How to ask parents to hangout with a guy?
I've hung out with guys but it was when I'd say can I hangout with "this girl" and we'd meet the guys up. But I want to just hangout with my guy friend without that, not a date, but for me it's awkward! I have 2 older brothers and my dad who are overprotective. I know I should just ask hey mom can I hangout with blah blah, but its so awkward for me!! Sorry for ranting and thanks in advance
How to convince my parents into having a guy friend come over?
Just be like, " I know you guys are trying to help me, but me and this guy are just friends. I promise. He is one of my best friends and he would never do anything to hurt me. Plus, you guys can be here when he is over. I promise I will be responsible, like you raised me to be. I know you don't like that I am friends with this guy, but think about the positives: he will protect me from guys who try to hurt me or break my heart, he can give me advice, he will always be there for me and not get caddy like some girls can, and he can tell me when I get boy crazy so I can stop looking stupid. Please just let me hang out with him. I know that you would like him and find him as worthy of being my friend as any of my girl friends. I hope you guys can reconsider your decision. I love you." Just be very diplomatic and no attitude. Attitude always turns parents off. I'm fifteen too, so I know how it feels. I hope all goes well! Good Luck! (:
How do I hang out with my friends without my parents knowing?
Ok. I'm going out there to say that the more you hide your friends from your parents the harder it is to introduce them later on.You can do the classic. Tell one friend, who your parents know and like, your plans and ask them to cover for you. Then tell your parents you'll be out with them. (This doesn't work well if your parents are close with that friends parents. And you'll both have to be out and know the in outs of bluffing.)Pro: you hang out with your friends.Con: It can strain friendships if your friend has to cover you all the time. Your parents lose faith in you AND said friend if caught.You can also bring your friend that your parent likes with you to your new group of friends. So then it's partly true (and less risky)I do have to say tho. Your parents do have more insight. They have experiences you haven't experienced(and no therefore have potential to see warning signs that you just can't).For example: you might think your older friends are hella, but your parents might know people or experienced themselves how manipulative older people can be and get burned or knew someone who got burned. They'll want you to stay away, even if what they think isn't true.On the other hand. Sometimes your parents just straight up don't like a friend for whatever reason (my parent didn't like my bestie bc her grades weren't as good as mine) even when they are good people.Personally, I realize now grown up how I could have put myself in a bad situation bc I wasn't mature enough. Your mental maturity at 16 is very different than mid 20s. You might not believe me but that's bc you haven't lived that far so you won't know what it's like to look back at yourself and be “Oh. I've changed and can see how different I am from back then.”So just remember. Whatever you decide to do, you won't know how to see the “obvious” until it's happened to you. Take caution. Listen to your parents, but also be your own person.
How to tell my parents I wanna hang out with my guy friend?
"Mom, Dad..... I'd like you to meet the future father of your grandchildren we're going upstairs to hang out in my room with the door shut". You might as well say this because that is all they are going to hear, your mom probably wants to know if you're dating so your folks can increase their surveillance of you. If you think you are under a microscope now just wait until you actually show some interest in a specific guy. The only thing they are doing by denying you ANY contact with guys is making it more likely you'll have problems when you turn 18 and start dating. I knew quite a few girls who were never allowed to date before they turned 18 that got pregnant because they didn't know how to say no or rebuff a guy's advances or how to read a guy's intentions lots of these girls were pumped and dumped because the girl thought they were in "love". I would only tell your Mom and I'd make it clear to her you are being honest because you love and trust her and if she betrays this trust for any reason (even "I did it for your own good") you'd NEVER be able to trust her again with ANYTHING. If for some crazy reason she OK's your new guy you have to do EVERYTHING in you power to justify her trust because if you betray her she'll never trust you again. This means breaking up with your guy friend the second he steps out of bounds you need to talk to him and let him know your situation most guys want to be friends alone so they can work up to groping and poking.
How can I convince my parents to let me hang out wih friends?
Most of the parents thinks the same because they care for you and love you more than anything and you know very well in teen ages parents thinks that their kids will get bad people company and will suffer from bad habits.They never let you go with your friends for outing because they are unaware of your friends and their might be some trust issues.For this you need to win the trust of your parents, that you and your friends are not doing anything wrong on behalf of them and will harmful for you and for them. Secondly, There should be no communication gap between your parents and your friend because they must know with whom you are going for outing. For this you should do the regular interaction of your friends with your parents.If they people find your friends trustworthy then they will definitely let you go.Love your parents!
How to ask your parents if a guy can come over?
I want to ask my parents if I can have a boy that's not a boyfriend, but not just a friend over to watch a movie or something, but I'm scared to ask/don't know how to bring it up. The thing is, I'm 15 and he's 17, but my parents have already let me go on a date with him (and ride in the car with him) and everything went really well (nothing sexual, of course). So I guess you could call them somewhat lenient, but I'm afraid to ask because I've never really dated anyone before (even though the guy is extremely kind and polite, plus he sorta met my parents). I don't know how they would react. Are there any tips, advice or input that could help me? Thanks a ton. c:
How can I get my mom to let me hang out with my guy friends?
Howdie there! I have to say, I feel you, sis.I have a similar situation. I’ts kinda different, but on the same chapter. I have a close friend, he’s a guy, he has other guy friends who are my friends, too, and we hang out and eat pizza and stuff.The difference is, she actually lets me hang out with them, because she knows their parents(most of them, at least), and she knows all of my friends. But we live in a small town where everybody knows everybody, so it’s different, somehow.Maybe if your mother met your friends, or knew something about their parents, or you just told them something nice about them, she’d feel safer and let you go.