Why don’t trans-men take hormones to become more manly and women to become more feminine? Why do they do exactly the opposite?
Since you wrote two questions in seemingly opposite wording, and both of them somewhat impossible to decipher, I’m wondering what your question is. The wording is confusing and untrue. And by the video comment that you left on my answer on the other question I take it to mean that you think that trans people should try to conform to their biological gender. In that case the question should read as “Why don’t trans men take hormones to become more like women and trans women take hormones to become more like men?” Then the logical fallacy that you have in this question of why do they do exactly the opposite won’t mean the opposite of what you are trying to get an answer for.Trans men do take hormones to become manly. Trans women do take hormones to become feminine. For the opposite way that you worded it i.e. Why don’t men take hormones to become more manly and women to become more feminine the answer is men do take hormones for Low-T and women do for menopause. If you mean Why don’t trans men take hormones to become more womanly and trans-women to become more feminine, it is because you do not understand the essential nature of being transgender which is that people are very unhappy when they are forced to dress and act like the biological gender they were born as. To take more of the hormones they already have would be silly and cause psychological distress. Some might even commit suicide if forced to conform to their biological gender.See: What's it like to undergo "gay conversion therapy"? Sometimes trans people have been forced to undergo a similar type of therapy which the aim is to get them to conform to the biological gender. Also read: Amazon.com: The Last Time I Wore A Dress (9781573226967): Daphne Scholinski, Jane Meredith Adams: Books which is about a trans man who is forced to conform to the biological gender standards of a conservative family.
If I am a manly woman, should my twin flame be a womanly man?
Yes, this would be true - but not necessarily in appearance. As twin flames are male and female energies of the same soul they can incarnate in bodies ‘mismatched” from their energy gender. It is done intentionally by the soul when it wants to learn to work with these energies, balance and fine tune them. Most of my clients in TF relationships were women and MOST OF THEM carried male energy, and their male TF’s - female energy. They both are supposed to become more androgenous through this relationship, and eventually the union is ‘divine androgyn”.
Womanly duties....? Help me please...!?
I have seen this happen to so many women before. They have fallen in love and have let so many other people make the decision for them as to whether they should be with a particular person or not. Someone once told me that if you love someone so much, you would do everything in your power to keep that love going on. If you want to break up with him, and wait, that is fine, but I assure that you should keep in contact with him, just to keep things on the plane. On the other hand, If you really want to be with him, do not let one year and your family's comments ruin the relationship between you two. Remember, in the end, it will just be you two. I'm not saying to neglect the relationship with your family, but sometimes, you have to care about what is best for you. Trust me, I made this decision for myself, and I am happy, my family is happy, they accept my fiance, and he is happy also. We have a baby together now! Good luck with your decision. :)
Why are men becoming more feminine and women more masculine?
Because we have to work, thanks to all the feminists who decided for all of us that woman should make just as much money as men. I am bitter about this because I always wanted to be a housewife when I was kid, and now that dream has died. Now corporations pay all people less because they know that two people are working. And as far as the poor single parents well they are just screwed. As woman we have to go out in the world and work everyday and deal with all this BS, since we are more adaptable then men we are doing well, and men are not doing well with helping with the household duties and the children. Many women work full time and still do everything a housewife would do, and the man remains in the same situation as always, one job and a full time babysitter, maid, sex slave and cook living in the house. This is making us realize that we dont need men to take care of us, we are handling everything on our own, you all need to step your game up.
How do I feel more feminine and act more womanly? I want to be more graceful and more gentle. Not to say that I’m a harsh person, but I would love to feel and be more feminine in my acts.
This is a lovely desire you have!Though there are certain limits to how we can change ourselves (because we all have a unique personality and demeanour and not all of us are going to be Grace Kellys or Audrey Hepburns) there are still things within our control which may make a real difference!An obvious one is to first adopt a very feminine appearance with your fashion choices including hair and make up - you can't feel the part if you don't look the part! ;)Then try to immerse yourself in things that will build up your psychie such as perusing feminine women’s magazines, watching feminine movies (such as Sense and Sensibility, among many others), shopping at feminine boutiques and enjoying makeovers/manicures etc. And, maybe consider joining a group that encourages femininity such as an etiquette and deportment school or a particularly female-oriented craft group such as cake decorating, flower arranging et. al.A more dramatic approach would be to either volunteer or find work where you care for people (children, the aged, disabled etc.). This will perhaps encourage your womanly instincts to care and nurture and express love.Our habits are harder to change the older we are but it's never too late to endeavour to change those that are in bad taste such as swearing, smoking, eating and drinking in excess, how we hold ourselves (including our posture and our sitting position) and how we dress - not exposing too much flesh (less is more tasteful!).Lastly, I like to admire those who give great examples of femininity. Not those who merely belong in fairy tales but real people such as recently deceased Barbara Bush; Winston Churchill’s wife, Jennie; Florence Nightingale; and even the modern day Royals have a certain grace and pose that can be, at least from outward appearances, admirable and uplifting. (I, for my own part, admire women saints throughout history who often did heroic deeds while still remaining feminine).I wish you all the best in your pursuit of real femininity which is, in these times, almost as extinct as some of our wildlife! :)
What happens if a woman takes female hormone pills? Does she become more feminine?
female hormone pills are generally used for contraceptive methods and interfere with the uterus wall thickening to avoid unwanted pregnancy.but prolonged use can cause certain long term defects like endometrial hyperplasia,thrombosis,myocardial infarction etc…
How can a male become ultra feminine?
By undergoing electrolysis to eliminate his beard growth / stubble growth.By drinking lots of Spearmint tea and White peony tea to raise estrogen and lower testosterone, naturally. Chasteberry is also a good natural anti-androgen.Pueraria Mirifica at 3000 mg a day will also feminize you a bit. You can buy it from Ainterolherbs.Furthermore, fillers in the lips. Regularly. Full lips are feminine.Ask for fillers in your cheekbones as well, to accentuate them and make them look feminine.Moisturize and exfoliate your skin regularly. At least 4 times a week.Grow your hair out and get it colored ash-grey or platina blonde. With glitter accents. Very feminine.Train your waist by using a waist-trainer.Do squats for your butt. It gives you a feminine bum.Do lots of cardio. It helps to narrow down your shoulders and your posture.Go to a speech therapist to learn to speak more feminine.Dress more colorful and delicate.Wear a handbag.Wear heels.Have your nails done in acrylic gel.Curl your eye lashesUse eye shadowUse blushUse mascaraUse lipstickAsk a speech therapist to help with body movement. Body movement is also a language. Ask to help you feminize your body language.Wear skinny jeans or mini dresses.Buy a pair of breast forms. Silicone breast forms, especially the realistic ones, can be fun, easy to obtain and very feminizing. The best are BoobsForQueens: Home or if you are on a budget then I recommend Amolux Diamond’s . Google them.Ask people to call you by a more gender neutral name like Ruby.Ask to refer to you with they / them or she / her pronouns and not he / him.These are things you can do without going through a transsexual trajectory. You can do all these things instantly. All the herbs, make-up, beauty treatments I recommended are not gate-kept by a psychologist or a hormone specialist.Trans and gender variant people exist since 1000s of years, hormone therapy exists only since +- a century.Good luck with presenting more authentically as yourself :-)