Im 14 and want to marry my girlfriend?
Ive been with my girlfriend for just over 8 months now we're both 14 and we're moving quite slowly. We couldn't even talk to each other without our faces going red for the first month but now we're like best friends I kind if feel like we are brother and sister in a non weird way everyone says that relationships at this age never last but I honestly feel like that I'm going to be with her forever I just can't imagine losing her and we are so close together and she's all I think about she's my like my best friend and I know I'm going to marry her so why does everyone say it won't happen
Is 14 too young to get married?
Thanks for the a2a.Is 14 too young to get married?There are actually several levels to answering this. From a historical perspective, no, 14 is not too young. But… then again… from a historical perspective slavery is a normal activity, so take that with a very large grain of salt.I suppose we should keep our consideration to the modern world, where we have internet access (and are on Quora to prove it) and a fairly civilized set of societies.With the life stability that comes from modern life, there is no good reason to marry at 14, and quite a large number of developmental reasons to not marry.I was married at 18, and I am shocked that we’ve stayed together for 24 years and counting. We were too young by any metric except success. I wouldn’t want my children married that young much less 14.There are other considerations as well, and I think we should examine them.First, cultural values. Marriage isn’t the same across the world. In most Western countries, marriage is between two people who choose to be together. It is a form of contract that no-fault divorce makes an at-will agreement. While that may initially seem to mean that the 14 year old can change their mind and walk away if they are unhappy, in practical terms it means the 14 y.o. is kept at the whim of whoever pays the bills. In a culture where arranged marriages are common, and divorce is a rarity, the stability for the 14 y.o. is greater. … however, that might just mean one is stuck in an awful situation for longer.The individual cases are what should really matter.But, we can’t make policy for nations of millions of people based on individual cases. Policy-wise, I think it is wise to restrict marriage to adults.So, basically… yes, 14 is too young to be married.
Can a 14-year-old boy marry a 24-year-old girl?
No. First of all, marriage at 14 is illegal. People at 14 are not emotionally ready for marriage, and it is also known as child marriage, something the governments of various countries are doing their best to combat.Second, when the person turns 18 and the other turns 28, if you still want to do it, go ahead. Age gaps don't matter when you're in love.
Can a man marry a 13 year old girl?
No dude,, she is now 13 only. She needs to be 18 atlist. Cozz not only for the Rules or regulation ,, but also for her feelings of love to you. She may loves you ,,, but she may be in attraction of you,,, when she will be quite adult to understand what love is,,, then it's easy to understand that how much she loves you.Not only this,,, she should study this time. This is her studious time. She has to be a real good woman in future. Cozz of her own upcoming mentality as being an adult. She is the daughter of her parents,,, like every parents her parents also want their daughter as a self-depending true powerful woman according to the present situation of the world. And she has to fulfill their wish who reared her up by the restless try.And she needs to understand the actual meaning of love.Yeah,, love is a virtue for all. Cozz TO LOVE AND TO BE LOVED IS EVERYTHING IN THE LIFE , RATHER THAN ANYTHING. Loving is not a sin of course. But as you think yourself as her protector and everything of her need,,, you should understand that you have to encourage her for her better future throughout the study. That she can automatically understand that you, the all supporter next to her parents, gave everything to make her a true one. And that feelings in her mind will automatically change to a love for you.Hope I said correct. If I tell anything wrong plzz forgive me:)Have and give two better lives for you both…God bless you..:)
Boyfriend wants to marry me at 14? Help!?
Sorry, this is a little long! I'm 14. My boyfriend is 16. We have been together for almost 9 months. Hes an amazing guy, and I know that I love him. Please don't tell me that I don't because I'm "too young." I'm also very sure that he loves me too. Very soon into the relationship, we started discussing the future. We both have very similar goals in life and know that we could easily make it together someday. Then he started talking about marriage. There is no doubt in my mind that I want to marry him someday. However, there's a problem. He doesn't want someday. He wants now. Earlier in the relationship, he told me that he would probably ask me in a year when he could afford an engagement ring. Now, he's basically asking me to skip the engagement process and to go have a small (technically illegal) wedding. He says that we should each invite 5 friends and find someone else to serve as the minister. The problem? We wouldn't be able to live together. We wouldn't want to have kids yet or anything. He cant afford to support me if he can't even get me an engagement or wedding ring yet. I asked him what the benefits would be since we couldn't do any of that. He said that just the knowledge of being married would be amazing. I agree. I don't necessarily think we are too young. But I do think we are not mature enough. This whole idea is making me crazy cause he's asking me so often, and I don't want my wedding to be so "ghetto." I want it to be special, not rushed. Almost everyone I know has told me that I'm very mature for my age. That may be true, but I don't think I'm mature enough to be married and I don't think he is either. Please help me! I need to know what to tell him to get him to stop asking, because it's obviously something he really wants, and I don't want to be mean about this.
Can two 13-14 year olds get married?
Why don't you both write your own vows and recite them to each other in your own special ceremony? No one else has to know. You could exchange matching rings and kiss, but if you engage in sex, be sure to use protection properly. You could even take photos and make your own cake. You'll still need to live at your own parents' house until you're older, but if you are both committed, I don't see any harm in pledging your love to your sweetheart. You could even make a five-year plan that includes high school graduation, college or employment, and a family eventually when you are in your 20's.
In what country can you marry a 14-year-old girl?
Andorra, Belarus, Bolivia, Brunei, Colombia, Cuba, Ecuador, El Salvador, Guatemala, Iran, Mexico, Nicaragua, Panama, Papua New Guinea, Paraguay, Sao Tome and Principe, Saudi Arabia, Solomon Islands, Sudan, Syria, Tanzania, Trinidad and Tobago, United States, Uruguay, Venezuela.Parental and/or Judicial consent are needed in most cases.Source: Chart shows the lowest age you can legally get married around the world
Is it alright for a 14 year old girl to marry a 19 year old boy
Thank you for asking. I do believe that marriage between a 14 year old girl and a 19 year old boy has many disadvantages, especially for the girl. (I do want to point out that you used the words "girl" and "boy" rather than "woman" and "man." ) I think it would be impossible for you to continue your life in a normal way, and I believe marriage would involve sexual activity at some point. You may have every intention of just "being together" but if you love each other, I believe it will be result in some sexual activity. Actually it is a global problem and some organizations are trying to prevent these marriages. I will give you a list of reasons why a young bride is going to have a difficult life.(1) Marriage may mean that she will leave school since you want to be together. Going to school gives her choices and opportunities in life allowing her to make contributions in her community and ending the cycle of poverty.(2) Sex is a large part of marriage and I believe that you and your young bride will engage in sexual activity at some point. This is denying the young girl the right to make decisions about her sexual health and well being.(3) You are both young and unless you have some source of income or parental support how can you be together? You will have all the responsibilities of marriage without education and job opportunities. (4) You are going to have different interests because of the 5 year age gap. This may work for an older couple but not for young people. You are both maturing and may lack the necessary "tools" to understand and solve some of the challenges of marriage.In summary, I don't think it is a good idea. I can see many problems especially since one of you may fall out of love at such a young age. Personally I believe you should date which means you will still be together and forget the idea of marriage at this stage of your relationship. You can look forward to that event in the future when you have finished your education, have job prospects, and financial security.
Where can a 14 year old and a 30 year old get married?
I know this is your sister and I know this is going to be hard but I want you to pick up the phone book and find the NON-emergency number for the police department and I want you to tell them exactly what you have told us...your 14 year old sister is pregnant by a 30 year old man. Don't do another thing until you have done this...this is very, very important. If you can't find the number, tell me what city you are in and I will look it up for you. I know your sister will be angry with you if you do this but she needs protection right now. She is still just a little girl in the eyes of the law and even though she "thinks" she wants to have sex with this older man and have his baby and get married to him, in reality she has been grossly manipulated. And even if she was permitted to marry him (that isn't going to happen), as soon as she hits her 20's, her "husband" will dump her for another 13 or 14 year old girl. And that is because that 30 year old man is a disgusting, sexual predator and pedophile. Don't let him get away with hurting your sister like this...please tell the police right now what he did. Also, there is no state in the United States (not even in Georgia) where a 14 year old girl can get married to a 30 year old man with not only the permission of the girl's mother (or father) BUT also with the permission of a judge too. And when that judge finds out that the 14 year old girl is pregnant, that man will not getting married but going to prison instead. Good luck and God bless! And go tell...now!
How should I marry a girl who is already married at the age of 14 but she run away from him 7 years ago?
The infringement of section 5 (iii) of the Hindu Marriage Act,1955 for Hindu marriage where the age for bridegroom should be completed 21 years and for bride 18 years, does not by itself make the marriage null and void under section 11 of the Hindu Marriage Act,1955.The wife in such case has right to get the voidable marriage annulled through decree of nullity after she attains the age of 18 years under section 3 of the Prohibition of Child Marriage Act,2006 if the exactly two years of her attaining 18 years has not passed. If the age is more than 2 years after attaining majority, this privilege will not be available to her. Then, only available legal remedy will be to seek dissolution of marriage by decree of divorce before she can remarry.