How do I tell my date I'm on my period?
I'm going out tonight with someone I've been out with a few times before, and I'm pretty sure things will head toward the bedroom. I really want that to happen, but I'm on my period. I don't want to avoid fooling around because I don't want to make him think I don't want him (because I do), but nor do I want him to be freaked out by my having my period. I use the cup, which sits entirely inside me so it's not externally visible like a tampon is. The only way he'd be able to tell it's there is from the inside. So do I owe him a warning? Or should I not say anything and smoothly avoid sex? Or should I not let things get hot at all and avoid the subject entirely? If I say anything, do you think he'll get freaked out? Please help!!!
How do i tell my mom that i think i have uti?
I'm very young andi think i have uti. Actually ive looked itup and i have a lot of the symptoms. I think ive had it 4 a long time and i don't want to have kidney failure because i've waited 2 long. Please what should i do?
I am in love with a girl. How should I tell her this?
If you both have spent considerable time in getting to know each other and find out your feelings. Then you should tell her you love her, once you know it is love and not lust or loneliness etc. If it is a crush or infatuation with a colleague or classmate or a person who shares the same bus etc, then better not tell anything besides, hey, I'd like to get to know you better. If it is love, love. Mature love, say it the way you feel about it. Say exactly what you feel about it. If it is butterflies you feel in her company tell her that. If it is church bells, tell her that. If it is like hot maple syrup on waffles, tell her that (as Howie said)If it is the relief one gets by massaging a sore muscle after a long walk/run/day of work. Say that. Be genuine rather than trying to impress her or going out of your way. A simple 'I love you' will also be enough, if it is genuine. Not a lot depends on how and when you say it. A lot depends on why you say it. But hey, that's just me.
I love my cousin, how do I tell him?
Nikki - It's hard to explain why I love him. I do these random nice things for him that I have never done for another person in my life! I like to cuddle up next to him and i really don't like close-contact with people. He's really nice to me to, and not because he's my cousin. No that would be family-guilt, doing things just because their family. I asked him to help me with some school work and he didn't hesitate when he said yes. I mean, everyone else always complains when I ask for help on stuff... When we were little so did he, but he doesn't anymore. When we play-fight and stuff it usually ends with him picking me up and I kinda always wondered why he did that. But I like it. It's other stuff to. He's just everything I want in a guy and need in a guy. And unlike a lot of my other cousins and people, he just gets me. He knows when I need to be left alone and stuff [bad temper] and I lock myself in a room I've heard him tell the other kids not to bother me before. But theres more.
How can I get people to stop telling me what to do?
People who tell others what to do have no or poor boundaries. Pity them. They are annoying, even infuriating, but you can stop them. Things I have found helpful to say:I’m sorry. I missed the part about where I actually asked for your opinion on this. Can you refresh my memory?And you are the expert on _____ because of ????Really? Fascinating. I never knew you struggled with _____. Tell me about a time you did what you are suggesting I do, and then tell me how it worked out for you.I’m so glad you think _____ is the answer. My concern however is that if I do that and you’re wrong, I’ll have to suffer the consequences. I’m not ready to do that, but if you are, then by all means let’s _____.Obviously how I’m doing this really bothers you or you wouldn’t just butt in like this without asking if I wanted your advice, so I’m curious. Why do you feel so compelled to tell me how to _______?Well if we’re going to be swapping advice I really do want to talk about how you need to _______. It’s been bugging the heck out of me for months.I ask for advice when I want it, so excuse me if I ignore you right now.I have a mother, thank you.I have a policy of not listening to other people’s advice unless I ask for it.I have a policy of ignoring advice I haven’t solicited.I have a policy of not taking someone’s advice unless they first offer to accept the consequences of my taking their advice.I didn’t realize you had a degree in psychology. Where did you go to school?If I am holding a tool etc. I simply hand the “helpful advisor” the tool and say, “Show me. I learn better by watching.” This works for painting, plumbing, cleaning, decorating etc. too.If you want to give advice, please have children.I know you’re trying to be helpful, but you’re failing badly at it.Some times I enjoy listening to your advice but now is not one of those times.
How do i tell my parents i broke the TV?
I was playing guitar and i swung around and the headstock smashed into the screen, now it has a giant crack in it and the screen is all black and the TV makes this weird screeching noise when i turn it on. my Dad's lectured me before on treating my stuff better (he complains when i leave books lying around on the couch) so he'll go absolutely insane when he sees the TV, what's the best way to tell them so i don't get into a gigantic deal of trouble?
I have a crush on my cousin! What should I do? Should I tell her? Or should I keep it to myself?
I'm a 14 year old boy, my cousin is 13. I've been thinking about her all day long lately and I think I'm in love with her! We grew up together since young and we always played and laughed and cried together. I see her more as a sister than a cousin. Now I miss those feelings with her together. I don't know if the reason why I'm always thinking of her is because I have a crush on her or I love her as my sister. Whenever I'm with her, I will always not want to leave her side. Her birthday is coming, I don't know if I should tell her my feelings, if I do, what should I say without hurting her and getting her the wrong idea. Or should I text her instead? Please help me! Any help and advice is appreciated
I love a girl but I don't know how to tell her. What should I do?
I will tell you what to do. I have not read others advises. But consider mine.Never, disclose your feelings to her with out analysing her. She may be looking at you as a good friend. But if you try to forward it, it may end your friendship also.Think twice, and check before,whether she had / have any boyfriends. Usually not all women try to play dual games. Some may be too serious about their relation. If you found the second type. You are sucked.But be friendly to her. Ask her to be normal as friends before making move if things went in opposite way.But, don't take things in a negative way. Usually men think about women in a wrong perspective when they denied them or when she is close to some one even. What ever happens. Be positive on her and think everything in a positive way. Because it helps you to analyse her correctly.And finally when you think, all is well, take a good move.Note: Things like this will only work,when the girl is being different to you. If she loves you, you will sense it, ’cause they will make us know their feelings.Warning: I skipped all these steps and Mis judged a girls opinion on me. And Now I am suffering. But you don't do this.