How to stop being jealous?
Your personality type fascinates me. Jealousy is, in your own opinion, causing you suffering. You seem introverted enough to be bothered by it. Instead of using your ego to justify or defend it. No sarcasm or judgments intended. If I am 'Yin', you appear as 'Yang' to me. My personality is almost completely barren of any detectable jealousy. As far as I can tell by my thoughts, feelings and the opinions of people around me. This is my opinion as to why. According to Wiki, The experience of jealousy involves: * Fear of loss * Suspicion or anger about betrayal * Low self-esteem and sadness over loss * Uncertainty and loneliness * Fear of losing an important person to an attractive other * Distrust In regard to how I relate to people, I don't fear loss because I am used to it. I don't get angry at betrayal, because it means I never have to trust the person again. I don't think I have had self esteem since I was a young child, when experiencing loss I just feel blank and hollow. I have lived almost thirty years and counting alone (emotionally) this is a nominal state for me. It doesn't cause enough tension to make me angry. Uncertainty is something I enjoy. I don't like routines. They depress me. The thought of losing family terrifies me. I have never had someone close enough to me to be important romantically. That state is alien to me because I distrust people in general and do not form new emotional bonds easily, or at all in the romantic sense. My current emotional make up is something I am working to change so it interests me to see my opposite in someone else psychologically.
How do I stop being jealous from my ex?
Jealousy is the feeling of pain from your bruised ego. It'll hurt if you have a feeling of scarcity, if you think it's your fault, if you feel like you won't find a better one, if you feel like you can be replaced very easily, if you feel like you're not worth her.It won't hurt if on the contrary you feel like he/she was just one fish in the ocean, if you've been perfectly fine and blame them for the breakup, if you trust you'll find someone better, if you actually find someone better, if you believe in your own worth.Get the idea? That's why all the advices about breaking up are all about boosting up your ego, your sense of self-esteem, whether they are good (do sport, do stuff, see friends, take care of yourself, learn things) or bad (multiply one-night-stands).Follow those advices that you know will make you feel good about yourself. Read my post about How To Get Over From Your Ex. If it works, you won't care what he/she is doing anymore.Remind yourself that your ex is an ex now. It's the past. He or she is free to move on, as are you. As much as it hurts, it is over when the other person makes a decision to be romantically involved with someone new. What you can do is give yourself lots of love and self care. Do things you enjoy doing, be with friends and family a lot and open your heart to new possibilities.Despite the above, be aware that you won't get rid of jealousy that easily, it will take some times like few months. Accept it. Tell yourself it's ok to feel jealous. You already hurt, don't be harsh with yourself on top of it.I believe this will help.(If you or anyone like my answer, please give a upvote. Thank you for reading)
How do I stop being jealous of my wife's ex's?
My wife is friends with her ex who she was with for 5 years. We are in a mlm buisness and him and his wife is our direct upline so we see them at different buisness functions and he calls her from time to time. She left him (the night before he was going to propose) because she said that they didn't make each other happy and that they make good friends but a bad relationship. I know that she doesn't love him like she loves me but I get so angry when he calls or if she mentions something about him or any other ex in her past. I love her and I don't want to be this way. I said a lot about him but it's not just him it is if she brings up anyone that she was intimate with. I keep comparing myself to them. Like sexually I keep stressing over wether or not I am as good as they where. To the point that I am not always able to perform. I worry that I am not as good a provider and that she wishes I was more like them. She never has said that at all and only assures me that I am all that she nee
How to stop being jealous?
okay, so my boyfriend and I have only been dating for about 3 months, and hang out all the time and have one lecture together. He looks at this one girl and bring her up all the time, its annoying...he also addmitted to having a crush. however he says he only sees himself with me. i dont believe him and im fully jealous of this other girl. how do i stop being jealous and trust him more???? help
How to stop being jealous of my cousin?
she is 23, i'm 22, we live in the same town, went to the same school from 4th grade til senior graduation in high school, graduated together, had the same circle of friends. my cousin is gorgeous. she always has the nicest clothes and is very put together. our aunt calls her "paris hilton". but tells me im a "cute girl." i dont hate my cousin or feel resentment because of how pretty she is, i know i am pretty as well, just not as pretty as her. whenever i go out with her, it's hard to be myself because i feel like she almost always looks better than i do and i just get really insecure around her. how do i stop this??! we have a christening today to go to and i dont want to feel outdone by her anymore :(
How can I stop being jealous of Rihanna?
You can stop being jealous of Rihanna, by finding all the good things about yourself that YOU love. Think of all of Rihannas cons and maybe you will feel better. Think of her life, and how much yours was/is a lot better because of your friends and family. Rihanna never had true friends, she stated, because she was 'so beautiful' that every other female envied her. Think of the people that love you for who you are, and the people that love her for something shes become, because she has changed A LOT since she started in the industry! I hope you can get over this ^^, best wishes, cool_cat
How can I stop being jealous of my roommate?
hey girl if ur are her best friend she don't want this from u it dosn't matter if she has boy and u don't the thing is try give more time to ur friend ship talk to ur girl hang with her like always and try to find some thing u can do not to be lonly when she is not around i been there honey and i think the problem start when they don't have time for ur frindship so try to make time for each other