The girls at school dont understand?
I don't agree with what they have said about you. You got rights in that school as much as they do and you can report them. Don't let them push you around. You are just new in the school, try to make some good friends in school. You do have a life and that is much better than their life. You got a sensitive mind and a kind heart. Like the way you talk about your family and stuff. It feels good the way you shared your feelings. I think alot of people would like you because of this. I would say you can't imagine how miserable their life is. They always feel insecure on the inside. You are always on their mind. The way you keep it calm just puts them on fire. You are better than them and you are more stronger. I would suggest get a new hobby or make friends in your area. I could have suggested start chating online to people, play games etc but it would just make you glued to the computer. You seem like a lively person so go ahead. Explore around you.... I hope this helps you : )
What are women who dont where underwear trying to say?
What THEY are trying to say IS.... "I'm a nasty ho & I have a nasty coochie & I have no manners & I get a kick outta leaving wet tracks every time I sit down & I enjoy gagging people when I lean over & they have to see a big ol' nasty wet spot on my crotch & I enjoying grossing people out with the nasty smelly sweaty thang."
Ladies, I Don't Understand My Girlfriend?
I love her. I really, honestly, sincerely, deeply, love her with every fiber of my being, and I tell her every day. She says she loves me, that she can see herself spending the rest of her life with me. And though we are apart at different colleges right now, we make each other really happy. But she broke up with me several months ago, and we've just now gotten back together, and I took it really hard. I was suffering from severe depression for several months, ruining my schoolwork and my social life, all because I had lost her. She had gotten really mad at me... said a lot of really nasty things about me, and it really hurt, and I didn't want to talk to her again. But we're back together, and she just did it again today. She didn't say anything to me all day, and when I finally said hello, she said she had had a boring day, but then started yelling at me, about how I have no drive for life and lack adventure in my life, and I always need things explained. It hurts... I've spent the last several months in depression from losing her, and now she's yelling because I have no drive for life. I tried to explain it to her, but she just said "Oh, it always has to come back to your crappy life, doesn't it!". I don't want her to be mad at me, and I tried to talk to her about it, but every time I do she gets more mad. How can she say she loves me and wants to marry me one day, and then literally the next day say that I have no drive for life? What's going on? I'm so confused, and I have no idea what to do here.
How can one tell when a girl really means something she says rather than just saying things to say them?
Women have a tendency to communicate a lot of information "between the lines". Though I am not sure, I believe that has something to do with a false romantic notion about the soulmate (the one) which should be able to read her mind like her best friend. Of course this is just bogus, since that kind of understanding needs years to develop fully. The chance of two people understanding hidden meanings immediately is close to zero. But it is useful for men who know how to pretend they are women's soulmates.What I try to say is that you cannot really tell. At least not until you have lived together with a woman intensely for several years. And even then there will be WTF-moments in your communication.My strategy has been obliviousness. I simply believe that every person, regardless sex, mean exactly what they say. When someone says "It is cold in here", then my answer will be to reassert them: "Yes, it's quite cold". By answering literally, I force the other person to state what they really wanted to say, e.g. "Oh, could you please close the window?".Sometimes I notice that a person meant something different, by a long pause after my reply. If I'm in the mood I can act out their princess-wish a little more eagerly than is socially accepted. By doing that I signal that I have understood what they meant and I have no problem helping them out with whatever they need, but isn't it comical that they need their semantic detour?The advantage of my approach has been that women have to learn to speak more frankly to me, and those who really don't want to, disappears naturally from my social circles. Thereby, I do not have to care about whether women are communicating directly or "between the lines".Sure, sometimes I too wonder what kind of communication strategy a woman uses at a specific time, especially when I speak with people I don't know/who don't know me. These times I ask if they meant what they said or if there is something more to it. That is perhaps the best strategy of them all.
Why do men say women are hard to understand?
It's not a bad thing. Don't let anyone tell you that it's a stereotype of a crutch that women have. A nicer way to put it would be that "women are mysterious." There are many reasons why men say this: 1. We are very often left wondering why a woman will not say anything about a current situation while it is in the midst of occurring, but will bring the subject up at a later date and usually with much zeal. 2. Many times we are told by a lady to make a decision about something, but when the decision is made she disapproves. Why didn't she just make the decision herself in the first place? 3. Many times a woman will complain about a situation to a man. When the man offers solutions she gets even more annoyed and states she's not even looking for a solution. 4. A man will want a room to be painted white. But the woman wants eggshell, or oxford, or lambs breath. Isn't that white? 5. Don't tell me you've never heard the age-old question from woman to man: Do I look fat in this dress? Is this a question about the objective truth, subjective opinion, commiseration? No one will ever know. It's a mystery.