What is more important, family or friends, e.g., one’s spouse and children or their best friends?
Family should always come first. They are your blood and your heritage. Family blood lines give you a sense of who you are and where you came from. Like anyone else, family members don't always agree and they don't always get along - in some cases some family members stop talking to each other entirely for stretches of time, but they are still family and when push comes to shove, they are always there for you no matter what, through good times and bad. Some friends are close like family and will stick by your side as such. However, many are not. Some friends are 'friends of the moment', the year, the decade, etc, but sometimes friends eventually move on. After all, they are not tied to you like your family is.
How can I repay my best friend for always being there for me?
No other freind is like her at all. She has done so much, more than anyone else ever could. And she know's she like my sister to me, and I tell her all the time. She can get me threw anything. She really helps me and Ican go to her for anything. It does make her feel good. She is perfect. What are some nice ways to repay her for that? She is amazing. I already use words, what are some other great ideas?
Boyfriend more important than best friend?
Ok here is the story i have a best friend, we have been friends for 4 years now or something. She just got a new boyfriend they been together only 3 weeks and she's already acting like she can't live without him. Like on msn she won't even reply to me because she'll be too busy talking to him and it's really annoying. If she writes back to me she only writes "yh" "kk" or no or something like that, she replies really short the only time she really says more is when she talks about her boyfriend. That's really bothering me. At the moment she went over to her country for a while, kind of an emergency and she even told me she misses her boyfriend more than me. She told me she would never let a guy come in between us and that she would never put a guy in front of me ... and look whats happening now after just 3 weeks. Now that shes away she hardly writes back to me on msn or bebo because she keeps taking to him on skype and bebo. It's really annoying. I don't know if it's normal or not but I think it's over the top. They are together only 3 weeks and they're telling each other they are madly in love and they can't live without each other, there never gonna let each other go and all that .. blah blah blah .. u know the type of thing I'm on about right? Can anyone give me advice on this?
My girlfriend says her best friends are more important to her than me. Should I break up with her?
My mom always told me that when people asked me as a kid if I liked my mom more or dad, I would always look confused and say, “I love them both.” And I would run to them to give them a hug. When I got older, when my mom asked me the same question, my answer would still be the same. But then, she asked me why? I remember saying, “I cannot exist if it was only one of you. I love you both.”I have a best friend from senior secondary. She was the first person whom I loved so much outside my family. To this day, she remains my best friend. I have 3 best friends from college. I have 2 best friends from university. Most of them don’t know each other. But they do ask me who is more important to me. All of them are my best friends. How do I choose? Each one has a place in my heart and though I share the same emotion with all of them, they have a different place. If one of these places fails, my heart would fail. That would be my definition.One of my friends once put me in a fix. She said, “Your high school best friend and one of your university best friends are dying in a hospital. Who would you go to first?” I said, “You know why you are not one of my best friends? Because my best friends would never ask me to chose between them. They know what place they hold in my heart.”In your question, you did not mention under what circumstances you girl friend said that her best friends are more important. Also, she met her best friends way before she met you and she obviously trusts them more than she trusts you. If you are ready for any kind of relationship at all, you should give her the opportunity to start trusting you. But if you are the kind of attention seeker who expects your girlfriend to hang out around you and only you even when there are others around, you must give relationships a rest and work on your trust issues first.One last thing, if you are asking your girlfriend to chose between you and her best friends, you need to grow up! You are too young in mind to be in a relationship with someone.Cheers..! :)
I really get jealous when my best friend talks to other girls. Is that normal?
getting jealous when your best friend talks to other people is normal in a way. Let's see here, when you give someone the status of being your best friend that means that this person is a very important person in your life (male or female) but being us humans sometimes what's ours is ours and that's where jealousy is born. Jealousy is harmful to some relationships so do control these feelings. (I know it's hard) but for the sake of your friendship/relationships do try. If your friend is of the opposite sex and you get this tight feeling in your stomach when they spend more time with other people and not you it might mean you like them. I would recommend you making sure you do, because if you do tell them that and it turns out that you got jealous just because ‘youre my best friend not their best friend’ kinda feelings. That’ll mess up your friendship, so please do be careful.i wish you the best of luck.
My best friend gets all the attention from guys?
Girl you can be the ugliest chick in the world and get attentions from guys so looks aren't that important. Its about confidence and your charisma. If you pull up your energy and really try to connect with the guys you'll shine right through. but you have to stop the pity party first. Your totally hot and soon as you believe it everyone else will too
Why is insurance important, 20 pts for the best answer?
Insurance is important because it basically protects you Finnancially. Let's say you run into somebody's car and you dont have insurance. Since the other guy has insurance the insurance company pays for your repair or a percent depending on your coverage plan. ( coverage mean how much or what things are protected in said plan.) and since you dont have insurance you have to pay the repairs out of pocket. for business they pay insurance for their employees because if an employee gets hurt or damages a customers property the insurance company will help pay the costs. In short, Insurance is like a money pillow in case of emergency. You pay a monthly fee and when/if something happens to you the company has your back financially.
My boyfriend does drugs with his best friend. I’m really angry. What should I do?
Find a new boyfriend.Seriously, this will probably go nowhere but down. I’ve been in two relationships with “weekend druggers”. The first one, going to get high with his friends was always more important than either me or our new baby. I could not leave him alone with the baby to go shopping, because one time I did, he was so stoned, he couldn’t even hear/deal with the baby crying in his crib. He was just stumbling around the house. That was it for me, I was gone soon after.The second time actually was only on weekends, but since I did not partake, he would hang out at his friends house all night (speed mainly) But either way wanted nothing to do with me all weekend. During the week we were both working, and it took me a while to get over the weekend so I was not ready to place nice Monday or Tuesday. This became even more of a problem as he started spending all our money not only on the drugs (a fair amount there as well), but on toys for himself leaving me to strain to pay our bills. Several years after we divorced, he finally did stop the drugs and we are now good firends, but it did take a good 10 years. I’m glad I did not waste MY 10 years waiting for this.Your boyfirend may or may not stop sooner, but really, how long do you want to wait on a “maybe”? If this is something he is not willing to give up, and you are not happy, you can’t make him stop. You can however change your situation.Good luck!
My best friend owes me money?
im 13 and a few times after school me and my bestfriend go to the corner store and i always pay for her and she says shes gana pay me back and never has once but i dont mind bc she only barrows 1$ each time but over the weekend we went shopping and she borrowed like 20$ from me and said she'll pay me back but she is the kinda person that says she'll pay me back and nvr does!! i want my money back but idk how to ask her 4 it bc like if i say "hey remember u owe me 20$" then she will b like "ok ill pay u tomo" and then she wont.... like last yr this girl owed me 10$ and i asked her everyday for it and she said she would giv me it by the next day and its been a year and i still dont have my 10$! so anyways if i ask for my 20$ form my bestfriend she is prob gana say "ok ill giv it to u tomorrow" and then she wont and then i will keep nagging her and then she will get annoyed by me and it will like ruin our friendship BUT I WANT MY MONEY BACK
My friend owes me money but will not pay?
I loaned $100 to my friend three months ago. She keeps telling me she'll have it soon. She keeps buying things like clothes and just bought an i phone and doesn't know how to save her money :| Her parents have problems with the rent and she helps with that. fine I understand she can delay the payment but when she buys useless things instead of paying me back I get irritated.I found out my other friend loaned her $300! and she hasn't paid her either and this doesn't bother my friend for some reason.... what should I tell my friend? Should I give her more time or just tell her I need my money back.