I hate my dad & my Brother =S?
hi guys !! First ! I'm male - 15 yrs old ! My Dad is 58 yrs My Brother Just Turned 17 Last August ! My Life Sucks !! I hate my Dad & My Brother !! They are always Making Me Feel uncomfortable & My Dad always Tell me what to do :S !! & My Bro is cussing me all the time =( Example :" Faris ,, you're Ugly !! " or" Faris you're a F***ing #@$@#$ !! I Swear ! Today I Slept For 2 hours only =S He's cussing Me even if I'm Sleeping & He Hates My Dad to !! He's really Sick !! & My Dad controls everything in my Life !! & he's Yelling at me all the time !!! plz Guys !! Help me !! T__T ! I'm Depressed !!! Really I Hate My Life !! Sometimes I wanna Cry T_T But I won't !! Cuz I keep telling My Self : Guys don't Cry T_T Random note : Before 3 min Me & My Brother were Hitting ..& throwing things on each other !! My Fingers was Bleeding XD ........ plz don't write anything mean !!! I Had enough See ya
My dad hates me and loves my brother.?
Also, I'm not doing to bad at school, and in primary school I had a really good life for instance I was going out with the hottest girls, and getting really good grades and was having fun. Now in high school I hate it. So many people from my old school turned on me for no reason and hate me and give me so much **** in class. Although I had a good life before, my sister warned that everyone changes and that, but I didn't know this would happen. I only have a couple of friends now, and even get teased a bit. I wasn't expecting this and it's nothing I'm used to, so I'm finding it hard. I don't have too much friends now even though I used to have heaps! I have slight social disorders,because of my dad. I get very intimidated when my dad talks to me and can't speak properly, like I blunder, I dont say the right words and that has been happening school more often. I can start to speak to people great when I know them better or are younger then me/have less leisure over me. But if I'm speakin
My brother hates my dad, what can I do?
I know I just asked a question on this but I forgot some details....... My brother hates my dad and believe me, for stupid reasons. I worry that my brother won't talk to my dad in the future and that would kill my dad (figuratively). The thing is my brother is extremely selfish and really doesn't care for other peoples feelings. I asked him why he hated dad last night and he said for some reason.....basically, my dad sometimes makes fun of us behind our back and in front of us. It's in a joking way usually but my brother is incredibly sensitive. I wish my dad didn't do this, but knowing his personality, he wil lcontinue. Also, he does it a lot wrose to me than my brother but my brother is more sensitive so he takes it to heart more. Also, I have confronted him about how selfish he is and he just rolls his eyes at that, but I can't express how selfish he is. Maybe I should stop??? And one more thing.......he says he thinks my dad is a terrible parent......he's not perfect but that's what my brother expects. Howver, the most terrible thing my dad did with my brother is let hm get so selfish when the signs were there. The sign was in 7th grade he started going on the computer 4 hours a day to email his friends phones and talk to them and my parents didn't care that he was on 4 hours a day.........my guess as to why he is like this now. By the way, he is 14 and a freshman, I am 17 and a senior. I want this fixed before I leave for college in one year. WHat can I do>?
My dad said I was his favorite in front of my little brother and I think my brother feels sad about it. What should I do?
You should tell your little brother that you think he's awesome and tell him that one day soon your dad will see how amazing your little bro is.Next, make good on that promise and show your dad how amazing your little bro is. Let him know that you will never allow that kind of talk again. If he knows how opposed you are to that crap, he might not do it again. But, in case he tests you, be ready. You all are a team. If your dad wants to separate members of the team, make sure he's the only one who suffers. Make sure it's you & your brother together no matter what. Dad can be a part of the party if he wishes, but he will never separate brothers. If dad continues on this path, he will force you to choose, and he won't want to force into a position of having to choose between your rather and your brother, right? Right. You're in the driver's seat. Drive.
Why do I hate my brother so much?
I have the same problem. Its gotten to the point where he makes comments like, you will regret treating me like this for the rest of your life and its not fair that you treat me like this. The only thing I do is give one word answers and not really respond. My reasons for acting the way I do started in middle school. He would steal my mothers quarters and silver change to get sodas at school and blame me for the missing change, I had no proof that I could use to prove my innocence so I let it go……. this happened at least twice that I can remember. Literally 10 years later I learned that he was coming into my room at night and stealing my debit card. This freak would withdraw money from ATMs and put my debit card back in the morning. He stole at least 300 that I have found so far. Apparently he made a bad investment, he also sold the Wii among other things. When I try to talk to my mom about this she defends him. Now its 2 years later, he goes to work and comes home to smoke weed. He leaves his laundry on the floor in the bathroom instead of using the hamper which is right next to the washer, he does not do any chores, he thinks cleaning up the kitchen means putting everything in the sink and waiting for it to magically disappear. I can no longer talk to my mother about this problem because she will say he does what I tell him to (when pigs fly) and I don’t want to talk about this anymore. The frustration has built up inside me sing I was 12 (Im 26 now) Im not sure what do do about this now. All I can say is that I have no love for this pot head residing in the room next door. All the advice I can give to you is to:A. Talk to your parents in a very adult manner, give them a impression for concernB. Get therapy (Its all I got right now)
I am the favorite child and I hate it. Any advice?
I am a twin and I have two wonderful parents (or at least a wonderful mom and a dad who I have other issues with). My twin and I are polar opposites and it is clear both to me and my brother that I'm the favorite. For a while it was more muted but ever since high school it's been extremely obvious. My brother used to always be the more academic one, scoring higher marks then me, all though marginally, in subjects like math and science while I was known as the more "humanities" son, taking a liking to English and history as well as being a generally more social and popular person, as my brother was rather closed off. Ever since high school however, I have begun to achieve higher marks then my brother all around and he is also starting to butt heads with my father much more, as they are both very stubborn. Conversely, every small observation that I make or accomplishment that I achieve is rewarded with a "you will make a great parent, professional, successful person etc" or something of the sort. My dad also is frequently upset with my brother and, rather than getting him a therapist, which he seems to clearly need or even going to my mom, he shares his dissatisfaction with him to me, his other son. I just wish my brother and I were back on a level playing field because I'm so weary of being the favorite son. Advice?
I hate my brother so much? SO MUCH?
he pisses me off all the time! its annoying because my mom loves him so much hes her favorite and i know she will make him food and derve him and when i ask she gets mad and asks cant u do it? arent u old to be asking me im like what baout him? hes 25 and ur doing it for him and she says im a girl i hsould do it myself? i was like really? and whatever my brother wants for dinner my mom makes it he pisses me of so much he well talk down on me he acts like a smart blank (yahoo deletes if i have cuss wors apparently) at me. and at restaraunts he CRITIZISES everyone thats all he does and he makes a face it pisses me off he would roll his eyes when he sees a random stranger acting they just went out to eat with him and they left me here without food ive told my mom how much i dislike his attitude but she gets all pissed off at me i cant stand being in the same house as him! everything he does is annyoing he talks crud about our dad because he was never there for him My dad was in college trying to become better so we can have things we use to be poor untill my dad became the doctor he is now and my brother still talks crud about him behind his back BUT he would go out to eat with my dad in the morning and ofcourse my dad is paying so im sure hes doing it to get free food and ive witnessed he got money from my dad becuase "he couldnt pay his phone bill" and he says he never borrows money from him but he does he spends money on himself and his friends and wasting it like nothing and hell be complaining i srsly dont think i can live like this because how much he stresses me out i get into rages whenever he pisses me off or my mom yells at me because of him i get into rage that i have to punch the wall and damge things to get my anger out he even trys to get me into trouble yesterday he told my mom the ants were getting into the bread (i got bread from it last its sugared bread ) and my mom goes into rage yelling at me and guess wat there where no ants in it._. he always does this how can i deal with this? i hate how he acts so much and hes so racist even to his own kind!! anyways thanks
My mom and dad are getting married and my brother hates my dad...what do I do?
For some odd reason, my brother (15) doesn't like my dad at all! Ever since my ad moved in with us ( me, mom, and brother), mybrothers been tring to act all manly and its not working out so well because he ends up assulting me! And then my dad gets on my brother for putting his hands on me, and my brother freaks out and then he and my dad get into this big argument! Should my parents get married still even if my brother ends up ruining the wedding and marriage?