I think my dad is having an affair?
First, theres nothing wrong with your picture, its pretty, dont pay any attention theres alot of jealous people on here... I Know its hurtful but you really need to tell your mom, she will find out sooner or latter and its better to find out now, your dads getting by with having your mom and something on the side and its not fair to your mom, she thinks everythings fine when its not, I know you said that the last time it hurt the whole family but its something you gotta do, dont let your mom be a fool for him any longer, she deserves to get out of that mess and find someone that will love and respect her like she desreves...they say once a chreater allways a cheater and its usually true, he got by with it once and now hes feeling like the cat that ate the canary because hes getting his cake and eating it to....I would tell my mom right away, talk to your brothers and sisters and just explain to then how your mom being with your dad is hurtful to her not a good thing, im sure when they realise what your dads about they will see its for the best for her to be away from him....good luck and I hope your mom finds hapiness soon
I think my mom is having an affair - what do I do?
ok so i know my parents marriage has been on the rocks lately - my dad accuses my mom of having another guy on the side. well my mom and i are very close - we tell each other everything and spend so much time with each other - but lately she's been distant. i mean - she says she's goin to work but doesn't come home until like two or three or four in the morning. and she's been coming home from her day shift later and later. she's always tired. now i know that's doesn't mean that she's having an affair but her behavior is starting to change and i just thought i was being overly suspicous but - today she feel asleep with her phone in her hand. i figured she had been setting her alarm for the moring so i took the phone from her hand and was about to close it when a text message popped up. it was from this guy that i know that happens to be a friend of hers. well i know i shouldn't have but i did - i opend the message and read it. now it said stuff like "i miss you. i love you. good night.". not really incrimanating but i started to read the other messages between her and her friend. the messages said stuff like "i miss you. i love you. you're so caring and understanding. when can we try out that ky jelly? see we can both make each other happy...." blah blah blah. now to me - it seems like her friend - is more than a friend. but i have no idea what to do. should i talk to her about those messages? should i tell my dad about this? i'm 14 and the oldest of three (two little bros - ages 8 and 11) i don't want this to ruin our family but i can't go on knowing that my mom could possibly be lying to me and my dad. HELP ME PLEASE!
I think my best friend and my mom are having an affair... And my mom is being secretive!!! HELP PLEASE!!?
I am a guy, and my best friend is a guy. I am 22, and he is 31. Anyway, ever since my car accident, he and my mom (who is married, YET), talk ALOT on the phone. My mom uses the excuse they care about me, and want to see whats best for me. Well I overheard a conversation they were having on the phone last weekend (I wasn't snooping, my mom left her bedroom door open and I was cleaning my bedroom) between the two. She said something to the extent of " I dont care what (My dad) thinks, he won't find out." I asked my mom who was on the phone, and she said her mother... Funny thing is, if you have nextel you know what I mean, my mom and best friend came up unavailable while my mom was on the phone, but the second my mom hung up my friend called me... Convenient? My question is this... Since my mom is going to be childish about this, what do I say to my friend to get him to tell me whats up? I know I shouldnt worry but its my family were talking about here... What do I DO???!!!
What should I do if I find out that my dad is having an affair?
The best thing to do would be to have a private conversation with your father where you can discuss the matter freely and honestly. Go to an empty park, or someplace private where you won’t be interrupted, and where there is no chance of your mother overhearing the conversation.When you talk to your father, do not be confrontational or judgmental. Simply tell him what you know (or what you THINK you know), and ask for his side of the story. He might be angry and say that it’s not your business—and he’s not completely wrong, but you should reply that you don’t wish to invade his privacy, but circumstances have made you involved now and that has to be addressed.Encourage him to be honest, and reassure him that you won’t judge him. You need to understand that affairs do not happen in a vacuum. Very often, there are circumstances that manifest in extramarital affairs, even among people who, themselves, would never have imagined that they would be involved in one in a million years. One need only spend a little time reading the posts on the Reddit forum “Dead bedrooms” to see a LOT of married people who were driven to affairs out of desperation and pain. Or, maybe your parents have agreed to have an open marriage. This is not something that they would have felt the need to inform you of, and they would have made an effort to keep that hidden as well.It is also possible, of course, that your father is simply being dishonorable (i.e. he is forsaking his marriage vows and his family for purely hedonistic reasons). Whatever the case may be, you will have to decide how to proceed. I will emphasize, again, to try not to be judgmental. As I said before, many people who end up having an affair would never have thought they would ever end up doing something like that. And you never know what difficult circumstances you will face, in some unknown future, where you could end up doing something you never imagined you would do. It is truly a case of, “There, but for the grace of God, go I.”I hope everything works out for you and your family. Good luck!
I think my uncle and my mom are having an affair. what should I do?
I think you should speak privately with your mother and tell her that seeing them together like that, while your father is away, makes you extremely uncomfortable and that you are even worried they might be having an affair. All of which is true. Tell her that what she seems to be doing affects not only her, but you, and even your father, whether he knows about it or not. I can't say for certain what else you should do...some say stay out of it, some say not, but I think that, depending upon how she answers you, I might tell her that she needs to stop doing this (she'll probably tell you its "nothing" and that you're making a mountain out of a molehill, etc.), or that you will tell your father about it. I'm pretty sure she wouldn't want that to happen ! I think she's playing with fire and that no good can come of it, if indeed there is something inappropriate going on, and it sure sounds that way to me. Good wishes,
Is my dad having an affair??
I think my dad is having an affair because I found some evidence and clues. #1: My sister found a receipt in his jean pocket from build a bear for this lady (I'm not gonna say her name) and he spent around 200 DOLLARS ON THIS LADY!! #2: I was going through my moms messages with my dad and last Sunday at 10:00 my dad was at "work" so on my moms messages at 10:07 last Sunday my dad randomly texted my mom out of the blue and said, "Love u babe so much" He probably sent that to my mom by accident!!!! #3: Every Sunday my dad takes us out shopping, drops us off at home, the goes to "work" EVERY TIME! #4: My mom and dad don't act like they're a couple, they don't connect, and it's really weird. Anyway so today is Sunday and my dad is going to take us shopping then drop us off so I have a plan. I'm going to pretend I left my phone in his car so when I get inside my house I'm going to go on my iPad go on find my iPhone and I'll track my phone and it'll give me the address to where he is and ill find out where he REALLY is. I'll let you guys know what happens. But do you think he's having an affair?
My mother is having an extramarital affair. What should I do?
First of all, let me praise your ability to maintain composure while this is happening and seeking answer here. However, it is your own life and the decision rests with you. So, I would like to recommend looking all the answers and then taking a decision after weighing your options.I am not surely if I am the right person to answer this question, but I will attempt one nevertheless. As you have not clearly defined the situation, I would rather give out a general answer while considering all the possible scenarios:1. Your mom is single/dad passed away/parents are divorced (or separated): If the situation falls in one of these cases, then you may have to come to terms with your acknowledgement of the situation. Your mother is after all a human being with desires and needs. Moreover, every one requires companionship. Therefore, I would suggest you to change your thoughts about the relationship. Further, I would also suggest you to have a talk with your mother and ask her about the whole matter. This will help you and your mother come closer as a family and the bond that exists between you will be further strengthened.2. Your parents are married: If this is the situation, I can understand that the feeling of anguish will be killing you. If your parents are married, and your mother is seeking companionship elsewhere, it surely is a matter of grave concern since it eventually will affect your future. Chances are that the affair may die out after a while, but the most probable outcome is that it will not work out well between your parents.The best possible solution here is to talk to your mother, alone. Ask her the reason of whatever is happening and if your father knows about this. Remember, it is not you, but them who would require a marriage counselor Do not blame yourself for the situation and find out a proactive way out. It may be possible that you may come to know of something that may justify such an action on your mother's part. If your father already knows about it, I would suggest you to ask them to visit a counselor, at least for the sake of your future. If he doesn't, the best possible way out is to ask your mother to give up her activities since that may surely lead to your family getting destroyed. All said and done, I am sure that you are a mature person who will take an educated decision in this regard! Wish you all the best!!
My mom is having an affair and keeps denying it?
I love my mom and dad and I don't think I can live without the both of them. I don't really have the courage to talk about it with her. I can't do it. I'm not brave enough. I already talked to my dad about this and he said that let her do what she wants. I'm just worried that my mom might transfer all our wealth and lands into her name and nothing would be left for my dad. My dad is hanging on because of me and my siblings. He wants us to be complete and I know that its not easy for him to accept what's my mom doing. As for my mom, she's still nice and buys us what we want and would always support me when I have swim meets. Always there for me when I have problems. But what the hell is she doing to our family? Why is she doing to us? My dad does everything and is hella working hard for us. My dad is a good man and the best one. My mom actually has everything and what went wrong? Why is she cheating on us? I ****** hate it! I keep thinking about it and I want to be able to help.