Why is my sister in law so unforgiving over something so simple?
I thought I would add a response as I review people's answers. Thanks btw everyone you're helping me feel better! No this is not the first incident, it has occured before & I have ignored it until I couldn't anymore, without elaborating too much we have discussed our issues and said we would be upfront with each other, but given past experiences, I cannot help but feel manipulated once again. A sucker eh? In response to 1 person who said she may feel alone as a mother, add. background - my brother works away from home, 3 weeks on and 3 weeks off, when he is off, I have in the past practically raised my one nephew until mom and dad decided it was time to be a mom (they are much younger than myself) & she has family all around her that have done nothing but support and help her 1 of us is always babysitting. I do feel like this is emotional blackmail! These matters always occur when my brother isn't home & he will be home tomorrow & I will have to address this with him I suppose.
How to make someone forget something?
My sister was eating goldfish, and I reached for one, but stopped because i wanted to eat a little healthier. In response my sis picked one up and "open wide", so i told her no because i had an apple to eat healthier. Then she took the goldfish, said she was proud, then went up stairs. But ever since then she has been down my throat about eating healthy. Anytime I even have one potato chip she yells at me. How do I make her forget that the goldfish/apple thing so she will stop bugging me?
Am I a bad person for hating my "sister"?
I can understand where you're coming from cause i’ve dealt with similar issues. shes so cocky and so arrogant. shes self obsessed and she treats me like absolute shit. i was a fat kid and the only thing she use to do was embarrasses me in front of her friends calling me fat,making fun of everything i do and and my teeth. even after i lost 38 kgs she still found some way to make fun of me. I didn't know it would have such a huge impact on me cause i now suffer with low self esteem issues and am very self conscious. I feel terrible every single day and i know that if it wasn't for her my life would have been 100 times better. Growing up my sister was given more love than me and that didn't bother me until i became as old as her when she started getting things for being the darling daughter that she is.For her 18th Birthday she god a pair of diamond studded earnings worth like 42k or something. and i got ‘Im low on cash’the apparent Reason for that is the fact that i am a guy and she is going to be married and sent off. My parents are aware of the mistakes they have made with her but its not like that are stopping her from doing anything cause she is ‘Beyond repair’. Thats a load of bullshit cause i know how they react when even the slightest thing hurts her. They use her as a bad example in front of me but the moment i turn around they praise her for even the smallest thing she does. if i do something not even remotely connected to something she did they start shouting at me. they are not aware of the things they have done and they think im in the wrong. During fights ive even brought up the issue and they couldn't say a word but they start bringing my studies in between just to change the topic. i basically hate my dad and my sister so much that sometimes i just fell like running away till my feet bleed.
What does it mean if you say something then immediately forget what you said?
So at least once a day, I will say something then like my friend, sister, etc will say t back to me, and I will be like huh? Then there like that's what you said then I'm like I did? So anyway I say things then right after I say them I forget what I said... Should I be worried? All answers appreciated! Thanks :D
Forgot my sister's birthday, now what?
My sister's birthday was a few days ago and I totally forgot about it. I'm away at college and only speak to my family about once or twice a week over the phone and nobody mentioned it last time I talked to them. Perhaps it is bad, but I count on my family, especially my sister, to remind me of these days (mothers day, grandma's birthday, etc). I feel bad, but is it too late to do anything since it has been a while? Should I just forget it and move on and hope she forgets it too? I know she has a busy life, but always remembers mine, so I feel bad. I guess I need a special calendar with all these days marked in advance for me.
I SAW MY SISTER MASTURBATING???
I'm a 14 year old boy, and i masturbate but i never knew my sister masturbate she's 21, earlier i went to her room i wanted to tell her something really important, i opened the door and saw her naked and masturbating, she saw me but she didn't say anything, i said sorry then i ran to my room, my parents are not home, i'm confused and i don't know what to do, i'm ashamed to talk to her, i think she wants to talk to me now but i don't want to, what do i do now????? Should i leave the house just for now??? what does she want to say to me??