How do I tell my boyfriend?
I'm sorry to hear you're having such a rough time at the moment. You're not alone. I have PTSD myself and I know it can be a complete ***** and also really scary to talk about. You clearly have a very strong bond with your boyfriend so that's a good start. Obviously it's harder with him not being in the country, but it would be better for you to have the conversation face-to-face if you can. Set aside some time that is convenient for both of you to have a long talk because it will probably be quite emotional for both of you (you, because you'll have to talk about it and him simply because he loves you and doesn't want you to get hurt). You don't have to tell him if you don't want to and you don't have to give lots of detail. If you feel like the conversation is out of your control, just say "I'm sorry, but I don't feel ready to talk about that yet", and he will understand. Some things will be okay and some things will be difficult, and you need to explain that to him. Your boyfriend will undoubtedly have lots of questions so make sure you know about any conditions you may have (if you still have PTSD etc) so that you can give him answers that will enable him to help you. The more he knows, the more he can help. Again, if you don't feel ready to talk about it just say so. It's a very personal thing. I wish you both the best of luck and I hope that things get better soon. :)
How can i tell my boyfriend......?
First of all you are either lying when you say you aren't attracted to other guys or you........no there is no other option you are just lying lol no offense. Everyone looks it's human nature yes the attraction is purely physical and may be overshadowed by your attraction to your man but it is still there. As for him getting pissed about it. He needs to get over himself. And let me explain something about men. Yes Love and Sex go together, however sex can be separate in our heads. Just because he looks at other women doesn't mean he thinks they are more attractive than you or that he is going to do anything about it. And as for what he does when he as you so delicately put it "jacks off" it is his business. Whether he is looking at them on a tv, computer, magazine or in his own head. Yes we do that too we don't need visual stimulation our own heads work just as well, the visual stuff is just faster lol. He is not going to think of you every time he does it. But I'll bet you that it is you in his head a lot of the time. And he should not be openly checking out other women when you are around, feel free to tell him that. Good luck.
How can i tell my boyfriend that i smoke?
Well i have a boyfriend and he doesn't know i smoke (cigarettes).. He doesn't know cause we're not always with each other, and im too scared to tell him cause i don't know how he'll react. But i really hate keeping it from him, and i know sooner or later he's going to find out and that will be worse then me telling him, ya know? So i feel like i should tell him.. but i don't know how to bring it up or what i should say? And i don't know what to do if he gets mad :/ well please help, give any suggestions on what i should say? and PLEASE no lectures on how smoking's bad, blah blah blah. I've heard that a million times and i don't need to hear it anymore. I know its bad, and i've tried to quit but i cant. Well thanks, please help :)
How do i tell my boyfriend...?
I can totally, and completely relate. I went through the *exact* same thing with my first boyfriend. This is something you really, really need to be open about. I know it's super awkward at first but if you can learn to talk openly about the things you do sexually your relationship and comfort level will grow by leaps an bounds. There are a few options: 1) In the "heat of the moment" reach down and guide his hand to somewhere more pleasurable... either away from your vagina or to a more comfortable position, make small sounds to let him know you like this new place or say something like "I really like it there"... what ever comes naturally to you. 2) Talk to him before you fool around again. If you're worried about killing the moment or what-not then don't wait until it happens again. Just be open and say "Hey, remember when we were fooling around? Making out was really great but I'm not exactly comfortable with how far it went. Maybe we could take it slower or ask him to be gentle. I know this can be awkward to bring up but it really will open so many doors for your relationship to grow - kissing and touching are not shameful or embarrassing, it's a fun and pleasurable way to explore and express trust - Another possibility is that you just weren't ready. If you aren't turned on and wet, it isn't going to feel good. Keep in mind fingering doesn't have to be all about going inside the vagina, the clitoris is the most sensitive part and is actually on the outside. - If you don't already you should try touching yourself. Sometime when you're alone, explore with your own fingers to discover what feels good and what doesn't... that way, you know how to guide him. I can almost promise you he just wants to make you feel good, so he'd rather you show him how then let him go on hurting you and thinking you like it. It sounds like (forgive me if I'm wrong) you're both kind of new at this... you're both learning, so teach him. You'd want him to tell you what really drives him crazy wouldn't you?
You will need to evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend on a deeper level, based on these universal signs that I have written about on my blog. These signs may help shed some light on your current situation.18 Universal signs your significant other is using youtheMRSingLink Blog(theMRSingLink)
How can i tell my boyfriend that i use to cut?
I've had experiences like that but not exactly. It was different. When i was going out with my boyfriend last summer i cheated on him. but only for like a day or two because he broke up with me a day or two later. He didnt find out though. So we broke up for a few months or so because he thought i was too young for him. but then he realized that age doesnt matter. so we started going back out in november and i told him at the begging on january what happend last summer and i told him how sorry i was but he didnt care he said. he said all he cares about isz our present and our future. soo im really hoping thats all he worries about. im hoping he'll understand. tell him sooner than later. if you need more help just ask me okay.
How can I tell my boyfriend how much I love him?
"I want you to know how much I love you." Say this while wrapping your arms around his neck and looking into his eyes. Then kiss him. If you can't do that, you may not actually be in love. This will be a good test.
How can I tell my boyfriend that I'm horny?
I recently had a baby and I am very very self conscious about my body ever since. Me and my boyfriend have not had sex since I found out I was pregnant in March! He wouldn't have sex with me my entire pregnancy because he was scared I guess. I'm not usually a very "sexual" person but lately it's all I think about. I kinda tried to hind to him earlier in the night when we were cuddling watching a movie and I was rubbing up against him. But that didn't seem to do anything.. though he had a hard-on afterwards and I gave him a BJ (Sorry so graphic) and 2 minutes later he was finished (no surprise, he hasn't had any in a year!) and then he proceeded downstairs. Needless to say, if women could have "Blue Balls" that's the boat I would be in right now!! How do I tell him I want him?! I can't just flat out say it.. I don't have the guts, and he would probably laugh at me! Anyways - no "sexy" lingerie comments please because like I said, I am very self conscious about my body after the baby. Thanks for any tips!
Here are some choices:Don’t tell him you’re married. Just go cut your contact with him right away. And never, ever get back with him. No need for explanation. Just forget about him totally.Tell him and expect the unexpected (unexpected= boyfie-hubby confrontation, blackmail, hurtful words)Tell hubby. And expect the expected (expected= divorce)Tell him. He says it’s ok, then continues the forbidden relationship. Sooner or later someone you know will know, and eventually hubby will too.Tell him. Boyfie respects hubby. Boyfie loves himself and sees his worth. End of relationship.Blah blah blah. Hey you’re already married. Stop being greedy, manipulative, and egocentric -.- Be content with your hubby and have respect for him, if not love. Be fair with boyfie and let him find someone else.
You are never, under any circumstance, obligated to have sex with anyone. That's a choice for you to make. Bring it up with your boyfriend before he attempts to initiate sex again; he's most likely going to take your disinterest personally and waiting until the last moment will make it worse. I'm definitely not saying you should sleep with him to save his feelings, just tell him before he tries again. Your sexuality is perfectly valid, just as much as his, but be prepared for him to not understand it. Try to be calm when you talk to him, and explain as best as you can. Maybe even have a few articles for him to read after you talk to help him better understand. If he tries to have sex with you after you have this talk, dump him and move on. You deserve to be with someone who treats you respectfully.