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Why don't i sweat a lot like other people when i'm working out?

I've noticed i don't really sweat a lot when i'm at the gym. I do the elliptical arc for about 30 minutes, bicycle for 10 minutes, and run on the treadmill for 30-40 minutes, and about 15 of the other machines for arms and legs. I guess you could say i don't really do any hard or crazy workouts. I workout comfortably. Is this why i don't sweat a lot? I don't mind that i don't, i'm just wondering why.

How come the realest people don't have a lot of friends?

i think all people have got no friends, but less real people have less problem with superficial relationships based of some kind of need or interest/gain ...very real people look for real friends out of love and affection not some sort of common gain, and they never find any and they just learn to be loners...

in my 20s and before that i had always had about from ten to 20 close girl friends and guy friends...as long as i was on top of things and prospering...when push came to shove there was only one guy around around....and he was not my friend but a bf.....so out of millions of people i met, one was inclined to help me and one or two were inclined to not participate in hurting me..everyone else would only look for what is there in it for them and they would betray me in heart beat if that suited their agenda

The answer is not really difficult. However, it requires you to be familiar with what sort of answer is expected.When I was a kid, one such question that made me really irritated was this one:Pick the odd one out:a)9b)51c)24d)13Okay, I thought. 9, 51 and 24 are multiples of 3.13 isn’t. So, it is the odd one out.But…I was wrong. The answer was 24.Why? Because it’s even, whereas the others are odd.That is the issue there is with such tests. You may overlook the simplest pattern for a slightly less simple pattern. Granted, well-designed tests may not have this issue. However, once the pattern becomes sufficiently complicated, the test loses meaning. It often becomes a guessing game in which you have to imagine what the person who set the questions was thinking while creating the problem.As you may have guessed, I am not a fan of such tests. These questions usually do not have a deep pattern, so that when you think of it, you wonder why hadn’t I thought of that before? Instead, when you find out the solution, the reaction is usually meh. It’s enough to be a satisfactory answer, but there is no “bigger reason” behind the answer. It turns out to be some random manipulation of symbols.Look at the posted Mensa question.The pattern is that the sum of the outer numbers in one sector of the circle is the inner number in the next sector.This is a typical answer to a problem in an IQ test. It is not particularly deep, or insightful. It is just enough to be an acceptable standard answer, but nothing more.The issue with such tests is that you have to be familiar with IQ tests in order to arrive at the ‘correct’ answer of such problems. Someone who has seen similar problems before will find them trivial. Someone who has not seen them will find them difficult, or meaningless, or both. As I mentioned earlier, you need to know what sort of answer they are expecting, and train yourself to think along those lines.You can not judge anyone’s intelligence by whether or not they succeed in solving an isolated problem like this one, as it depends too much on exposure.

Why do a lot of people find "The Miracle" the worst Queen album?I don’t know. I am not among these “lot of people”.Of course, I find anything they did after “Jazz” not as good as the albums they did before. Yet, if I have to make a list of the post-Jazz studio albums in decreasing order of quality it would be this:The GameThe WorksThe MiracleHot SpaceInnuendoA kind of magicFlash Gordon.The Miracle is, actually, a Meh album. I can’t remember many of the songs in it. It is a higher point in a decadent portion of their career.BTW, Hot Space and Innuendo should be sharing the same position in that list. Both have songs that I like (“Under pressure” is an awesome song in a generally mediocre album* and the song Innuendo has reminiscences of the first Queen albums) but also have songs that I hate.And A kind of magic and Flash Gordon are abysmally awful and that’s a scientific fact!(*) Hot Space can be described as “Queen makes a bad rip off of Michael Jackson’s Thriller before Michael Jackson recorded Thriller”. A merit in itself.(Actually, MJ got from Hot Space the inspiration for Thriller but this way sounds funnier)

Why do some people don't understand some words that I use when I speak in english?

Well my friend there is two ways to learn a language, books and a teacher, and immersion. Immersion is the best by far.
If your being taught English by a teacher from a book.. then your learning Correct English! sadly most people who speak English don't speak it correctly. Just like most language location, changed how people speak. Heck i don't understand most people from Brooklyn NY, and i like about 4 hours away. They use other words more, or have accented it.

But yes as you stated, Seer is old English term for someone who sees into the future, that was replaced with the more modern Psychic means the same thing but granted 60-70% of the people you meet wont know the word Seer. Same with garrulous, old English term.
Only way to really know what words are being uses , is to do what your doing, talk to people who speak that language as their main.

Just keep in mind YOU are using correct English and your words make perfect sense (to small minority who knows the words). Just the English language is constantly changing meanings of words and context in which they can be learned. One of my favorite words is Fag, which use to mean a pile a sticks, then it moves to cigarettes cause they where referred to as sticks. so fag then was a cigarette, and today it someone got swung into a vulgar (to some) term.


Short answer:
Most English speakers tend to not speak actual English, but a mix of English with regional dialect and tons of words phased out for newer ones, again much like your Seer example.

Do you think you can find out why God puts certain people in your life.?

God puts certain people in our lives for a reason that we may not know for awhile. I know it sucks but the lesson could be for you not to be discouraged that you gave so much of yourself to this person. Another lesson could be that you can't have your way all the time, control is not yours in a lot of cases (I know that sucks), it could be a lesson you keep repeating of you need to know when to let go of toxic people. Are you doing things to get this person to love you the way you love them? It could be the lesson of even though these people keep taking from you & using you for whatever reason they have, maybe the lesson is to not stop trying with the next one, not be discouraged to love or do things for someone new. God could be bringing these people to you to help them with a struggle in themselves that you aren't aware of. I know it hurts, I've been there and am there right now with someone too. Don't lose your trust in God, I know its cliche, but He doesn't give us things we can't handle - I know it doesn't help to hear that either. All this you're going thru has an end to it, it will make you stronger, it will make you wiser, it will help you see how not to repeat the same things with the same kind of person over and over again. You may not see what you need to learn yet but you eventually will when you start to make changes to how you deal with those that take and give back. Maybe the lesson is about generosity who knows but try to take comfort that this pain will pass & you're not the 1st or the only one who's gone thru it; I know it feels like it but you're not alone in it.

A2A. Mr Ejigu! What a very real question you have here. Yes, it is 100% true.The "realest" people aren't anti social crazies who remain locked away in a tower of their own accord. These are the people who have been players of the game of life for so long, their experiences have taught them to be wiser.Due to acquiring the knowledge of self preservation, they don't cleave to anyone who crosses their paths.They've learned the art of wisdom: Its not the quantity of friends in your circle that matters, its the quality. You could have only two people you rely on, including yourself. You'd still be winning in life better than the people who feel they have to have dozens of fake friends to feel relevant.Mekael, I'd rather have two $100 bills than two pennies? You feel me? People who reach out to any and everyone are trying to fill a void. Ever notice how some men go to prostitutes with no care of what disease she may be carrying?Show me the man who willfully throws his life away and I'll show you one reckless, broken motherfucker. That man has no place being in your circle. He has no self control. Not only that, he will take you down with him. Its the same with women.I judge no one. However, I am careful about the type of people I associate with. When the Lord came to us, He humbled himself. He hung with tax collectors, prostitutes, people who had deadly illness, etc. He healed them all. Yet, He could only do that due to their acceptance that He was Lord.I'm no preacher. I never pretend to be. I never will be.Yes, I follow my Lord and Savior and tell of my experiences in my voice. People must relate to you in order to get the messages you send. I don't want to talk to holier than thou people who pretend they've never struggled or have never been wrong and still aren't perfect.No. Let me hear from Saul who changed into Paul.Now, will you find many who will be grateful for the positive things you bring into their lives these days? No. Not really. That's when you know you have to walk away. Negative, broken people see what you have then piss on your and tell you its raining.That is reality.That is why the realest people don't have a lot of true friends. You dig?Proverbs 3:13-1413 Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding, 14 for she is more profitable than silver and yields better returns than gold.

Since you haven’t really provided us with much to go with, I’ll provide you a clip of who I was back then.Rewinding back time, I was on a similar boat. I chased after people who never truly understood me, and always chose someone before me. Not to sound all selfish about this (I’m sure I was lacking a lot of things as well - I wasn’t very sociable, and I stuck to very little friends), but essentially I’m on the bottom of the bucket for them, and if they absolutely had no other choice amongst their long list of friends, they would choose me. At first I thought it was because I’m different (which I am, but it’s only a medium-sized portion of it - barely 50% - cough INTJ cough), but what I found out after years of just basically letting myself get burned by the people I loved, I realized that I was lacking in the area of confidence and self-love, and people can sense that underneath the surface (especially those who prey on people who can’t defend themselves effectively). Fast forward after a few years, and more burns later, I stopped chasing after people. The whole game got tiring, and I was tired of pretending to be another person just to cater to their needs. It’s then that I learned to treasure solitude, and basically discovered more about myself, and learned that I can achieve just as much by myself than with other people (but the right company would be nice), and I’m absolutely fine with that (being around people is tiring in most days anyway).Although this might sound morbid, it’s not all too bad (I made some good memories that I can look back on fondly). The moral of the story is to basically stop chasing others who are not willing to reciprocate. It’s a wasted effort, and if you do this all the time, you will continuously make the same mistake because you’re not really realizing your own self-worth for what it is, which is why you gravitate around people who care very little for you. My advice is do some soul-searching, and some emotional awakening. The more you know about yourself - the way you think, the more you start to realize what you want, and once you do that, more confidence will come your way, and you’ll notice that people of similar mindset would want to be around you (little hounding needed). This is not entirely guaranteed, and there are more losses than actual gains, but isn’t it worth it to know that you know who you are, and have less baggage weighing you down? Think about it.

How do some people always find someone to date?

I honestly don't get it. Well, I'm only in high school, but I see it everyday. My friend dated a guy (kind of on-and-off) for a few months, and about a month into it, was kind of infatuated with this really cute guy that was always flattering her and stuff. The second guy ended up getting into some legal issues (really stupid, he sounded nice but I wasn't surprised, even though she was), she broke up with her bf a couple weeks ago, after everyone telling her over and over to. Now a guy that she's been talking to gave her this really sweet Valentine's. She's conflicted though because her friend is into him, but he's into her.

Please don't assume I'm jealous, none of the guys she likes/are into her are my type. I don't have some insanely high standards, I just don't want a guy that smokes or drinks (my dad did both excessively, my step dad does neither, and I know which one I'd prefer) or a bad boy with a six pack, which my friend always dates. I just want someone I find attractive and click with, but I usually can't find both in the same person. Unfortunately, my classes are mostly surrounded by guys I've known for *too* long, and since I take all honors and AP, they're kind of geeky. I don't mind a nerd, just not a geek (as in socially awkward).

Maybe I don't put myself out there as much, since my friend is really social outside of school. Her mom doesn't mind her hanging out on the streets and with friends she doesn't know, my mom still tries to hold my hand crossing the street lol. I just hang out with my girlfriends at the mall or at home. I'm not really looking and I don't like anyone past physical attraction. Maybe they sense my disinterest. In my friend's case, I don't think it's desperation, but she does feel lonely if she's single for more than 3 months (which has only happened once, then she met her recent ex). It might help that she's gorgeous, big boobs/butt, etc., but trust me, a lot of girls that "boy-hop" AREN'T.

BQ: Should I try to put myself out there? Like I said, I'm not really interested, but everyone (guys and girls) tells me I should date, just to test the waters. Sounds like a lot of work for nothing but experience, and I'm trying to aim for 4.0 GPA. Call me an overachiever.

Because you are not perfect and you think you should be. And perhaps something in your past trips you up - a harsh parent, an embarrassing mistake, a misjudgment in the past where you trusted someone with your information and they proved untrustworthy. Because other people can be fearful and judgemental and you instinctively protect yourself. Perhaps because you don't trust yourself to make good decisions about who to trust. Time, experience and seeing others as they really are - no better or worse than you are- should ease these feelings.

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