How do you boost your self confidence? ?
To me I'm very stupid and very ugly. My family and friends disagree and keep saying I need to boost my self confidence but I keep trying and it's hard so what's a way to do that
How can I boost my confidence?
I feel you. I kinda used to be like you. You just have to stop caring about what other people think about you so much. I didn't think I was a peoples person either, but then I found some really good friends, who I could just laugh with, and be myself with, and when I'm with them, nobody else matters. if it's hard to make friends, you could take it slowly, just make funny small talk. if you just care more about yourself and having a good time, you're going to forget about what everyone thinks, or how you compare to them. and if just changing your outlook doesn't work, you could change your appearance a tiny bit for the better. it'd give a major boost in self-esteem. and talk to people. whether it's just a 'hello' and a smile, or a funny remark, just say something. people like to be acknowledged. they're more likely to talk to you later if you talk to them, if only a little, first. i think you really need friends to boost confidence. i'm not saying you need a gazillion friends to form your own clique. all you need is a few close, really good friends, that can make you feel better. and don't take insults too seriously. laugh 'em off. i hope this helps. if you want more self-esteem, you'll have to be patient. it's not like you just wake up with it one morning. (well, one night i had a nice dream that made me feel happy in the morning, but that was different. and weird.) you'll have to really try. i know this comes naturally to some people, but to me, it was hard, but now it's natural. but you're still young, you got plenty of time. it's not like you're looking for your dream man or anything :P good luck! :D
How to boost my confidence?
how do i boost my confidence. all I see are famous people or cool kids at my school who are fit, smart, can play instruments. while im unfit, really dumb, have no musical talent or any talent whatsoever. what do I do to make myself feel better?
How do i boost my confidence?
you dont have to be better than everyone else....in fact its impossible to be better than everyone else, so you shouldnt tell yourself that. What you should do is 1) work hard 2) believe in yourself As cliche as that sounds its the truth and it works. You should look up the poem "Our deepest Fear" by Marianne Williamson and read it all. Ask yourself " Who am i not to be great?" I know You are great! Believe that!
How can i boost my confidence level?
First of all just identify your positive qualities because every person is born with positive and negative qualities. You must also be possessing some positive points. Try to concentrate on them and whenever in trouble use your those qualities in resolving th4e problems. Secondly, why to hesitate asking anybody thaat i dont no anything in a particular matter. Take the help of loved ones whenever required and revert whenever possible. Rather try to help people more than asking for your help. The confidence level will automatically be enhanced. If any difference is noticed please dont forget this friend. Best wishes
How do i boost my confidence level?
I have a really low confidence level and I'm really shy and sensitive so I find it really hard to make friends.And that really effects my grades.I find myself going to the counciler a lot and that means that I lose a lot of class time.So anyways I need some way to be more self-confident and if anybody has any ideas please answer my question.Also I'm 12 and i don't want to get any answers saying "You have to be at least 13......... blah blah blah."
How to boost confidence & my self-esteem ...?
i learned this from a self help book on NLP therapy. think of someone who you think is confident(can be famous people or not) imagine them standing in front of you and then imagine stepping into their body them you try to vividly imagine what it would feel like to be them and how they walk,talk,stand with their self confidence. if you actually feel it then you are it. it's not phony. the mental difference between you and them is that they have positive internal talk and you have negative critical self talk. i especially use it to be better at sports. i watch someone who is really good at what i want to be better at and do the above and i do get a mental feel for how to be better. i do other stuff too but this is one of my favorites. it's programming your mind for success instead of failure.
How do I boost my boyfriend's self confidence?
My boyfriend seems not to be so confident with himself. He tries so hard to hide it but I see it. This lack of confidence has often led him into feeling jealous about most of my guy friends. I want him to know that he can trust me and that I will always be there for him. I want him to love the person he is.Please help guys.
How should I learn new skills to boost my confidence?
This is one of my favorite questions to answer! I love this, because my answer is going to look a little different than everyone else’s here.Many people will say things like “monitor your body language,” or “speak loudly and confidently,” or “repeat positive thoughts.” All of these are fine. Go ahead, do them.But there is only one skill that if you cultivate it will really help you develop self confidence: Learning how to attack challenges that scare you and overcome them with success.My mentor, Adam Lyons, used to say it like this: “Confidence is competence.”The more you attack challenges that frighten you and achieve over them, in the face of failure (sometimes repeated failure), the more your confidence will grow.Learn to take the hits and keep working toward your goals until you achieve them and you’ll be uber confident.Like my thoughts? Check out my Podcast, The Madness Continues on iTunes or Soundcloud.