How to stop being friends with your best friend?
So I've been best friends with this girl for about a year....and I used to love her.now she is just a ***** to me all the time and brings me down ...she says she doesn't to that when I try to talk to get about it but I still always feel bad...she gets pissed off at me at the littlest things...ugh and we have totally different personalities ...we'll we've had some god memories but I'm getting real tired of her and I don't want us to stop being friends completely ,just not as close you know ,we hangout about everyday and all we ever do now is piss each other off. I still want to be friends, but how to I break it to her I don't want to be her " best friend" anymore? I'm thinking of ignoring her a lot then we can drift apart a bit.but I might end up regretting it,oh well I'm just getting tired of her bs and being treated like **** from her...comment what you think I should do?D:
Should I stop being friends with my best friend?
So, here's the story. We've only been friends for almost 3 years but it has always been like we were meant to be. I could describe our relationshioship like.. Fusional relationship? We shared everything. All our thoughts. Our belongings, our friends. Everything. We were always together. But... I think it's been several months... That everything started to be awful between us... My friend just gets on my nerves. I can't do anything with someone else without her getting jealous. Buts he never includes me when she does things, even with people i knew before her. I once dated someone and she was jealous that i spent time with my datemate. She never includes me in group things and when I want to include her she never wants to. But she likes to invite herself. So... we have this group of friends and she's always doing things with them behind my back. They never tell me they're doing things. I can't even just stop being friends with her because she knows everyone I know and they love her. Even more than they love me because i'm often the bad one in our duo. Like she's the one who's the angel. Everyone would hate me for hurting her if we end our relationship. Like some already hate me because she talked to them about the issues we have and of course i'm the bad one... Also I'd terribly miss her if I ended everything. I feel stuck... I would feel even more lonely if everyone leaves me because of that... I don't know what to do...
Is it okay that I stopped being friends with my best friend because they made fun of my depression?
If Your Friend Is Making Fun Of Your Depression - Then NO, You Absolutely Don't Have To Take That Garbage……—————————————————————I’m sorry to read you are going through a very painful time, (I'm speaking from experience) .However, this friend does not understand how painful depression is.If you had a physical injury, this person would be way more sympathetic, as they could see the bandages, bruises, crutches etc.If they can't be nicer to you, they DONT DESERVE YOUR FRIENDSHIP. So it might be best to walk away, as they can't/ wont understand, you're not feeling good, right now.And, are you being treated by a Doctor for depression? If not Please do make a Doctors appointment, very soon! You'll be surprised at how kind and supportive, they will be!!!Also, Bananas eaten daily, are great for relieving depressive symptoms. They contain a Chemical called Serotonin, that will, over time, lift your mood.Plus, Turkey meat, helps to aid a calm and balanced mood too. So though you might not feel like eating these foods just now, they really will help to ease depressive symptoms, when eaten regularly.Likewise, if you do drink alcohol, whilst you might feel good at the time, you will feel even worse, the following day. So not drinking alcohol, will curb the symptoms of depression, so you don't feel even worse. Just Don't Go There.And try walking, or other forms of physical exersize, which have also been proven to alleviate depression too.Wish you well.
Can I ask my very good friend to stop being friends with someone else who used to bully me?
That right there……damn…..I swear to god, if I could have done that in college, I’d have probably turned out normal.But I’ve since gotten wiser and figured some stuff out. More often than not, your pal knows what’s up. In the rare case that your pal doesn’t know what’s up, you’re going to loose your pal anyway. (Heads up, yes you will….) Because logically speaking, why would your bully decide to become pals with your pals.A reformed bully will not do that, and if they’re going to do that, they’ll first talk to you, and make sure it’s all cool first.So…urm….get another very good pal……someone nicer.
How can I stop loving my best friend?
One of my friend is in the same situation as you are. She calls me and asks what do I do and does what she feels right because she cannot control the urge to be with the person. The same case is with you!Over and over, I had told her and telling you too that Stop chasing Love! If it is meant, it will happen any how! And if not, do whatever is possible for you, it will never happen.Sometimes, when we accept certain things, life twists and the unexpected happens.By expressing again and again, in any manner, you are putting the friendship in danger. Do you want to lose the person ?? Think once, if the relation does not work out and she leaves you. Friendship after Relationship is impossible! As, if you be friends, you will go insane. And moreover you will lose the person too.Atleast she told you the day you expressed her what she feels about you and she want you for a life time. You can love her as a BFF instead of pushing her.It is difficult to cut down the strings you have attached with her, but not impossible. Instead of being with her only, spend time with other friends. Go on picnics, trips with others but don't ignore her either. Change the priority in your life. Keep your career ahead of her. I know the nasty dramas they do. My friend told me many times, that when she talks, he ignores. When she doesn't, he gets annoyed and blames her. If she talks with other guys, he feels jealous. But does not want to be in a relationship but want it to be more than friendship too.Let it go. Have a great friendship with her. Being so stubborn will lead you no-where. It will only hurt you. And who knows, in the session of moving on, she falls for you and the puzzle gets completed with the only part left. Maybe with time she will realize her feelings for you. Be positive, but don't let the positive thoughts over rule you. But for now, be the besties you are and enjoy life!
Why do I still cry about my ex best friend when we stopped being friends months ago? Is it weird that I still miss her a lot?
It is normal part of the grieving process. You've lost a friendship. To help get past it, try to find other people to do the things you enjoy. If you are active it will help you have less time to morn the loss of this friendship and hopefully forge better, more healthier ones.
Should I stop being friends with my crush?
I don't know you, so I can only say what I think based on my impression of your two phone chats and what you told us. To me it sounds like you are fooling yourself that you can go on being friends with this person without it constantly tormenting you that you are not more than friends. There is no such thing as "getting rid of your feelings." Feelings aren't trash that can be collected and thrown into the bin. They are organic to you and will persist as long as you are feeding them (fighting them is a way of feeding them.) This means that every time you talk or see each other you will be hurting and eaten up inside. You also may be secretly harboring hope that if you stay friends long enough and "wait it out" that some day she will suddenly and spontaneously see you differently and return your feelings. The likelihood of that happening is next to nil. You are wasting your time, doing psychological damage and hurt to yourself and blocking yourself off from other potential relationships. As long as your emotions are tied up with this girl you can't have, you will be trapped, imprisoned even. Your energy will be unavailable. Joy will be dimmed. Life will be full of pain. You won't have your mind and heart free for the many other good things there are out in the world. I say all of this based on my own experiences from when I was younger, wasting my life pining for people and things I could not have. I wasted years on this. There's no point to it! Live your life, live it now! She is not the last person you will ever love. Please know that. She is not the only wonderful person in the world. And more importantly, she is not the person who is going to love you the way you deserve to be loved. You won't get over her any time soon, but the only way to move on and stay ALIVE in your life is to put distance between you and her physically, mentally and emotionally. Tell her it's too painful for you to hang out now. That may change in future, and if it does you will let her know. Focus on new things, new people. Don't try to pretend to be happy, but don't dwell on her either. Stay busy - do something productive with your life. Make your life about something, not about another person. Focus your energy on becoming who you are meant to be. Find what you love to do and build your skills in it. Meet other people who share your passion. Over time you will move on and when you are feeling less hurt and unworthy, you will attract someone new to you.
How do I get my friend to stop being a goth?
My best friend is really interested in black and stats wearing it and I don't want her to be depressed and start doing bad things.. How can I help her? I know black is not bad but what if other things change?