Why are guys just not that into me?
How can you be out of the dating world for 7 years if you're only 22? You can't take what happened before you were 15 and apply it to now. You were just getting into the emotional roller coaster of being a teenager, dating, break ups and everything else, but then you stopped it.If guys are smiling at you that's great, now all you need to do is smile back. If you don't smile back though, it tells these guys you're not interested, so how do you expect to get asked out. Being and introvert doesn't mean you can't show a little interest back, be it a smile or a hello. Guys understand shyness, you have to give it a chance, so smile back and perhaps they'll come over, say hi and introduce themselves.Once you've done this for a bit, you'll gain confidence and develop more ease being around and talking to guys. Remember, if they come over and introduce themselves, introduce yourself right back. If they like you, they'll strike up a conversation and/or ask you out or take your number. If you like them, talk to them and/or give them your number and agree to go out with them. If they don't call you, don't worry, he just wasn't the right guy. If he does, go out with him and see if there's a connection. Again, you may get one but he may not, so again, don't worry if he doesn't call or text you. Chances are that he may get a connection with you, but you won't. If that happens, just be nice and tell him he's a nice guy but you're not interested in him that way.This is what dating is, trying people on to find a good fit. Before you know it, you'll be smiling first, possibly even flirting. Just do things at a pace you're comfortable with and don't rush yourself or do anything you're not comfortable with.
Old Crushes Die Hard* Im gonna need a little advice, I dont know if I should make a move or not, read on:?
I have this guy friend who I hadnt hung out with in a while until a couple months ago. We've been friends forever & always had a thing for eachother, but stayed mostly friends. About a year ago I started seeing someone & so did he. Things were going great in my relationship until I ran into him at a party & all these crazy feelings started to come back. I was so sure how I felt about my boyfriend until I got lost in this guys eyes. We hung out, flirted alot & joked around about old stuff. Weeks later we were both on a rocky road with our bf/gf and started hanging out. Things were more that great. I hadnt crushed on some1 like this in a long time & I loved it. We talked every night. I didnt tell him but I was still talking to my b/f, trying to settle everything, not trying to make up. He was doing the same with his g/f, eventually, we stopped calling eachother & ended up back w/ our bf/gf. It was real but I guess it just wasnt the right time. Anyways, I just broke up w.my bf. Next move?
Hi, iam just getting my beard and want a little tips about it which is mentioned in details , pllzzzz help me!
Ok, so i have some beard on chin and side of my face and mustache too. so i am afraid of shaving or trimming coz i think that would increase it more or it would require frequent shaving or some other problems ! I had also thought of trying hair removers on those places, but i was confused . So my actual question is that what should i do (or) which is the best method in which i have - less beard grown , require less shaving , soft beard too??? Plzzzz help me regarding this and should i continue to keep m face soo ie with beard( but it looks dirty ) ! Plzz gimme the best solution and some tips too if u can . Thank you love Y! Answers!! love ppl !
Dude needing girl advive?
Hi guys and girls I am a guy thats needing a little advice, well lots of advice. Me and my ex went through some bad times last year and thing ended. We just started talking after few months apart, we both stayed single and I asked her many times am I wasting my time and will I get hurt she said no. I was in a bad place in the wrong crowd and used to drink a lot of alcohol which contributed towards the breakup so I spent months changing and now am a much better guy thank goodness :). So the problems is I talk to her messages on mobile and that and I am constant sweet caring surportive and there for her now I think she knows she knows like if she has got me round her finger, she donest say anything sweet back she used to, she used to try and be close and make an effort towards taking things slow and building things back up but now am getting nothing back. If I ask her to be close she swares at me becomes nasty and talks to me in a bad way, I even bought her presents. I really love her what do I do, reverse pyhocology? do I keep trying and how to get I get her to see Ive changed and truly working my heart out, What should I do? loads of helpful answers please.
How to tell if a shy guy likes you?
That's a tough one to answer since I don't know you or the guy. I think he probably does. The 'I catch him staring at me' is kind of a give away. Don't move to fast. Start talking about something that won't intimidate but brings up the subject of dating, dates, etc. Then just go from there. Try hugging him when he drops you off after school if that's something that wouldn't seem to wierd. Don't be afraid to make the first move, because if he's shy he probably won't judge you. He's more preoccupied with what he should do.
Hey how come i can never seem to get the girl?
Hi I need a little advice. There was this girl I work with at my summer job, and I really like her but imp not sure she feels the same way back. I finally got the guts to go talk to her and we exchanged numbers and we do text but i seem to be the one initiating the conversation by always being the first to text is that bad, does it make me seem like im coming off 2 strong? also ive asked her if shes would wanna hang out sometime but both times i asked she kinda blew me off to go hang with her friends instead. Shes a really sweet girl but maybe im just too nice of a guy and that’s not what shes looking for. I come off as a nice guy cause that’s who I am, im not being fake. I’ve never had a girlfriend and im I college which to me seem kinda pathetic, I dunno. The thing is ive never really had the best luck with girls and it sucks cause i hate seeing all my friends dating while i sit to the side. i just don't know what to do. Any advice on how to deal with my situation or anything to help me realize why I keep striking out would help. I just hate living my life like this, it sucks i'm 20 and ive never even kissed a girl before, is that pathetic or is that normal. Also its not like. a slob i'm very clean cut i work out 5 times a week i keep in physically fit shape im only like 5'10, 5'11 is that too short, do girls take that into account. any help would be appreciated, thanks so much
What does the phrase "just a heads-up" mean?
It means, as Ali has said, to notify somebody of something, often as a warning or a piece of helpful advice. If you have started a new job, somebody might say:"Hey John, just a heads-up… the boss usually takes a walk around the office about 3 o'clock, so try to be at your desk when he does."
Why doesn't this shy guy talk to me even though I know he is interested in me? How do I get him to talk to me casually?
Because he is shy, duh. Now obvisouly he won't approach you because he doesn't have enough self-esteem nor confidence.What you could do though, is intentionally bump into him. MAKE him talk to you. Literally FORCE him to talk to you. Do something where he HAS to say something to you. Or if you want the less complicated method, you can also just try to engage and start the conversation.I was a shy guy too. So usually a 'hey, how are you today?' will be enough for him to atleast speak a little bit. Ask him about his interests/hobbies or what he was doing yesterday, kind of a small talk. When you talk to him, use his name. It's proven that people will be more comfortable around you when you do that. Make him talk about his passion/s. Just try to kind of give him a little push. And also don't forget to smile. Guys love it when girls smile at them. Furthermore, try to charm him by maintaining eye contact.All of this doesn't necessarily mean that he is weak, sometimes guys just need a little push.When I had my first experience with a girl she did just that. She called me first, hell she even spoke to me first, she texted me first, she hugged me first etc etc and after all that I got confident and realised what I had to do. Now it isn't a problem for me anymore.If you like him too then by all means, help him. It will be useful to him for the rest of his life.
Costco Tire center problem?
Hey folks...I need a little advice on how to handle a new tire installation problem. I recently went to get four new tires, our first since we purchased our car 8 years ago. This car hardly ever gets driven. Only has 38K miles. Anyway, we get new tires put on at costco. Thought everything was fine, then we drive the car..get up to 50 mph and the car starts to shimmy. Sorta of feels like its moving side to side. I think, wth? So I take it back. They re-balance it. It does it again. I take it in again, explaining this has NEVER done this and that this only just happened since we got new tires here. Same thing, re-balance and say maybe its the alignment. I go to my mechanic..he says its not the alignment and that he believes the tires may just be bad. I take it back..this is the fourth time. This time, they tell me the rim is bent and is causing the problem. He says, "Didn't they tell you the rim was bent when they put the tires on the first time?" I said..NO! I proceed to tell him how come I never have a problem driving this car TILL I get the new tires on. He says" Because the rim was on the front, so we moved it the back now and that should take care of it. A bent rim will do this." Really? So I never feel this till I get new tires? "Yes...he says." I say, "Forgive me, but those rims where in Excellent shape and we have never even had a flat tire before..now...I look at my rims, and I see marks and scratches all over those prefect rims and you expect me to think this did not happen here?" Oh man...I said I wanted a report done, and think they owe me new rims. You can see that two of the rims are scratched AFTER our time at costco. And you can clearly see its damage from removing the tires. What should I do? This car gets about 5000 miles a year!!! That's nothing. No problems ever. I think they are covering their butt for the mistake THEY made in the first place. What rights do I have? Thanks in advance. Renee