My best friend and girlfriend got into a fight?
Give them both the cold shoulder if they both acting ignorant.... They both are making you choose whether or not they mentioned it because your gilrfriend said it directly but your best friend said it indirectly by saying she doesn't want to be around with you when you are with your girlfriend.. it's pretty obvious they have. They both mean much to you, but in different ways. Tell them individually especially your girlfriend that both have to try and get along as they both mean so much to you.... if they can't understand that... then they are not worth creating a headache over! A fight can always be resolved when a smart person solves it.....if you know what the fight is about then act according to what the situation was that led to the fight.. and resolve it. But, don't take sides... either one could have started it if you didn't know who actually did.
I am in love with my girlfriend's best friend, what should I do?
First: Tell your girlfriend that you’re sorry, she’s a wonderful girl and she’s gonna make someone a wonderful girlfriend but she’s not the one you’re looking for and in the interest of minimizing pain all around, you think it’s for the best if you call it off.Don’t be an asshole about it. Don’t hedge your bets. Don’t keep her hanging on just in case this other thing doesn’t work out. That’s not fair.The sooner you cut her loose, the sooner she’ll get over you and find love again. It might be kind to help give her a great reputation by talking her up to give her a head start on finding love again. Always leave people in a better position than you found them. Consider this your good dead for humanity.Let that settle down before you make your next move.Now, go talk to her best friend. She’ll have far more respect for you for treating her friend with kindness and respect and now have a conversation about how you two want to proceed. Your girlfriend will take it a whole lot better if you were kind about your split too. She’s far less likely to cause you problems or blow up their friendship if she sees you as a good man who would be good for her best friend and it could be a win all around.The key is respect and kindness. Don’t make things more complicated than they need to be.
My best friend became friends with my ex's new girlfriend. What sould I do?
Ok, so I was with my ex for 10 years. We were engaged, but in June of 2014 I found out he was cheating on me, so I broke up with him but I was completely destroyed. My best friend and her husband met his new girlfriend this year, (not the one he cheated with) so my best friend befriended her on FB right away and also got her number but told her that she was best friends with her boyfriends ex. About a month ago she posted a selfie with that girl on FB, I was mad about that, not jealous of my ex's new girlfriend as I am in a relationship with somebody, but I was mad that my supposedly best friend was doing that to me. I text her and told her that I wouln't do that to her because that is not what best friends do, and she apologized but didn't remove the picture, a few days later my ex's girlfriend ended up posting a lot of pictures with her and my ex, and tag my best friend on all the pictures when my friend was only in one picture. I saw all the pictures and I was really angry at my friend because she knows that I don't want to see my ex not even in pictures... I don't hate him or anything, I already forgave him, but I just don't want anything to do with him. So my friend didn't untag herself from the pictures, she just left them there, knowing I was going to see them, so I just unfriended her from Facebook, but didn't tell her anything. I feel she that she doesn't care about my feelings, so I don't know if I should still keep her as a friend?
Why should your girlfriend be your best friend?
Because best friends are forever.And I think that is quite literal. Because you just love each other so much, you feel good with one another, openly discuss life and personal things, get each other's needs met and or you do whatever it is that you do and you do it well and together.Best friends don't care about each other's weaknesses, because they know them all. When you're not best friends, and you have a co-dependent or otherwise unfriendly relationship, than you have an imbalance of sorts that can play out in many ways.For example, a couple who don't trust one another 100%, and who hide certain aspects of themselves from one another can lead to communication breakdown and other negative effects- and subsequently either they end up miserable/depressed/stressed (for like...decades) or a divorce, and one of them ends up in a dark, bare apartment and the other gets the emotionally disturbed children and the house....
I hooked up with my best friend but he has a girlfriend - what do I do now?
He's your best friend right? Although it sucks for his girlfriend, I think you should do him a favor, and pretend it never happened. This might sound like I'm being bitchy, but I'm not trying to...but, what did you expect? It was sex. You were both drunk. He obviously realizes that it was a mistake he never should have made. He sounds like he really doesn't want to lose his girlfriend, and as his best friend, you should stick by that promise to be there for him, and just let it go.I think that he's trying real hard to get things back to the way they were, and that's not easy. I've hooked up with a best friend before. It's awkward afterwards, but for some reason, it worked out. It'll probably work out for you too. :) Do you have feelings for him? It sure sounds like it. It sucks,but it's kind of just the way it is. You shouldn't jepordize his relationship with his girlfriend just so that you can be happy. Just because what would that do? I think you know that you two will never happen or anything. I mean, you're best friends. It just doesn't work like that.What he did to his girlfriend was wrong, and it may seem like you should tell her, but I don't think it's any of your business. (ever if you were the "other girl") It'll only make her hate you. Just try to get over it, It'll be best in the long run. Sorry if my answer was harsh. Goodluck =)
Is it okay for my girlfriend to have a male best friend?
It all depends with your girlfriend. What kind of a person is she? If she has many guy friends and doesn't fear telling you about them, especially the ones who hit on her, then it may be OK.But if she has few guy friends, and doesn't tell you about them, that is a red light. If she has many guy friends it means she knows how to handle herself around guys. She knows boundaries. If she has few guy friends, it means she doesn't really know that much about guys, and one of them may just sweep her off her feet.My best friend is a girl who has a bf she loves. Normally we talk about almost everything. But when it comes to her rship, she changes the subject. We can only talk lightly on it. She doesn't even tell me about her rship problems. She sorts them out with her bf. She also refuses to flirt with me, lol. If I initiate it, she laughs and either leaves me on read or changes the subject. She her boundaries.She has many many guy friends. She's overly friendly and knows how to handle herself around them. Even those who hit on her, she knows how to refuse, and they still remain friends.So, yes she can have a male best friend. But you need to be confident that she knows her boundaries and won't end up falling for him. And the amount of communication she makes with you and attention she gives you should be twice as much as what she gives him.Good luck.
Jealous of my girlfriend's best friend?
Its crazy that I'm jealous of a girl. But my girlfriend makes me feel that her best friend is more important than I am. Yes, they've been friends for two years and I've only been on the scene for 6 months, but we keep arguing ab the situation. On our 6 months, my gf spent more time w/ her bff than me. I'm tired of being jealous and I'm tired of arguing. I love her to death, but somethings gotta give. Any suggestions??
Why don’t I like my girlfriend's male best friend?
Without more information I have to make some base assumptions. It is my strong opinion based on experiences that males and female can't be 100% just friends. Here is why, if you connect with someone even without attraction you associate good feelings with that person, under the right circumstances any to friends can develop attraction based on personality. Personally I know people that suddenly developed attraction because the other person started a relationship or got attention from the opposite gender.So assuming your girlfriend and her male friend spend time alone together, you are threatened in some way. She may have zero interest in him romantically, but there is still something between them and there is the possibility of their relationship changing.Now if he's an average guy and friendly, he likes you and you don't think there is any threat than I have nothing for you. You could be more attractive, more successful, less awkward, better in pretty much every way, but your girlfriend is connecting with him on some other level.My advice, set mutual boundaries like don't do date activities with other people, if they see one another in private and go out to eat or whatever without anyone else around that is probably violating your relationship in some way.
My best friend and my girlfriend seem to have more things in common than me and my girlfriend and my girlfriend opens up more to my best friend than me. What should I do?
If you are big enough to have a girlfriend than you SHOULD be big enough to understand obvious signs that your girlfriend might not be interested in you now.However do check once again weather (1)she gives more attention to your friend than you or (2)she is more happy to meet your bestfriend than you(3) waits for your bestfriend but not for you ,ETCIf it's obvious that she doesn't have interest in you anymore than you must also stop giving her lot of attention ( don't stop giving her attention, you can still keep her as a good friend , unless you now fell hatred for her)But understand that she isn't interested and find some other girl who will be more beautiful than her and more trustworthyAnd Very very importantNEVER EVER BRING THAT GIRL BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR BESTFRIEND.Bestfriend are god gifted and you will never be able to make a bestfriend like him in future so just don't give unnecessary attention to people who don't deserve your attentionHope you find a girl better than her