How should a real best friend treat you?
nice kind and caring, always listening and being there for you whenever,
How should I treat my best friend now?
I understood about the first male friend,but didn't understood the second one.. Anyways for the first part my opinion is come clear with your male friend.. Tell him, in a calm and composed manner, that although you are happy for him, you don't really want to go in the microscopic details.. I understand this might sound rude, but think about it, if he knows that u fancy him then he will understand that some part of you doesnt likes to hear all the details.. And I would not call it jealousy, but its the way humans react.And maybe he will also stop telling you all the details, and you both can get back to the normal talks.. At least your conversations will not be one sided.. Secondly about his girlfriend doubting, i think he has to address this.. I mean you both are friends and texting him first should not bring any doubt in his girlfriend's mind, if she does then your friend has to clear it out,that there is nothing between you two..
How do I get my best friend to treat me better?
Tell them FIRMLY about the things that they’ve done that you personally feel are unfair of them and ask them to stop.My friends sometimes do things that demean me and most of the time I treat it as a joke, but if they go to far I will ask them to stop whatever they are doing and explain to them why I feel this way.All of the times they have understood and have apologised promptly after my complaints, if he/she is truly your best friend they will understand that whatever they are doing is wrong and will treat you better with more respect in the future.
Why do "best friends" treat you like crap?
Ok, it's a long story, but I need some good advice. I used to be friends with this girl from work, I'll call her "Anna". Anna seemed to be a very different but very sweet girl. We had somethings in common and both needed a friend. We became friends, and soon "best friends" (whatever that means). Little did I know what disappointment that would cause. Anna became OBESSED with the idea that I was her only true best friend and it was all she ever talked about. She had a boyfriend that was very controlling and wouldn't let her hang out with anyone besides me. Or so she said. About three months ago, Anna started working night shift, I remained day shift at my job. She became aquainted with this girl named "Prissy". Prissy loved to party and drink and was a big time flirt and messed up freak. I kid you not. However, Anna forgot all about me and started hanging out with Prissy, drinking and sleeping with strangers (something she told me she'd never do) and ignored me, and still ignores me at the moment. Whenever I see Anna she is text text texting away on her phone, but when I ever send her a text message, she never respondes. Why is she acting like this? I have done so much for her. I bought her flowers, presents of all sorts for special and not special occasions, I was there for her whenever she was down and put up with her depression bullcrap, and I listened to every new installment of "my butthead boyfriend won't let me go anywhere". I don't understand why she treats me this way after her obession with my being her friend, her only friend, her bestest best whatever friend. I'm very upset. I don't like being treated like ****. Why did this happen and could anyone help me figure out what to do and how to move on. I want to tell her that I don't think we're even friends anymore, but I want to leave it alone. What is the best and nicest yet honest way to handle this and my disappointment. Was I a bad friend? Why on earth would someone almost in love with the thought of me being their friend would do this? Seriously, that's how strange that obession was.
What should I do if my best friend is treating me like a servant?
My best friend has always been treating me like a slave after we met. At first she was real nice but lately she has been asking so many favors. This started in middle school and now we are in high school. It still continues, I just do whatever she tells me to do because when I don't she gets really mad and talks behind my back making everyone hate me. She also always gets mad at me for random reasons and there are lots of fights mostly caused by her. Sometimes she can actually be a really good friend but most of the time she asks me to do everything for her like all her work for school and if I don't she will tell everybody my secrets. I feel kinda responsible for making her like this because she wasn't like this before so I can't really leave her. I also have no friends and I am basically an outcast. But it has been getting on my nerves lately she only treats me this way and all her other friends are treated much better. She also starts making fun of me whenever she feels like it, like calling me ugly or nobody would ever date me, sometimes she calls me a bad friend even though I do everything for her. I don't know if I still should be her friend after all I had some good times with her I had been friends with her for about 6 years
Should you expect your boyfriend to treat you like his best friend?
Yes ofcourse.Be a friend then a best friend.Because only then you will be able to be open with each other.This will increase your mutual understanding and trust for each other.All the best!
What should I do when my best friend is treating me like a stranger?
This was a lady friend of mine, we attended the same college and everything. We met on Tinder, talked a bit, I followed her snapchat, then we didn't talk again for some months.I hit her up one day and we started talking again, we hung out, played music together, and she let me sleep at her apartment after I got off work. I took her to dinner once, texted her each day after that, drove her around the city a little bit, and even cleaned her apartment one time while she was attending class. We eventually ended up having sex, but I don't think this changed anything with us. She knew I had feelings for her.She took an internship with the college to work as a vet in another state to gain experience, so she was moving after school ended. I was working third shift at the time (12 hours) so in the morning I drove to her apartment and hugged her goodbye.After that day, we stopped texting eachother. I've gone on to try and reach her, texting her here and there to check up on her, to maybe reconnect, to try and talk to her, but she acts as if I'm nobody to her. I left her alone for a little bit because I knew she'd be busy.So my question is, what did I do wrong? Why does she act as if she never knew me? Should I question her about it even though we haven't talked for a month or so? I'm very confused on this topic.
My husband has let his best friend treat me like crap. Should he deal with it? Or should I?
My husband has let his best friend treat me like crap. Should he deal with it? Or should I?Any way you cut this situation it does not look good.Did you husband not speak up because:He didn’t notice. It’s kind of his job as your husband to notice things like and ensure the people he brings around you treat you with respect. If he honestly didn’t notice, I’d worry that maybe he’s so in the man zone with his friend that he wasn’t paying attention to how things went down.Did he notice but simply doesn’t care? That should tell you that you are not his priority. There’s no simpler way to say that.Is is possible he’s known his best friend longer and therefore has a stronger bond with him? That would make sense, since the friend felt totally comfortable disrespecting you. He probably knows they’re tight and your husband isn’t going to speak up for you or if he does they both know it’s just to shut the little lady up, cause they’re brows and all.Another really obvious but uncomfortable possible explanation needs to be considered. Perhaps your husband is allowing his friend to treat you this way because he’d like to but knows you would divorce him. He’s acting out passive aggressively against you through the friend and they’re both on board with this.Though you might not realize it, you actually have three problems.Your husband’s best friend does not respect you as a person.Your husband does not respect you as a person, is not protective of his wife and may be bad mouthing you behind your back to his friend secretly happy that his friend is treating you like crap.You have two men who apparently feel comfortable triangulating against you.If it were me, I’d take a little thirty day vacation and stay with a friend or relative to give your husband a chance to sort his priorities out. He should apologize to you, ask his friend to apologize and assure you that this pattern will not continue. If he can’t manage to figure it out then you will likely need to decide if this is the way you live.