My Girlfriend (poem) asap?
The author's mother died and it's hard to forgive, because he/she always expected mom to be there when life continued, by the sentence "Life is the fruit she longs to hand you". It's just a poem about grieving.
How can you get BPD girlfriend back after she cut you off?
Ironically the best thing to do is nothing. Calling, writing to, crossing paths etc will make things worse. Firstly, if you’re dating a borderline, be prepared for the sudden cut-offs. It’s probably the most common trait. Secondly, you have to remind yourself these actions cannot be taken personally. You haven’t done anything wrong. Even if she gave, or gives you a reason for leaving, it’s more than likely an excuse she feels justifies her leaving.Setting you up to fail is one defence mechanism of many. Manipulation is another. She will always be looking for something you’ve done wrong (in her eyes), and it could be the smallest thing. And if she finds nothing she can create it. Again, this isn’t an attack against you, rather another defence mechanism.If you decide to pursue the relationship, you need to understand her disorder. Simple google searches can find you plenty of information on all aspects including dating a borderline, and the more you read, the better equipped you’ll be. It’s impossible to comprehend someone else’s trauma. Some people can’t comprehend their own trauma. In that case they can seem irrational, to say the least.There’s no secret formula for dealing with this. You will have to sacrifice a lot of your needs to accommodate hers. No relationship is equal. One with BPD may be extreme, but if you know what you’re dealing with and care for this person, it can only help.DO NOT take her personal attacks personally.DO NOT be tempted to contact her in these situations.When/if she comes back forget about the “reason” she left. It wasn’t really the reason. She may act as though it never happened. In between these episodes will be times your support and understanding will be crucial. The amount of time she leaves will vary, but in my experience it was usually less than a month. Unfortunately, i found the closer we got the more extreme her episodes, and now it’s been 5 years apart. If i knew what i know now things “may” be different. At least i wouldn’t have beaten myself up about it. Just remember why she has this disorder.It takes an unthinkable act to damage someone so. Even professional therapists struggle with borderlines, but that’s no reason to abandon them. Some will label you co-dependent, but if you can limit the impact on your own well being through knowledge it will be all the more worthwhile. I’m not encouraging you, just offering some insight if you choose to continue.
How can I get my ex girlfriend back when she has no feelings for me, but wants to remain just friends?
You don't get her back being the way you are right now! The way you are clearly behaving is turning your ex girlfriend OFF you! You are desperate! This desperation makes the chances of a reconciliation very small indeed. This is the best way forward for you if you are prepared to go the distance and hopefully secure your ex girlfriends heart again: You tell your ex girlfriend that being friends with her is too difficult for you. You END your friendship immediately! That's correct! You are reading these words effectively. You do not contact your ex girlfriend in any way following the ending of your friendship. Your ex girlfriend has to start missing you. How can she do this if you remain friends? Who in their right mind chooses to stay friends with a former romantic partner? I tell you who: Someone so desperately insecure. Someone so desperately needy! Someone who's behaviour borders on stalkerish/obsessional. You end this sham of a friendship now! You then destroy all tangible memories of your ex. Be that gifts, photos, love letters, anything that reminds you of your ex! You then START AGAIN WITHOUT your ex. You build up your physical and (crucially), emotional strength again. You get your act together. Your relationship is DEAD! That relationship is consigned to the annals of history. You do not seek out your ex on social media or anywhere for that matter. You will have days, weeks, and probably months of incredible pain WITHOUT your ex in your life. But here's the pay off: Your ex WILL start to MISS you. She'll be curious as to how your life is going. She'll be so confused by the fact that you HAVEN'T contacted her. Her attraction to you will grow! This is what you need. You need your ex to be drawn once again to you. Now do as I say and you will be fine. Carry on being the begging, pleading, desperate ex stuck in the friend zone, and you will be there for ALWAYS! You will be there while other men have a relationship with her. You MUST end your pathetic ‘friendship’ right now. Otherwise, let me know in 6 months how this friendship is getting on! See my point? Read this advice carefully please. You will not receive better advice anywhere. My final word: To win something back, you have to lose it first! Lose it completely that is! Now go and be a proper man and do as I advise please. Take care.
How do I get back ex girlfriend when all hope seems lost?
NOW RAISE YOUR VALUEA first step to get your girl is to restore your value. This is important because being in demand is what makes you precious. If you fall on all fours and beg your girlfriend to accept you back then unfortunately the opposite effect occurs: she will reject you.This is simple human psychology understandable by any trader or seller. If something is in demand and you have to fight to get it then you end up give it more value.You will have the best chance of success by immediately restoring your value and to do so, send to your ex-girlfriend a short handwritten letter or a text message. In other words, you tell him that you gave him time and space, you accept the breakup and I hope that you stay happy, but maybe I will miss you. If anything was wrong from my side then I apologize and take care. With this trick she will go crazy and since you have contacted her that you have accepted the breakup she will become curious and with this letter your value will increase. To become more valuable in front of her read the next step.YOUR SOCIAL LIFEThe profile picture that you add on any social network should not use images with a sad face or any sad quotes about love and anything that is related to your relationship. Instead if you want to boost your value then add some of your fun and adventurous images on landscapes, favorite bands or that sort of thing. You must use a picture of where you see yourself smiling and having fun. A useful trick is to use pictures with bright colors. Researches and surveys have shown that after breakups the ex partner usually stalks on their social networks. So take this opportunity as a plus point to bring her back from new boyfriend she has at present.more information : get ex girlfriend back
Write me a text to get my ex girlfriend back?
Can someone please write a text that I can send to my ex girlfriend and get her back. We broke up last week we had been fighting for the last few weeks but now I realise she is the one. We didn't speak for a week then she text me yesterday getting up me about my drunk friend calling her to go back with me. I stayed calm in the texts and eventually she did too. We text almost all day and night and when I said that I picked up a girl but didn't do anything she said Cool so now ur on the rebound trying to be a sleaze. I think i just vomited in my mouth. No more u hurt me enough just dnt talk to me anymore, please Shes a strong girl and the I love you and miss you won't do it for her I need a text that will blow her mind and make her want to come back asap. She's currently doing a cost drive with a male friend so she says and she said she doesn't love me and has moved on but you don't move on after 7 months that quick and it sounded like she got jealous when I told her about the girl Please help please write the text and I will copy it and send it to her she's a hard one so please write something that she's never heard before and will make her forgive me for taking her for granted and not being nice towards the end Thanks heaps
How do I kick my girlfriend and her kid out of my house or should I report her instead?
My girlfriend made a false report behind my back and said i have vicious dogs of course they determined my dogs are not vicious and left. Now I have to kick the wench out of my house How can I do that ASAP? she has lives with me for 6 months and I pay all the bills and she does not work .....and if I can't kick her out soon then My lawyer Friend told me I could report her for child neglect and he would be put in a foster home. PART 2.....HOW IT ALL STARTED My girlfriend told me that I should put her Abusive Son first before my 2 boys .......She is a live in girlfriend and was a possible fiance until she told me that I should put her almost 4 year old son first before my two boys (my Dobermans Troy & Mike) After one of them bit her bratty abusive son that she failed to supervise properly while i was at work .ALSO PLEASE NOTE THAT My girlfriends kid has hit/slapped Troy & Mike (the dogs) and was told never to ever do that again And I told my girlfriend to NEVER leave her kid alone
My girlfriend broke up with me this morning and I want her back. What can I do?
Sounds like she needs some space.I would start with some no contact for a while (1–2 months) and just leave some space and time between you too. This will give both of you time to really think about things and help put things in perspective for both of you. Space is important and respectful and will help you in the long run by simply giving the person space to think…In the mean time I would work on yourself — Think about how you contributed to the break up. Take a course, go outside join a group, whatever! Just get out and do things for yourself! This will help distract you in the mean time during the no contact stage and will help build up some confidence and portray to the the world and her that you are doing well and changing (always helps in the long run). When she does come back you need to be a changed man you cant expect her to come back and do the same thing again… The cycle will just keep repeating itself.In a month or so I would reach out casually…. I would same something small and funny about something you both have in common or some kind of memory that will make her smile and remember good times together! After this I would try and build back communication slowly and build momentum to get back together!If you are serious about getting back together I would suggest you check out this program - GET EX BACK HERE - I got my ex back from this program and it really helpedRead My Full Review of The Program - HERE[1]Footnotes[1] Honest "Ex Factor Guide" By Brad Browning Review - "I Got My Ex BACK" -