Honestly How Old Do You Think She Is

What do you think of brutally honest people?

You mean those who validate the saying: “the road to hell is paved with good intention (or not)? Well, I do know a few of them that used honesty as a shield to blow other people off point blank with their unsolicited snide remarks.Some of these people are narcissistic with an ego the size of Texas, most of them are not very popular and usually hurt people by being blunt. I think honesty is good when people are asking for an honest opinion but unsolicited insults most of the time are not needed and we all know how truth hurts.I can still recall in the movie “A Few Good Men” when Tom Cruise asked for the truth and Jack Nicohlson answered.A must see for the great performance of two great actors of brutal honesty. Well, what do you think? How often you see that being honest is not good for both who delivered and those on the receiving ends.Ever since I was a kid, I learned to bite my tongue and trying to be more diplomatic so my words won’t hurt people while telling the truth; a thing called tact. For a long time in the 80s and 90s, businesses and politics in the US were all about being PC-Political Correctness that had tipped the scale of being cordial. I think the over correctness in social dialogues is the cause of “white speak” or tolerance toward Donald Trump’s outburst of racial slurs. So many supposedly suppressed feelings were being released in public by idiot Trump that are echo with resonances of the white supremacists or people who think that white people are being edged out of their high horses.I think the best policy to adopt about being honest is “keep your mouth shut unless you have something nice to say”. Always remember that while you are judging others, you are also being judged simultaneously. It doesn’t hurt to stop and mumble first what you about to say before blurting out. You don’t have to lie, meanwhile, you don’t always have to let truth hurt those you love.