My friend is mad at me, what should I do?
Ask them why they are mad at you. (If they refuse to tell you, it is apparently their problem. Nothing will get resolved if they just ignore you)If it is something you did wrong, you can either apologize or explain yourself. Do whatever works in the situation, but be sure if you are explaining yourself to explain the situation/misunderstanding/etc. in a logical, convincing way. Don’t just spew/yell/scream pathetic shit.If they continue acting like they are mad at you even after you apologize (or explain yourself) than just walk away. Wait for them to leave their state of self pity.Above all, just stay calm as another human being that is “mad” at you should be nothing to lose any sleep over (unless they are going to murder you, to which I say, if you know they are going to murder you either get far away or know how to protect yourself. Surely it is not that bad though)
Why is my friend mad at me?
Lately my friend has been hanging out with another group of friends. I'm totally okay with that. However than today she texted me asking if we could hang out today. One problem: I already had plans with someone else. So then I asked texted her back saying "Sure, but I already made plans with someone else, is it okay if she comes with us?" She than blew up and started saying how we barley spend enough time together, etc. Now she's mad at me. Any advice?
My imaginary friend is mad at me..help!!?
last weekend we all went out me, him and his girlfriend. we went dancing at this really cool club. after a couple drinks he started to get drunk and tired. he didnt want to dance anymore but his girl friend did so i danced with her. she started grinding on me really hard and she kept going for my goods. shes really hot so i kind of gave in and put my hands in some places i shouldnt have. he saw it and before he could say anything the bouncers threw us out 4 no reason.they kept calling us crazy and never come back. but then my imaginary friend attacked me from behind. i hate it when people do that so i really laid him out. it got bloody and he ended up in the hospital. now he wont talk to me cause i kicked his as* and felt up his girl,which he has every reason to be. but i feel really bad and cant even apologize cause he doesnt want to see me. this sucks hes my only friend and im really sorry..what do i do!?
My friend is mad at me and won't tell me why, what do I do?
Ask somebody else whom he is close to as to what the reason is .Evaluate what you did or don't do over the past few weeks that may have made him.and at you.Did you say something that you haven't told him that he has got to know ?Ask any common friends
My best friend is mad at me! What should I do?
say it up front. doesn't matter what you want to do its about what you need to do. you hurt your best friend that you really care about so the least you could do is go up to him and say sorry and that you didn't mean it. && i know that those comments probably made you feel awful because they would have made me feel the same way too but in a way you deserved them. now, if what he said in the comments was too far off from what really was then nicely and gently say: "hey man, look- i'm sorry okay? i didn't mean to hurt you or dicth you- if that's the way you feel about what happened. you're my best friend andi would never do that to you. i'm sorry you feel that way but most of all, i'm sorry that i made you feel that way. you can tell me off, because i deserve it, but please don't tell me it like that. i understand you're pissed but those texts really got to me & they really hurt me. in a way i did deserve it, but in no point do i think i did something so cruel to you." but once again, you're the one in the situation so you know what this is all about, what he said & did and what you said & did so you should know what to say too.
My friend is mad at me and I don't know why . . . ?
Well it sounds like Jill is mad at you for the same reason she was mad at you last time and Tanya is going along with her. I suggest trying to apologize to Jill weather she listens replies to you or not. At least you'll be making the effort there. As far as them being mad at you for ignoring them when your other friends are around, I would try including them a little more. Like when you're waiting for your other friends after class be like,"Hey Jill - Tanya: Wait up, come and walk with us." Or include them in conversations when your other friends are around. Prompt Jill or Tanya to start telling a story while your other friends are around so that maybe they can get to know them too, and not feel as left out. Something like this. be like oh man this one time we were at (such and such place) and we were (doing whatever...) and (something funny that happened...) and then be like "Oh Jill/Tanya tells it better...." and let them pick up where you left off so that they get to be involved with you and your other friends at the same time. Well good luck and I hope I helped!!!
My friend is mad at me for spoiling a book and now she won't help me with Chemistry, what do I do?
The same thing happened to a group of us. We were in a sales meeting to discuss our distribution plan for a film based on a novel by a very well-known and widely read author. At the end of our meeting, a female colleague who obviously had read the book, said “He [the main male character] died in the end, you know.” Well, no we didn’t, but we did then. Are you sure this is the reason for her negative behavior? I assume that you have apologized for making this mistake and have told her you understand why she would be upset. Be sure and make it clear to her that you certainly did not do it on purpose. Here comes the good part. If she truly is a friend, as you maintain, she should accept your explanation and completely forgive you. To be truthful, I can’t understand why she is making such a big deal about it. It’s not like you have spoiled something monumental for her. I am sure you can find a better friend or classmate who will be happy to help you with your chemistry, or ask your teacher for a recommendation.
My best friend, who was there for me when my ex hurt me, is now mad at me because I dated him again. How long will my friend be mad at me?
Thanks for the A2A, but you may not care for my answer.I'm not surprised your girlfriend is mad at you. She must be feeling pretty abused right now. She can probably see that, unless your ex has changed dramatically, and you too, you are headed in the same direction again. People repeat the lessons until they get the learning. But does she really want to have to steer you through all that again? I doubt it. She will probably say 'no, been there, done that. This time you are on your own, honey.'I have no doubt she thought she was helping you to overcome your ex and move on. To get some wisdom in life and to grow from this. But you, it seems, were being fickle. You asked for help or expected it, or took it anyway, and then went back to someone who hurt you.... to her it must seem as if you have not got any learning at all and as if you think she is just there to prop you up whenever you need it. It is one thing to expect a friend's support, but it is quite another to make them accountable for your lack of learning. This is very draining in any relationship - be careful about how you treat your friend. You need to make a decision about whether you wish to be with your ex, but if you go back, don't expect your friends to want to be on the big dipper with you or to bail you out emotionally afterwards. This is the behaviour of a child and your question 'how long on average will she be mad' indicates how immature this attitude is. It is also a mark of great disrespect to your friend, who tried to help you. Try showing some sensitivity...What strikes me about your question the most is your willingness to disrespect yourself. You quite clearly hold your own heart in such low esteem that you would go back for more hurt. I have a feeling you have not gained any learning and will get hurt again. I would also not be surprised if you lose a girlfriend over this.
Why does my friend get mad when I cut myself?
Because your friend is a good friend.My son was a cutter. When he tanked his 2nd semester at college, he told my husband & I that he found out his girlfriend was engaged in a relationship with her professor & he took it very hard & started cutting himself.He showed us his body & I have never been so angry with him. I had to leave the room. He knew I was ticked off. When I came back I told him how I slaved for years to keep him from scarring (he’s very pale skinned & keloids easily) & he carves himself up. He gave me the knives he used, still with blood on them. I still have them. He asked about 10 yrs ago if I threw them out. I haven’t still.What you are cutting yourself over trying to pull your mental pain into physical pain doesn’t work. You need a therapist to find out what it is that is hurting you.And don’t be angry, your well being obviously is important to your friend. And that’s a great kind of friend to have. You are blessed.