Whats The Most Hurtful Thing Someone Has Said To You??
my husband says the worst things possible, things that he knows kill me inside. yes it stays with me...when we met, god i adored him, but now, i still love him but not anywhere close to how i used to feel about him. i cant forget what he said, even thougth he says that he doesnt mean it and only said it to hurt me...but i think thats worse he should be the man i run to when the world is hurtful, but i cant and wont now. i would never tell him things about my past now, cos what i have told him he has thrown back at me. there are a lot of things i could say to him, but i dont, cos i dont want to sink to his level, plus i dont want to hurt him like that.
How do you politely tell someone that you don't want to be friends with them anymore without sounding rude?
“I appreciate the friendship that we had, and you did nothing wrong, it’s just that I am into other things now. I’ve grown in another direction, and don’t have the time to spend with you. I hope you understand.” This is not rude; it’s tactful and honest.(You ARE into other things: things without her. You DID grow in another direction: away from her.)Walk away, don’t answer questions, and let it be. Hopefully, that will be the end of it. But, it might cause hard feelings; people don’t like rejection.Her reaction is on her. She is responsible for her own feelings.If she persists after that, ignore her, or tell her, “I told you I was done; now leave me alone.”You are responsible for having the friends you want, not those you have a hard time getting rid of.This is about the best you can do if she keeps pestering you for an answer. Some people just don’t take a hint. They would be better off if they did.
I don't want to see my dad.?
My parents are divorced and I have to see my dad every other weekend. However, hi wife and himself are really cruel to me. They tag team me and say really hurtful things, like that I'm fat or stupid. They've turned some of my siblings against me, even my grandma hates me cause of my dad. I love my dad though. That's where it gets really tough. I love him, but he is the worst person I have ever met. If I go to a judge and ask not to see him he'll disown me and his side of the family will hate me with every fiber of their being. If I continue to go over there just because I love him I fear that I'll lose my sanity and go crazy. I don't know what to do.
My Dad is a very arrogant and hurtful man, How do I handle having to see him this Christmas?
He degrades me for my anxiety disorder that was partially caused by him. He is a good father when we are young and bully father when we are adults and late teens. I generally avoid him but when I have to see the arrogant man at Christmas how do I handle it as I am not looking forward to it but want to see the rest of the family.