Why do most teenage girls settle for being so generic and monotonous?
Seriously, guys don't like that. I was in NYC today, and every single girl looked exactly the same: obnoxious highlights, HUGE sunglasses, slutty tanktop, ripped denim skirt and ugly flip flops, and some stupid designer purse. Seriously. Every girl. Why do girls allow themselves to blend in like this? They don't look good like that, they just look like huge bugs who raided an Abercrombie and Fitch and Canal Street. Come on, there are millions of ways to look hot... be original. Sorry, but I just had to get that out there. Thanks for listening. Doesn't any girl want to be unique and individual? Any guy would take a different style over a girl who looks just like the one two feet away-- especially me.
How To Deal With Being UGLY?!?
Im a girl , turning 17 in 2 months. I live in a country with many races . I got bullied a lot before for the way i look. So i suffer from self esteem. I tried to recover on my own but each time i pull myself up , bam! it takes just another person to remind me of how ugly i am. I am an indian , i have brown skin, my eyes are very big and my nose brigde is not very high , i have very very thick lips along with curly hair. over here , girls with pale skin and straight hair are considered pretty. I dont want to be pretty but i want to be just normal. I get stares from people on the subway , while walking and everywhere i go. Peoplw often tell me that their first impressiom of me is from another western country . Then , they start to insult my features. I feel very hurt i dont even dare to look at my reflection or myself in the mirror. I get anxiety attacks when i see a crowd and i cry myself to sleep everynight. But recently , ive been crying so much even in the bus on my way home. I have tried so so so hard seriously SO hard to accept myself. But i just cant live this way anymore ! I dont even want to wake up to another day. I pray for death everyday. is there anyway i can deal with this ? (dont tell me to see a psychiatrist or school counselor cause i cant , my parents know i suffer but they dont have time to care )
Why are ugly people treated like social rejects?
We are not gods were animals and we react via instincts, instinct drives us to move "up" in the social heirarchy. Get the best mates for the healthiest children possible, have friends that advance our social standing. The weak, unhealthy, stupid and ugly get shuffled to the bottom. Nature is cruel but that is how it works, In time even the most perfect human physically fails so the stigma is partly fear of facing what awaits.
Should I date ugly cool girl to gain dating/relationship experience?
So I'm a 24 yr old male virgin, never had a gf. In my life i've been to like 4 dates, last one was in 2013, obviously things didn't workout with these girls. I've never even french kissed a girl, to make things worse I'm fairly attractive kind of average but fairly attractive, so I've had good chances I've messed up because of shyness and insecurities. So now I met this girl online, she's really cool, love her personality, she's not fat, but her face is what I find unatractive, she's just not pretty, maybe with make up but yeah. So Should I keep talking to this girl? meet up with her? date her? just to gain experience in dating/relationships, and happily be able to say for once in my life "I have a girlfriend"? or should i just keep looking for the one that for me has the whole package. I know online I'm not gonna find that cus pretty girls online are very picky, and like I said i'm kind of average, they always ignore me, so what should I do here?
My friends were so nasty at my sleepover, what should I do? And Am I ugly?
I had a sleepover last night. It all went well in the early evening when we were just passing round snacks and talking about TV shows and Movies, and playing dares, but once my parents were upstairs, one of my friends asked me for some alcohol. Bear in mind here that the people that were at the sleepover were only 13-15 years of age (15 being only me, 'cause I'm the eldest), and drinking is illegal. I can't drink anyway because of my epilepsy (drinking could cause a life threatening seizure), and I told them so, and they just all laughed at me and said I was a wimp for not drinking. Then they all talked about their favorite types of booze, and left me out of the conversation. I tried not to care. Later on, they all talked about how many guys they had slept with, and I was really disgusted with some of them. They all laugh at me because I haven't ever had a boyfriend. I do know I will never get one because I am ugly, but surely they could have been more tactful. Even later, they did makeovers. And a girl I invited said You guys are all naturally pretty...oh, except Julia, she's ugly. And they all laughed in my face. I cannot tell you how much that hurt me. :/ Also, another girl who was there said I'm having a sleepover, I'll invite all of you, except for you Julia, because we would have nothing to do, no guys to talk about because youve never had one, and there wouldnt be a point doing a makeover on you, because your ugly. I feel totally horrible and sick. I know I won't get anyone. But I feel jealous that they've all had boyfriends, and 2 of them (the 13 year old and the 14 year old) have had sex. And I haven't. And I'm older than both of them. I don't know what to do, I know guys hate fat, ugly cows like me (see pic) but it feels awful. What the heck should I do? Here are my pictures. http://www.flickr.com/photos/52168811@N07/ Thanks, love, Julia xxx * 2 hours ago * - 4 days left to answer. Additional Details Also, I am currently 15stone, but my epilepsy meds make me gain weight. Should I stop taking them so I lose weight and maybe guys will like me? Theres no point in dieting because the weight comes back on. i asked the doctor for different meds but he said no, not at the moment. Do you think I should risk not taking it?
Why are low Income people so ugly?
They cannot afford things other people can: good teeth care, a decent haircut, nice clothes, balanced nutrition, decent body care.....All these things are really expensive if you think of it, ......