Why is my 11 year old sister such a spoiled brat?
omg set her sraight
How To Deal With Bratty In Law Sister?
I am expecting, this is our first and I've noticed from the begining my fiance's little sister has been very rude & bratty. It all started when I first shared the news to his family, she was there at the table & then replied, are you sure you're pregnant? This is coming from a 10 year old girl. (Seriously!) A little after, she entered my fiance's room when he was at his parents & layed next to him as I was on the other side & then asked, who does he love more? Me or her? I then explained to her that he loves us both. I said, She as his sister & me as his soulmate. Also, about a month ago she mentioned some weird questions, one that stood out the most & shocked me very. "What would I do, if I was stranded in the ocean? Would I give my fiance & baby away if it was my only survial? That was off the wall, most defientley & not to mention those questions lasted a good thirty minutes till my fiance finally told her to hush. It was after she mentioned the words, but you would die. Since then, I have had problems with her but try my best, & now that I am so far along, to keep away from preterm labor I don't go over much to his parents due to comments & keep his parents away from our place as well. Not only does his little sister make comments, his mother as well & other family when they are visiting during holidays. My main concern is her since she is little & I cannot tell her nothing back unlike the adults, if I ever decide to strike back, I know I can defend myself when a comment is made. I find her now wanting to give her stuff to baby which really annoys me. My fiance is aware & tells his parents that it's fine, but when mommy & little sister come over they still have the items with them. Should I say something next time I find myself in a situation with the little sister as well as the parents/ other family members? I have this feeling that since it has not got any better over time, that it's just going to get worse. Not to mention their first grandbaby is almost here. I need help people cause I'm on the verge of speaking my mind to them all.
What can I do about the bratiness of my 7 year old sister?
What a sibling (A) can do to stop another sibling (B) from unwanted behavior is to have a private talk with both parents when B is not present. Parents need to be 100% absolutely consistent in their approach to stopping unwanted behavior. Consistency is key. Targeted behaviors will change quickly only with parental consistency. The objectionable behaviors should be identified. The exact moment the objectionable behavior begins, it must be stopped. The whole world for that child (B) should stop. Parents should redirect the focus of B, by saying "Your behavior is not acceptable."Every time B misbehaves, once the unwanted behavior has stopped, parent(s) and B need to talk privately about why B did or said X and parent(s) need to help B identify preferred behaviors for B --instead of what B actually did. So -- what a sibling should do is to show both parents this answer, and ask them to follow these suggestions exactly before bad behavior becomes B's habit. It isn't your job to parent a sibling. It is your job to train parents to be more consistent as parents.
What to do about my spoiled bratty sister?
My sister is 10 and I'm 16. My mom always sides with her. Usually if there is any conflict between us, my mom doesn't want to hear it or deal with it at all and just automatically takes my sister's side and yells at me to leave my sister alone or even grounds me when she doesn't even know what was going on and she won't let me say anything. This happens a lot when my dad is deployed (he's in the Air Force). Last time he was gone for a year and it got so bad that I started cutting and contemplating suicide. My sister treats me like crap and my mom only encourages her, but if I say anything or get upset about it I get punished. I found a dirty cooking pan after my sister had done the dishes on her turn and I told her because she had done this before and she just started screaming at me to leave her alone. Then my mom walked in and started yelling at me, and I tried to tell her that I was just trying tell my sister about the dirty pan and my mom said my sister had the right to yell at me because I was being an "annoying a-s-s hole!" Once my mom was out shopping and I had to stay home and watch my sister. I was told not to let her have any snacks until she ate dinner with a vegetable and my sister tried to stab me with a pair of scissors because I took a gogurt from her. My mom didn't believe me and grounded me for the red marks on my sisters wrists from when I held her because she kept hitting, kicking, biting me. She didn't believe that either. My sister tries to force me to do things by saying that if I don't she 'll tell my mom that I did something bad that I didn't and she would believe her. Now we're moving again and my mom wants to give my sister the big room "because I always get the big room." I have the small room now, which couldn't fit my dresser so she gave it to my sister and gave me crappy little one that doesn't fit my clothes. My friends and other family also notice this and the way my sister treats me, so it's not just in my head
My little 9 year old sister is too sassy for me and my sibs. What should be done?
and just HOW is your little sister being sassy? Some examples can help.Is your sister the youngest child? If so, she’s probably defending her own space from you and the others. Or maybe she wants attention.Is there any truth to what your parents do to you & your brother? Do you order your sis about, and she refuses, for instance?Just askin’. You might be better off if you look to your own actions and reactions instead of blaming your sis or your parents. As an older child, it’s likely that you’re expected to behave better, at least better than your sis.And if you and others are bossing her around, do you have your parents approval to do this? If not, then your sis gets sassy, maybe along the lines of “you’re not in charge of me”, etc. So you’re annoyed that she doesn’t respect you.Gee, that’s too bad. It’s what little sisters do, and often. Little brothers do it, too, usually even more often. Ask your friends, see what THEY say, and what they’ve learned.I had an older brother, a really bossy & mean older sister, and 3 younger brothers. Adjustments in the family hierarchy were frequent.Don’t boss your sis, and you’ll get a lot less sass. You really aren’t her boss.
MY SISTER IS A HUGE SPOILED BRAT!! please help!?
ok, first of all: im not one of those bratty teens who whines about everything and thinks everything is sooo unfair. this is serious, and even all my aunts and uncles and other relatives see this. so i have 2 sisters: ages 8 and 9. the 9 year old is a spoiled brat. she can get away with anything. such as, she stole money from my mom. she GOT AWAY with it! like, she got in trouble, but she had absolutley no punishment whatsoever. no grounding, just about 10 minutes of yelling. she is allowed to talk to me (im 13) disrespectfully, like she can yell at me and even helps my mom with my PUNISHMENTS. its annoying because she thinks shes so much better than me or that im inferior to her. she's also waaay too confident with herself. i mean, self confidence is good right? well, she takes it overboard and thinks she rules everyone. she is very overweight, and my mom is always telling her that her body is perfect, and barely even encouages her to eat healthy! however, with me, im somewhat thin, and my mom says im ugly because of it (im not anorexic or anything, in fact the doc said i was normal weight, but i look thin because i'm mostly muscle.) she also gets failing grades in school. my mom doesnt care about that either. she can get away with C's and D's and sometimes even F's. i can't even get away with a B. and on top of all this my sister is allowed to tease me and make me feel bad about my acne (its pretty mild, but its noticable sometimes when im stressed out). she is allowed to talk about me behind my back to her friends and my mom can be right there and not care. im not allowed to say anything at all about her behind her back (i wouldnt, even though i am right now...lol) she also has a cell phone, ipod, and a laptop!!! she didnt even work for them or deserve them! i got an ipod because it was my birthday and i had straight a's in school. i got a cell phone for emergencies. and i got a laptop because we get a discount thru my school and im in the GATE program, so it is highly reccommended. my sister got all these things without lifting a finger. my aunts, uncles, grandparents, cousins, and friends all see how my mom treats me differently and thinks she is very spoiled. sometimes when i go to my aunts house alone she will just shake her head about my sister. please help me, i dont know how to make this stop!!! ps. sorry for the wall of text i am beyond angry right now.
How to deal with boyfriends bratty little sister?
I love my boyfriend who is 24 but his sister who is 10 annoys me so much. She acts so innocent in front of her family but when its just me and her she says such rude comments! She told me how she thinks I am fat, how she hates girl who have pony talis even though she knows I always keep my hair in a pony tail. Overall she acts very snobby. Even his mom always tries to top whatever I say. It gets really annoying. Should I bring it up to my boyfriend or just ignore it?
How do I effectively punish a bratty 4-year-old who refuses to do anything I tell her, like not hitting her sister?
Is the child your child? If not then you should not be punishing or disciplining the child at all. You should be establishing boundaries that will keep all children under your supervision relatively safe and reasonably protect any valuable personal property. The safety of the children is the priority, not the personal property. If you are the parent or legal guardian of the child you should be practicing discipline. This also hinges on appropriate boundaries, but it's primary foundation is relational. If the child is yours I hope that you love them and that you are devoted to their ultimate good and success. As such, they will not bear good fruit if they are a tyrant, boorish or persistently insubordinate. Whatever rules you establish for your child are aimed a cementing the certainty of your relationship with the child. The consequences for breaking rules should highlight the danger of living independently of the family and the security of being part of the family. In order for this to be most successful it is crucial that you model whatever standards you establish. Parenthood is an arduous and high calling.At no point should you punish any child. The purpose of punishment is exclusion for gross violations of relational expectations. You punish a thief, murderer, or other criminal. All consequences should be delegated to an relational authority within their social context.