How should I sabotage my sister's wedding?
She has bullied me from when I was young and her fiancé now is in fact a man I once prusued. After all these years of pain and suffering, I can't let her have a lavish wedding ceremony and ride off with her handsome blonde prince into the sunset. I need to take my revenge on her, and I've already got a few plans: - Put laxatives into her extravagant wedding cake and foods so that everyone will be having diarrhoea for hours. - Sneak in and ruin her expensive wedding dress. - Be merciful to all the guests and instead place HEAVY laxatives in her breakfast. - I want to make her slip while walking down the aisle, but I'm not sure how? Which one(s) should I put in action? And I'm not being vengeful, SHE caused me to be still unmarried!
My older sister wants me?
say NOOOO in the future when you get married to someone that is (hopefully) NOT your sister, do you want them to know that your first time having sex was with your SISTER?! do you know how grosssss that is? incest! what if she accidentally gets pregnant? totally mutilated demented alien children, that's what happens. good luck explaining that to your parents.
My sister-in-law has a lot of control over my husband and she is very mean to me when he is not around. What should I do?
I went through this for years. Cut off his sister and any other in-law that instigates the situation. If you have kids then limit your contact (I don’t have kids so it made it easier to do so) Tell your husband to meet her on his own, but you can’t be disrespected in your own home or anywhere by her. I take it your husband does not believe you or he makes excuses for her behavior….a terrible feeling I knew it well. After I cut off his sister, I felt a peace. Don’t be surprised if your are viewed as the bad guy by your husband and your in-laws for a long while afterward though. Men are weak in the head when it comes to their family—it can take them years to realize/admit how horrible they are all because they feel if they verbalize their disdain of their actions; it will lead to them hating their own family and they don’t like that—-it makes them feel that they are not being loyal to them….Honestly if men love their families more than their own wife, they should just stay with their families and never marry. Yes I told my husband this once and he said nothing. He clearly knows he won’t be happy if he has to live with his family lol. Only when my husband and I were mistreated by his sister f(or her imaginary reasons) only then for the first time this year he supported me. We were married in 2012 btw…Answer should not be reproduced outside of Quora by individual who is not the author.
Toxic younger sister?
If it helps I'm in a similar situation as you, but I'm 18 and my younger sister is 16. Try and ignore your sister and talk to your mum about how it's making you feel, I'm sure she wouldn't want you to be unhappy. Try and spend as much time as possible with your friend and boyfriend, and avoid your sister because she's probably jealous of you so is trying to bring you down. Good luck!
I do not get along with my younger sister at all. I am always nice to her, but she still says mean things to me. What do I do?
You get along great with your sister by always being nice to her—the problem is her not you. What you need to do here is to ignore her for an x-amount of time because she is displaying jealousy of you to you. Only answer her when she approaches you with a question to you. Otherwise, you need to leave her alone to her own demise, this will force her to think—about you! Her own self-sabotaging thoughts about you will either worsen and cause her to feel abandoned by you or if she’s a thinker she’ll know you’ve had enough of her nonsense and this may or may not straighten her out. The idea is to let her come to you and this will be an indication of self-healing on her part. When she does come to you—it’s up to you to let her know you love her as your younger sister and you only want to help her in life. Let her know right then and there that she can come to you for advice any time she needs to. But, you need to have open ears for her and not say a word until she is finished talking. Then ask her if she’d like to hear what you have to say in reply. Sister rivalry is normal and many times caused by parental favoring of a child which other siblings feel and know. If this is your case it’s important to let your sister know you’re on her side. She is an angry young person for a reason—make it your reason to find out what that is. Then she’ll be freed of that particular anger causing her behavioral problems. My older sister was always jealous of me for her own reasons when she has her own artistic abilities as well. Jealousy is the thief of happiness which plagues us all from time to time. Jealousies has always been a detriment to me in regards to nasty undeserved inflictions against my good natured person. Certainly, I spew doo and dung flung at not-so-innocent people but I speak truth and truth isn’t always pretty. People prove themselves not so good through harmful inflictions upon others but like everyone else we’re all hurting from our own detriments in life. So, it’s best to “Say what you mean, mean what you say, but don’t be mean when you say it”