Best friend hooked up with my crush?
I agree with both of the answers above. Your a caring and sensitive friend to consider your friends feelings before your own. But because she is not doing the same for you, I don't think she is worthy of being your friend. You have addressed your concern with her already, but try doing it again, perhaps in a note. I would suggest something like, "_______, I know I have already mentioned this, but I don't like it when you and ________ hook up. I told you at the beggining of the year that I had feelings for him, so I hope you have the heart to think about what I feel. If not, then I don't think I want to be your friend." Continue to make friends and hang out with current friends, because your friend needs to stop thinking about herself. The fact that your crush does not have the same feelings toward you, I would let our friend and your crush continue their realationship and look for new guys to crush on. What is the point of having a friend that is a backstabber, and a crush who doesn't like you back, anyway?
Me and my best friend hooked up and now I am in love with her, what do I do?
Please be honest and up front, but not demanding or desperate.I just went through the same thing and at the same time I was going through a lot of struggles. All my friends had left for college far far away and i felt like I had no one but she was there. I didn’t tell her I loved her and it happened again. Then I started getting sad and vented to her a lot and started talking to her constantly, almost to a bothering degree. I could tell she was slipping away and that scared me so I tried harder and harder to keep har around and eventually told her I was deeply in lover with her. Then when she told me she didn't want to talk or hang out I lashed out in anger. She won't talk to me at all. Even when i appologized and tried to explane everything and why i was acting totally unlike myself, she still wants none of it.Just let this person know how you feel and, depending on how they feel, work out a way to go forward from this while staying friends. This is a crossroads that has killed much more than just my friendship and if you can get out of this together then you have a solid friendship and you are lucky. Open and clear communication in which you don't hold this person hostage with guilt paired with honesty and a will to stay friends will help you.I hope you work this all out
Best friend hooked up with my brother?!?
Why you are mad? Who knows. But if your going to be mad at her you might as well be mad at your brother too. They both knew what they were doing. And as far as you being mad this happened a while ago... let it go. Ok so what they ****** though, why are you so mad is she a whore or something? is that why you DON'T want your brother talking to her ? that's the only reason i can see why you'd be so mad. They ******. her relationship with your brother is already greater then hers with you. You can be her best friend BUT that wont change the fact that your brother knows her on a personal level now and maybe she tells him things she doesn't tell you. they slept with each other let it go you might be ******* up a potential relationship just cause YOU are mad. it's not like she ****** someone you were talking to. ....just saying though.
I hooked up with my best friend last night!!!!
ok so i have 2 best friends a dude best friend and a chick best friend. i hooked them up and they went out for a bout a month. he just broke up with her last week. me and her have been having some issues lately and i was really upset and having a bad week so i went to my best dude friend just to forget about it because i go to him for everything. i just wanted to take my mine off of things but it ended up that we hooked up (not like going out now we told each other this is JUST FRIENDS) and well it wasnt as far as sex but more than making out. and he never calls me when hez bord and he called me this morning and we r going to hang out after hez dun with his shower but when we went to hang up he told me to wear my shorts because they are "bangin hawt" and said he may be in one of "those moods". and this morning this with my chick bf started getting better and i dont want to stab her in the back but idk ugggg im reallllly bad at saying no. i have NEVER done anything like this before i just got so upset and needed an escape!!! wut do i do now????!!!!! HELP PLZ!!!!!
Is it bad to hook up with best friends ex?
yes
What do you do if your best friend hooks up with your crush?
Ultimately, this is on you to work through. You didn't approach your crush and ask him out. That is your fault and your fault alone.There is nothing wrong with your friend then hooking up with your crush. He's not yours. She didn't take anything from you.Now that I've said that…You're the one who knows your friend. We aren't. Her quality as a friend depends on the context here. Did you tell her about the crush, and then after encouraging you to pursue it she went straight over to his place and banged him when she had never shown any interest in him before? If so, she still didn't take anything from you, but that would show a bad attitude.I have known a few people with such low self-esteem that they simply want to get whatever anybody else has or wants, to somehow “win.” One former friend in particular? I noticed that she exclusively pursued men that her friends mentioned being interested in. Somebody would say, “I have a crush on so-and-so, I'm going to ask him out next week,” and Former Friend would then immediately attempt to seduce the guy. If it worked, she would brag (even to whoever had first stated their intention to ask the person out) about how before her he'd never been with anyone as good, and she was sure nobody else would measure up in bed after her. It got to the point where she was regularly trying to seduce men in monogamous relationships with her friends.You can see why she's a former friend and not a current one. Not because she was “stealing” anything, but rather because she was obnoxious, disrespectful, and malicious in her efforts to feel better than her friends she claimed to love.So… is your friend a good person who just happened to hook up with someone you wish you could be with? Or is she someone who just wants to “win” whatever and whoever anyone else wants?If it's the former, you need to work through this on your own. If it’s the latter, her hookup with your crush is not the problem — being friends with her at all is the problem.
I hooked up with my best friend but he has a girlfriend - what do I do now?
He's your best friend right? Although it sucks for his girlfriend, I think you should do him a favor, and pretend it never happened. This might sound like I'm being bitchy, but I'm not trying to...but, what did you expect? It was sex. You were both drunk. He obviously realizes that it was a mistake he never should have made. He sounds like he really doesn't want to lose his girlfriend, and as his best friend, you should stick by that promise to be there for him, and just let it go.I think that he's trying real hard to get things back to the way they were, and that's not easy. I've hooked up with a best friend before. It's awkward afterwards, but for some reason, it worked out. It'll probably work out for you too. :) Do you have feelings for him? It sure sounds like it. It sucks,but it's kind of just the way it is. You shouldn't jepordize his relationship with his girlfriend just so that you can be happy. Just because what would that do? I think you know that you two will never happen or anything. I mean, you're best friends. It just doesn't work like that.What he did to his girlfriend was wrong, and it may seem like you should tell her, but I don't think it's any of your business. (ever if you were the "other girl") It'll only make her hate you. Just try to get over it, It'll be best in the long run. Sorry if my answer was harsh. Goodluck =)