How do I get my husband to kick his brother out of our house?
This is a "family" problem. You need to have a "family meeting" and discuss issues. You need to first establish you and your husbands goals and plan. You need to insist that the plan have an avenue for brother to be out on his own. You need to be willing to help in the effort. You then after figuring out you and your husband's plan course of action need to gather with brother in on the program. You need to set down family rules for his living with you. These rules need to be restrictive but not unnecessarily so. Everyone home and no arrival after 11 pm. Most young adults say 11 is when things get going. Demanding he clean up after himself is fair. Demanding that he spend 2-3 hours at a specific time to help clean up the place separate from him keeping up his area is fair. Demanding that he perform jobs around the house in exchange for support - fix broken stuff - wash the car - mow the lawn. Everyone up and awake by 8 am so you can live your life without having to walk around a sleeping heap is fair. YOu have to come up with the house rules. If there are no rules - anarchy rules. Make the rules, write them down, explain them thoroughly, enforce them relentlessly. Regretfully, this is exactly what has to be done with children.
Can my husband kick me out house we rent?
he rented house before we married. i moved in 8 months ago we been married 3 months. he wants me out and so does his mom. Can he legally just kick me and son out on street?
Why do latin husbands let their wives wear tight tops, short skirts & high heels w/out hose?
My hubby thinks that Latin women are the most beautiful ladies in the world! Neither him or I are latin but we both understand why they wear some of the things they do. The husbands enjoy seeing their wives dressed this way and can truly appreciate their bodies! Yes they may not be in the best shape but to their husbands they are beautiful and the men tell their wives this! When you have someone who loves you and constantly tells you how beautiful you are, you will WANT to wear what ever it is they think looks good on you! You learn to look in the mirror and see yourself through THEIR eyes and not yours! When we as ladies look at ourselves in the mirror the first thing we usually notice is all of our faults! Latin men teach their ladies to look at their best places on themselves, not their worst ones! This is why you may see a lady in the tight tops, short skirts and high heels! I hope this helps you.
How does a Muslim wife feel when her husband comes home with a new wife? They will be staying in the same house. The wife will likely have to move out of the master bedroom to make way for the junior wife.
It is absolutely an immoral phenomenon, but…This question refers to the correctness and validity of polygamy for men. If we accept that the polygamy is allowable for men (and not for women), we can answer to the so called wife that her husband has acted according to his and her religion. Thus, following Islamic doctrines, you, as a man, can have four wives, but women can just have one husband. The holy Qur’an states:وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تُقْسِطُوا فِي الْيَتَامَىٰ فَانكِحُوا مَا طَابَ لَكُم مِّنَ النِّسَاءِ مَثْنَىٰ وَثُلَاثَ وَرُبَاعَ ۖ“If you fear that you may not deal justly with the orphans, then marry [other] women that you like, two, three, or four…”سورة النساء/3But if the so called wife does not follow Islamic doctrines, she can refer to the law. In lots of countries, you have to follow monogamy. So she can start divorce proceedings.Polygamy for men is not specifically an Islamic rule. The prophet Ibrahim (pbuh) had two wives. The prophet Jacob (pbuh) had more than one wife. So it is a paraIslamic question. Thus, even Jews and Christians should answer the question.We have to consider this fact that according to the true religion of Islam, for men marrying more than one wife at the same time is under some conditions. One of which is that he must be fair to his wives. If he cannot be fair, he must marry to just one wife. The holy Qur’an states:فَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تَعْدِلُوا فَوَاحِدَةً أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ ۚ ذَٰلِكَ أَدْنَىٰ أَلَّا تَعُولُوا“… But if you fear that you may not treat them fairly, then [marry only] one, or [marry from among] your slave-women. That makes it likelier that you will not be unfair.”سورة النساء/3On the other hand, if a Muslim wife stipulates at the marriage ceremony that her husband must not marry another wife, he could not get married to another female.I should mention that it is absolutely immoral to bring another sexual partner home, even if that action was not against one’s faith. Islamic rules do not confine to jurisprudential ones. All Islamic rules do correspond with moral codes.
RAMADAN: Husbands beating wives? [Read full story before answering]?
First ,where do you live? Second most all places will allow you to call the police on them, you should do that. Third if you have a disorder makes sure your husband to be knows about it. Fourth, yes marriage is about love but mainly about life. Life is not always fair. Your parents want you out ? Leave. You don't have to marry to leave. Just grow up and grow up fast, you have 3 years to learn cooking and cleaning and life. Then YOU decide what is best for YOU and do it !! Don't blame anyone but yourself if you end up with a bad man, and marry younger than you want. Allah himself gave humans free will ...use it !!!
Why do wives get half your money when they divorce you?
“Why do men have to give up half their money and possessions in divorce settlements?Perhaps in the “old days” when women couldn’t really do anything without men, provisions needed to be made for them in the event of a divorce (this is speculation). But now, since women can easily work and care for themselves, why are the laws so intensely punishing to men? It seems unnecessary.”I think your argument holds water concerning alimony. I think that there may often need to be some financial support for a few years to help a woman get her feet under her, if she has not been working for a paycheck for a number of years. But if she has been salaried all along, she should live on her salary into the future.But “possessions” is a different issue.Let us assume a couple has been married for 10 or 20 years, the husband being the only one with an income. Everything the family owns was purchased with that one paycheck.Did the wife not contribute? Did she not make it possible for her husband to do the work he did? If she were totally worthless and without value, why are they just now getting a divorce?The dawning recognition is that a life a family built together is a common life. One economic entente, with varying functions within that one thing. It is not that the husband owns everything (including perhaps his wife), but that the family owns everything, and the husband in wife in partnership.Thus, the things (including money savings) accumulated by the family belong to the family, not to the husband. Should the marriage end, they are to be divided between the two. The man does not give up half his money, he keeps his half of the family money, and she keeps HER half of the family money.But for alimony, you have a much better case.
Why are some women in denial about their husbands cheating?
Well, just depends, first, you dont know what he is promising her. She might be trying to save her marriage, actually make it work, they got kids...everything... People make mistakes, but if he is a constant cheater, well then she's just in denial. There are always two sides to a story, but now that youre pregnant by him, it makes the situation a lil more difficult. Just take care of urself and ur baby for now...dont even worry bout him or her...just take it as a lesson learned, unfortunately its a hugggggeee lesson. One thing though..if he is a constant cheater...if he did it to her..hes gonna do it to you...just remember that.