How can I get my social life back at 20?
You have changed in some ways that altered the situations you were comfortable in. Sometimes you can and or may want to revert back to the ways you were, sometimes you cannot and or may not want to. You need to ask yourself “What has changed and is it something I want to change back”. If it is then ask yourself “Is it possible to change back”? You may want to explore this new situation you find yourself in. You can embrace the opportunities this provides you. You should now have more time and energy to begin to find out that who you are is not determined by who you hang out with. You can choose to be positive, find that this is hard because you are not experienced in this situation but in time, you will have adapted and can choose more experiences that will enrich your life.
How can i regain my social life back?
Well, without that much information is difficult to advise you. Or even compose something believable.But I would suggest:Try to find out what triggered your breakdown - it could be related to a family argue, broken relationship (love or not), depression, etc.*Put the puzzle pieces together and get yourself together too.Simulate or even try to trick your brain with the idea that you are really happy. Thus it will trigger automatically the production of endorphins, neurotransmitters, and all that good chemical stuff that makes you happy. (Heal Your Mind) *edited to sustain what has been stated*If you can't do it on your own, just call for some help with a therapist.Time is your friend. But don't let it take too much. Live.Don't take that situation too seriously because we all have ‘that fire’ inside us. Almost everyone has already got into a situation like that. Although that fire is sometimes hidden, continue to search and apply importance to that rejoiced ‘fire’, not the way around.Listen to music.* Try to find out the best way to understand why you entered that state of non-humor and WORK it from there.Hey! Or maybe you're just getting old. :pGOOD LUCK!To inspire: Baz Luhrmann - Everybody's Free To Wear Sunscreen
Does getting held back affect your social life?
Well, it's not easy. If your classmates still behave like children, it's no wonder that this situation makes you feel uncomfortable... But you should not feel depressed. I don't know why you didn't go to school for a year, but it's still just a year! I don't think that your life would be that much different. You think that your peers are immature because you are mature and this should make you feel proud. Cheer up! You have to believe in yourself and enjoy your youth...do you really want to turn 50 and still be thinking on "how my life could have been different"? It's your life, you are creating it, day by day. :)
I want my social life back?
My mom moved us across town to some isolated subdivision that nobody really knows or cares about (long story), and all of my friends live at least 15 minutes away though we're all in the same town. She's always all up my *** about me making friends in the neighborhood, which I don't really want because all of my neighbors are snobby preps but if you'd like to also tell me how to learn how to talk to a snobby prep without wanting to shoot yourself then go ahead, but anyway. My best friend lives 20 minutes away and we got into trouble together awhile ago so we can't hang out together. We went to our hearings & we did our sentences, so now everything's over with but she still won't let us hang out. She tells me to either "stick with my school friends or make friends in the neighborhood" Friends in the neighborhood is out of question; I hate all of my neighbors. Friends from school is almost completely out of the question because they claim that they "prefer a quiet lifestyle" and they "don't get out much". So, uh. Any helpful hints on how to get a ******* social life dealing with my annoying mother, snobby neighbors, antisocial friends, and my best friend who I can never hang out with. Thanks in advance, I guess.
How do I get my life back together?
I'll try to keep this short as possible + don't be rude or mean please: I'm 13. I'm in 8th grade. I have no social life because I was bullied in 5th grade (threats and name-calling) and lost social interest in 5th & 6th. I basically closed everyone out, and the suckish part is people cared and I pushed them away, now they don't care at all. I really started to hate life and wanted to commit suicide (I have depression and anxiety disorder) but sometimes I think that maybe I could fix all of this before I kill myself? or maybe if this is fixed I won't? My parents hate me, in fact they talk about disowning me. I can't stand my little sister, shes bitchy, bratty, tries to make me look bad. My brother is basically the favorite. (well he is, my mom even said so) he's super shy and timid but he gets straight A's and does everything my mom says so, he doesn't even have a damn opinion. He has an iPhone 5 & Xbox and ******* whatever he wants! I don't get ****. Not even my cell. I'm not even allowed to use a ******* computer! I basically ate chips and watched tv the whole summer. (Lost my 3 inch thigh gap. Yay! not...) I barely get by anyway in school, I never have a partner for projects, I hide in the bathroom when I have no one to eat with (can you spell loser?) and I'm socially awkward. 1. How do I get my parents to like me more than my brother? (don't tell me I'm a bad person k) 2. How do I get my bratty bitchy little sister off my back? 3. How do I get taller? 4. How do I make friends? 5. How do I get straight A's if I have OCD and have no self esteem whatsoever 6. How do I convince my parents to get me a cell phone? 7. How do I get people to like me? 8. How do I stop the "short" jokes? 9. How can I be more organized? 10. HOW CAN I GET MY LIFE TOGETHER?
My social life is dead?
Im almost 17 and ever since i moved from the city i grew up in just before i turned 13 ive never really fit in or like felt alive like i usto. Before i moved i had lots of froends i was social and out there i usto talk to girls even invite them over was known to be funny... I was happy always had someone around but know for the past 3 years i just sit in my room dead bored almost every weekend dont have school frends as i dropped since i never fit into my new school and was sorta a loner and my trade school most of the people are much older than me though ive had a few mates here and ther but just never really got close, seriously all i have is my family and im scared im going to fail at life, im bored deperessed and slowly becoming more prone to anxiety this move didnt impact my brother and sister though just me i dno i miss my old life so much i even have better conversations with frends from 4 years ago than people from the area Sorry if i dragged it on im just cant understand how this is happening as i never thought itll happen to me as i was really social and happy wen i was younger and also ive had feelings for this girl from my old city for years and cant get over her, we only speak rarely. And im depressed woth the fact that i missed out on girlfriends partys drinking up..... I was always into that just never seemed to worl out since the move What can i do :(
How do I get my social life in school back?
To be precise your 'social life' here as you mentioned, are Girls.If this a social circle you are expecting after concentrating on your studies you are doing a mistake. You should seek for this social circle after being a successful millionaire. not now. As now you do not have much to loose. You will be in bad situation. As then you will be having nice fortune o loose and learn.
How do i restart my social life?
Hey :-) You want a social life? You want to be noticed? Laughed at - for the good reasons :) And the girl guys would die for and girls want to be?? Well, first I'm going to blunt from the bat. Has anybody every called you pretty? (Parents DO count) If they have, then continue reading... Be willing to step outside your Comfort Zone. You have to be willing to put yourself out there-- make jokes, flirt, start up conversations. At first they might find you shallow or weird, but hey you gotta start someone? Be Yourself and DON'T worry about what ANYBODY thinks other than BEING friendly. Be friendly to everyone. Include everyone, be nice to teachers, peers, coaches, even chat up the councelour. Get to know them and get them to know you :D Talk to everyone and anyone who crosses your path smile and say hello, if they ignore you, shrug your shoulders. Keep topics light -- nothing indepth like politics. Respect people's privacy don't pry. Dress good> Wear sweet outfits - what you could do is look up runway walk videos and analyze the style they use, you could put together some really cute stuff by observing might even help you come up with the next in-style. Know everyone has flaws, BE Confident about it. Just because you don't like something doesn't mean it has to rule your life. Don't be pushy, but don't be afraid to add to the conversation. Smile :D