Is your life easier if you do or don’t care about other people?
Easier in the short term, much harder in the long term. Without caring, there’s no learning, there’s no growth of neither you or the one you’re helping. And things you ignore can only stay so much to fester in the shadows before they get back to you in another, far worse form. If you can help, always do. There’s not much else to do on this planet anyway, except love each other. Of course, some will go on extensive ego trips and think that holding parties with tens of bimbos, lavishing in gold and palaces is somehow the answer to life, the universe and everything. But then again, some people are really f*cking stupid.And I would add, it’s not so much caring about people, in the sense of giving them what they want. It’s more caring about truth, peace and harmony and giving people what they actually need. Caring is more an act of learning than anything. If you’re stupid and unenlightened yourself, what can you really offer anyone? And there’s something more, always when caring, care about good people, not the scum who abuse good people. Let the latter stew in their filth til they decide to come ask for forgiveness and redeem themselves.
Can living in a filthy house make you sick?
my boyfriend its been living in this house for a couple years now, and his roommates are totally a mess, so latelly he has stomaches , headaches, and he seem to be sick all the time. his roommates leave dishes on the sink for days, one of his roomates actually gives a bath to his dog in the bathtub...also they never clean the cats poop and the house smell terrible.... its this making him sick? can that be posible?
My dad's house is so filthy and disgusting, what do I do?
When my parents were together my mom always kept the house clean and tidy and basically everyone in the house did their part keeping it clean. But now that my parents are divorced my dad let the house go to hell. I live with my mom but when I go visit my dad I dread it. The house is covered in filth from top to bottom. Dog pee stains in the carpet and dog vomit stains in my bed. The carpet has not been swept, white carpet covered in black dog hair. White tile floor never mopped covered in dirt and shoe marks. Clothes all over the house no laundry ever done. My brother has parties there too so alcohol bottles all over . When I stay I try my best to keep it as clean as possible because I can't stay in filth but it is way to much for just me to handle. I've talked to my dad about it and he said when I pay the bills I can make the rules. It's just stresses me out. My mom's house is nice and clean and I hate going to my dad's it's so filthy and gross and embarrassing what can I do?
Wanting To Report A Couple For Their Dirty Home?
I am wanting to report someone for their house being filthy dirty. The couple are not legally married and they live together. They also have small children. They live in a mobile home in Georgia. I know the couple and their home is filthy. I am wanting to report them but don't know who to call. Can someone on here tell me who I am supposed to call?
Why do narcissists seem to like to live in the middle of their own filth?
That’s an interesting question. I’ve known about a half-dozen full-blown narcissists and each one has lived in squalor. Not only that, their personal hygiene seems to become less and less of a concern to them as they get older (and I’m not talking OLD either - I’ve known narcs who begin to resemble homeless street urchins in their 40’s).My ex-narc was clean-cut and well dressed when I first met him in his late 20’s. He lived in a beautiful new home, and his cars, garage and house interior were always neat and clean. His clothes were always clean and neat, and so was he. This person is now in his 40’s and looks much older. He lives in a filthy house devoid of furniture - a few chairs and a couple of air mattresses if that. Maybe a broken-down old couch if he’s lucky. Trash and filth is strewn everywhere. His hair is perpetually uncut, and he’s overweight. He has a grizzled, nasty beard and his clothes are filthy. He smells like a mixture of sweat, dirt and B.O. most of the time.The strange thing about all of this is that he has a new supply, and this person spends most of her time in this house. I can’t imagine why anyone would choose to spend any length of time in this place (or with him, for that matter) but she must not be bothered by it. It’s her choice, I suppose.I’ve always found the “living in squalor” thing strange because I had always thought that narcissists were image-conscious. But the ones I’ve known have always seemed oblivious and unconcerned about their own filth, especially as they get older.