How can you be mad at someone who you love?
My proposal is that if you're mad at someone, it's impossible for you to love him/her. if you love the person, it means that you love her for who she (lets just say it's a she) really is on the inside. anything she does that upsets you which was her choice, is considered to be part of her, and if you dont like that part, how can you say you love her. if she acted uncharacteristically, and you felt that it wasnt really her doing but some other..... maybe a different side of her, or an outside force which made her choose that.... then she is not to blame, and you have no reason to be upset at her. I'm sorry if what i'm saying doesnt make sense.
How can you be someone's aunt AND grandma?
Well, if your sister has a child, that would make you an aunt, and if you then marry your father, voila ! AuntGrandma.... Of course, to make it a little less creepy, you could marry your brother-in-law's father with the same result.
Can you be in love with someone you never met?
Okay. So to preface this question I would like to say that I feel like an asshole even asking this. Like a REAL psycho. But here goes nothin'...I am a 28 year old female who used to be on a dating website. Long story short, a young soldier deployed overseas contacted me (and by young I mean 20) . my initial reaction was " sorry I don't babysit anymore" But he seemed nice enough and we continued to talk ( as friends- since I made that clear that that was all we would be able to be) online...eventually moving over to messenger , text, and then Skype calls (face to face). This was last June. I figured the "relationship" , 'friendship" whatever you want to call it would eventually taper off into the realms of all things that never really come to fruition....being as it was pretty much not a "real" relationship... However. it has NOT tapered off and in fact, we have spoken every single day for the past 10 months. We have grown to care deeply about each other and we even call each other "boyfriend and girlfriend" .. I literally am gagging as a type this. WHO DOES THIS? He is returning home from deployment in June. My concern? The age difference for one. I mean. he is TWENTY. I' m not dumb. I know what I was like when I was 20. But I don't know guys.so my question- CAN you be in love with someone you've never met?! AND with a nine year age difference? Brb im gonna puke
Can you be in love with someone you barely know?
By “ be in love with someone you barely know”, I assume you mean falling in love with a person you just met and whom you don’t know much about.Well, first off I want to talk about some experiences I had through my life, that are somehow related to the question you asked.I honestly don’t know about other people’s experiences, but I, at times in my life, came across people who I genuinely and unconditionally loved at first sight. What was intriguing about it, is that it had nothing to do with appearances, looks, clothing or even gender, it was nothing but a pure and non-explainable love that comes out of nowhere. If there is something that can happen in a vacuum, it must be this kind of love.As it turns out sometimes, you just happen to have that warm feeling whenever you encounter those people. They simply brighten your days up by just looking at them and there is no need for you to talk to them or hang out with them, just that mere look at them makes a huge difference.The same goes for the bond between a mom and her new born, it is one of the strongest forces of nature. Parents and especially moms are just hardwired to love their babies, before they even meet them.Scientifically speaking, that has something to do with biology not just psychology. There’s a hormone called Oxytocin or the love hormone, that literally triggers those feelings.Apart from that, Romantic love may follow the same rules as the ones stated in prior paragraphs, but it’s still complicated. You can fall in love easily with someone you don’t or you barely know but you need to know how these feelings are gonna evolve through time when you get to know that person much more. In my opinion, that is the big challenge.That love at first sight can have three prospective outcomes :Evolve, rise and become bigger and bigger;Simply diminish with time;Vanish completely in a puff of smoke.Eventually, what matters most it’s how it’s gonna end, not how it begins.
Can you be molested by someone younger than you?
I think he prob does rememember and is probably just really embarrased about it and it does sound like an uncomfortable situation .. you were not that much older than him, when i was in the first grade me and another class mate were alone in our classroom, because our class was down at the library and we both misplaced our books and the teacher told us to just come down when we found them, well i found mine and SHE was like wait for me and i was like sure.... and all the sudden she ran towards me and jumped on me and was trying to pin me down she was saying kiss me, and I didnt even know what the hell was going on i was just scared trying to get her off off of me and I was just yelling back saying no no im not a boy, (i didnt look like a boy i just thought maybe she was super confused and idk) and she says I dont care!!!!! which scared me more well luckily she didnt get to kiss me cause i faught her off, but i dont think you were molested and yes you can get molested by someone younger than you but in this case your cousin was just being really nasty, picking up that behaviour from something he may have seen on tv or whatever...but i understand, my insident still makes me feel violated and just ehhh yuck, just forgive the situation...and if you feel like you have to get it off of your back tell your mom, if you think she's gonna blame you then tell a counsler just to let it off of your chest...
Is it possible to love someone you do not trust?
Maybe I miss what love seems to mean in this question, but really: I love my kids deeply, also when they were little and it is obvious they could’t be trusted then…So sure you can love someone deeply but not trust them.