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How did Eve first deal with her period?

Fireball says she stuck herself with leaves....

How did S.E Hinton deal with her writer's block? ?

The Outsiders gave S.E. Hinton publicity and fame which led to a three year writers block. Her boyfriend who was mad that S.E. Hinton was depressed all the time told her to write two pages a day if she wanted to get anywhere. She continued to do so and then she completed her other book called That Was Then, This Is Now.

My sister is a narcissist. How do I deal with her?

My approach to dealing with narcissists and other personality disordered people is to minimize your interactions with them.  It can be challenging when they are siblings.  I believe one of my sisters is personality disordered so I basically, just handle her gently and try to only interact with her on a superficial level.  I also try to only spend time with her when other people are around because then she is more likely to be on her best behavior and not abuse me.  I realize that you are still a child and I am an adult, but it is the same thing.  When a narcissist or other personality disordered person sucks you into their drama or becomes abusive, you have to say: "I will not tolerate this anymore".  Frequently, they like to complain and never solve any of their life problems for two reasons: 1) personality disordered people rarely take responsibility for themselves and just blame others; and 2) they don't like to "fix" things because then they won't get attention; they like the reward of remaining sick.  So, when someone in my life continually calls me and wants to blab about their horrible job or husband or whatever their problem is, and I have already given them some suggestions for dealing with the problem and they refuse, I cut the call short and say: "I am really busy, I have to go.  We have talked about this many times before and you are still living in the problem and not making any changes in order to find a solution".  If you don't do this, then you are just going to waste a lot of time that you should be spending on realizing your own dreams.  Sometimes, you have to sever ties with narcissists or other personality disordered people who are extremely abusive if you can't manage them; I had to sever ties completely with my brother because he is extremely abusive and filled with rage--so much so that I am actually afraid of him.

My friend is a huge flake, how do I deal with her flaking out on me?

We've been friends ten years, she has always been an award winning flake. I love her to death, though. She doesn't try to hurt people, and doesn't understand when she does. I try not to make plans for anything important with her, but sometimes plans work out.... So it's hard not to get my hopes up. How should I react when she disappoints me?

How to deal with an impulsive girlfriend?

I don't get it. There are plenty of girls out there that might share your gf's same personality but not as impulsive. If she's sleeping around, you need to talk to her about it unless you don't really care. You're the one that let her think it's okay for her to sleep around. Did you know that if you have slept with at least 3 partners, you are more likely to get an STD? She might already have it. You should get yourself checked....=) have a nice day

My girlfriend is very egoistic, how should I deal with her?

All People are egoistic & stubborn depending on situation.. Girlfriends need no situation to be stubborn..They get angry if u say her that you shall make a call at 5PM and you make a call at 6PM.You have lot of reasons to explain, but they won't listen. They might understand, but they love when u plead them in cool way, they want you to apologize even if it is the matter of a chocolate!Dealing them means understanding their odd nature, explaining in a calm way, to be as cool as possible and to be frank.If you can't do so, deal them in a harsh way which will lead to a big clash leading to no messages and calls for few days ending up giving a strong reason for your girlfriend to point out your recklessness towards her after every fight

How do i deal with my attention seeking friend?

my friend is an attention whore (im in high school btw) in gym when she gets hit with a ball or something she would exaggerate and be all dizzy and groan, making it a bigger deal than it is. she has friends in her grade but always tries to make it seem like her best friends r upperclassmen (this makes her same-grade friends kind of annoyed, and the uperclassmen too). Most of us r sick of her trying to be the center of attention by whining or bragging. How can i kindly tell her how she acts and how it makes others see her?

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