What is the most disgusting way you've seen someone treat their maid?
Where I live there is a lot of child labour. People in villages and countrysides and sometimes in the city can’t afford to feed their kids so they send them to work as help in houses. I had one friend who had a young girl, 13, and my friend made her work 16 hours a day with just a few minutes to eat and have a cup of tea. I asked her how she could treat this girl that way and she said she is doing her a favour by allowing the maid to work for her. I just looked at her in utter disbelief. My husband was with me at the time and he was pleading with me with his eyes not to say anything but how could I not? I told her she was an entitled, cold hearted, mean, uncaring, disgusting, disgraceful woman and I was ashamed to know her. Then I took the child brought her home with me and had her enrolled in school. She does a few chores around the house, dishes, washing my private clothes that can only be hand washed, watering plants and dusting floor. I have a small flat so it takes her about 15 mins to do the floors, private clothes are done 2x a week. My friend and I are no longer friends, obviously.This is not an isolated event. Maids, servants, drivers, are for the most part treated really badly. They are shown no respect, no kindness, no manners towards them. They are on call 24/7. There is also rampant abuse with the young children working, physical and sexual. People here have a deep sense of entitlement and a need for everything right now. I was at a restaurant a few weeks ago and there was this family, grandparents, parents, kids and a girl of about 15 who I assume was their “nanny”. Everyone was sitting around laughing, talking, eating, having good time. This girl was sat at another table and offered nothing, not even water or a soft drink.The people’s kids were little assholes and I ended up having to say something and then the wife spoke rudely to the “nanny” and told her take kids outside. It was close to midnight and ages of kids were about 2 to 10 years old. Way past their bed time. I’ve been living in this country for 15 years and all I have seen is it going consistently down hill. It is a real shame because there are lots of good people.I know my answer has kind of been all over the place. As I was typing this I kept thinking of more incidents that I’ve seen with how servants, maids, drivers etc are treated. So I’m sorry for that.
Have you ever been to someone's house and it was so dirty that you didn't want to use their bathroom?
Yes I have - my own.I'm going anonymous because I'm not at all sure my friends will want to visit my house again if they know about this!I have to start by assuring you that my home today is clean and tidy - not sterile, but clean. It was a different story when we first moved in. We knew that the previous owners were not particularly houseproud - it was obvious when we viewed the property before buying. However, we had no idea just how bad it really was until their clutter was gone and we had a chance to inspect things properly.Every toilet in the house was coated with a thick layer of grime. It took me 3 solid hours of scrubbing to clean the smallest bathroom, which only contains a toilet and sink - no bath or shower.The kitchen was coated with grease, even inside the cupboards. The floor was filthy, gritty and stained. Thankfully we had asked them to remove the oven as we wanted to bring our own, otherwise I'd probably still be cleaning that to this day.Behind every radiator was a solid mass of dust, hair and forgotten objects.In the overgrown garden, we found enough rubbish to fill our large wheelie bin.Every light fitting was so full of dust that it would rain down into the room at the slightest disturbance.The curtains which were left behind were so coated with grime and dog hair, it was difficult to tell what colour they originally were.I could go on. I have never worked so hard in my life as when I moved in and had to make this house livable.…Oh, and one of the first things I did was to buy all new toilet seats - there isn't enough bleach in the world to make me sit on the ones they left behind!
Can you describe the messiest room you have ever seen?
im not really sure if my descreption will be enough but this room had cups filled with soda everywhere they could sit some of the cups were used as ashtrays toys all over the place dirty and clean clothes thrown all over the room and they would actually just pick them up off the floor and wear them food on the floor and table and that was theyre living room theyre kitchen was worse they smell was disgusting the whole place smelled like a dirty bathroom because they never cleaned theyre bathroom if you walked into theyre bathroom you could actually see poop on the toilet there was puke on theyre floor they just never bothered cleaning up after themsleves and no i know what your thinking but it wasnt a young persons house these people were actually in theyre late 30's with a kid and this is not a joke i would walk in there and wanna throw up and this is not a joke these people are for real
What's the dirtiest house you've ever visited?
My sister in laws is absolutely disgusting. So much junk and fast food garbage all over the floor you can't even see the floor. They never take out their garbage. Then the baby crawls around in garbage. Not to mention animal filth.
What are the most disgusting conditions you've seen someone living in?
Do you really want to know? Because what I’ve seen didn’t have to be the way it was, and as an admitted slob, it made me sick to walk in it. My lovely. clean and neat brother lived for 48 years with an absolute pig. She never worked long enough to help him pay bills or buy groceries. She wouldn't clean house, and they left wet, nasty clothes for weeks to sour and rot in the floor, on the furniture, and wherever else there was to hold it. The floors soaked with moisture and the particle board in them rotted out, letting her fall through the floor several times. the kitchen linoleum had a white pattern, but under the table, where they sat and scrubbed their dirty feet, there were black, filthy layers of streaks. The pipes burst several times and my dad drug us all over to sit and watch him work to help fix them. We were all to disgusted to move, and held our urine for hours so we didn’t have to use their bathroom. Once, when we had brought some chips to eat because we knew we’d starve waiting, their little girls wanted some too, but their hands (surprise, surprise!!) were too dirty to stick in the bag, so their mother told them to wash their hands in the overflowed water from the toilet that was puddled in the floor. Of course, we gagged and gave them the rest of our precious bag of chips. I’ve been there, and trash would be stacked in bags around the floor with bags and bags of molded bread sitting there stinking up the house. They spent a few nights in our home during the winter, meaning they got my bedroom and it took a full week for their body odor to leave it. What would she be doing if you asked her in passing on the phone? Cleaning! My older brother died this fall, but my youngest one must’ve married her youngest sister because he has the same damn mess to contend with, plus a big grungy dog. Now excuse me while I go upchuck.
Whats the most disgusting thing you have ever done?
i pee'd on a frog once...not on purpose, i was pished as a fart, needed to pee, was walking across a field to get to my friends house, pulled down me knickers and pee'd and there was a frog looking up at me getting a golden shower. Don't hate me, you did ask!