happened in her past. And it clearly shows that she haven't spoke about it with anyone yet. (Or maybe with very few people)If you are going to help her, you need to find what's bothering her and be delicate about this because there are rooms for misunderstanding.Tell her you are here for her and you're ready to help her in overcoming those feelings. Don't force her to reveal her problems all of a sudden. She must willing to share with you.And if she did, you must find many ways as you can to help her. Because some problems have too many solutions.And don't do this expecting something in return. Just be there and help like real Friends do.Making her feel like you're with her in any hard times is the best cure.Good luck mate. Hope you'll find what's bothering her and solve that soon.
What does a true friend mean to you?
Okay I am going to give this a shot since I haven't had the best of luck in the friendship department lately. A true friend is someone who would walk a thousand miles to see you. A true friend is someone you can depend on to be there for you even if you are fighting. A true friend will answer your call at 3 am because your crying or upset or just need someone to talk to. A true friend beyond and above is all is someone you can feel comfortable telling your deepest darkest secrets and trust beyone anyone else. Hoped that helped!!!
I faked crying but now my friend wants to know what's wrong even though there's nothing. What do I say?
My youngest grandson uses the “fake cry” to manipulate in an attempt to get what he wants. I was taking care of him and his brother when he fake cried. I let it go for a couple of minutes, waiting for it to cease. Then, I called up to him on the second floor, and his fake cry immediately stopped. He even called down to me saying, “Nana, I’m all right.” Then, his fake crying resumed again! I’m gently confronting him and explaining how this probably won’t be something he wants to do because it won’t work now that he’s in first grade. He listens carefully…All I would ask is, how old are you, and how old is your “fake cry”?More important than this one incident is how you feel about your fake crying and whether you can recognize it as a pattern.If it’s a coping or manipulation mechanism then it’s time to decide if you want to change your behavior — perhaps with the help of a counselor who can help you understand the reasons behind this behavior and guide you towards more productive ones.