How can I get over a girl I'm still friends with?
Actually, i too am going through the same phase as the OP. We broke up 5 months ago, but we still occasionally talk on social media. In fact, We even went out on a ‘Friendly Date’, few weeks back. But i’m completely over her by now. Even when First few months were really tough, i managed to hold myself together. Following are the measures i took to get over her, while still remaining friends. I suggest you to follow these as well.Avoid much interaction with her in first place.Don’t let the emotions overwhelm you.Delete/throwaway every little things that reminds you of her.Don’t share any of your personal feelings with her anymore.Find a rebound (Another girl, who would help you get over her. But choose your new Girl wisely as you wouldn’t want to break her heart. Don’t just use her! Be responsible and learn from the past mistakes.)Always keep yourself occupied by doing things of your interest. Never let your mind perch on any Emotional thoughts.Surround yourself with positive friends, and start spending more time with them rather than clinging to your ex.Start hanging out with other girl-friends more often (This will help you reduce the emotional stress)Always remember, Life is too short to be spent with just one boring person.Take it rather as an opportunity, and explore the versatility in women kind. You definitely will find a better person than her. Good luck!
How to get over losing your best friend?
We'd been best friends since we were 7 or 8. We always did everything together. We were so close. When we were 15 something really bad happened to me, and I tried to talk to her about it, but she just turned her back on me and called me a liar. She was so selfish and kept hurting me from that day on. I'm now 18 and I still can't 'get over it'. She's moved on, very clearly. She has a new best friend, who I know and she's a good friend of mine too. I've got a new best friend and he's amazing, far more than she ever was. Is it normal that I'm still not over it?
Can you move on from someone, but still be friends with them?
This is coming from first hand experience -It’s not easy. You really want to want it.Sort out your stuff in your head. BE HONEST, that YOU REALLY JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS. - I went to my friend’s (ex) wedding. I was genuinely happy for her and her husband. If you even have a hint of “maybe you will get back together”, it WILL NOT WORK.Find out boundary. - Though unspoken, myself and my ex never talk about our prior relationship. We talk about our current one’s and about our life openly, but we have an unwritten rule about our past. By doing this, we are building our friendship, not dwelling on our past.Give it/yourself time. If you just broke up, you need time for above to be settled in your head. Give yourself a chance to have some space and distance to be able to see you, and your ex.And if not, it won’t work, it just won’t.
Why would a girl call another girl a ***** but still act like her friend?
TRUE friends will never call you names or be mean to you in anyway
She doesn't want to lose me as a friend?
A girl that i was very interested in rejected me after a year of friendship. We both really liked each other and she said i "light a fire in her veins" when we are together. But after i asked her to be my gf she rejected me and started to go out fwith this other guy. Well obviously I was hurt and i don't wanna be her friend anymore. So I stopped talking to her for a week and she keeps sending me all these emails asking whats wrong with me and why i am ignoring her. I think its pretty f***ing obvious why im ignoring her. So finally I responded to her text and told her that she hurt me and I dind't know if us being friends would work especially since we both still have feeling for each other. She said that she "didn't want to lose you [me] as a friend." But im to the point where i could care less. I mean i know if i try to be her friend i will just end up getting hurt again because she likes to play things so safe. What should I do?
She says she just wants to be friends? What do I do?
I'm pretty sure this has happened to a lot of people, just wanted to hear other people's opinions. Thanks for your time. So, there's this girl that I like. And she likes me back. Well, used to like me. We weren't really BF/GF, but we were more than friends. The relationship lasted about 3 months. She told me that she just wanted to be friends. I want to be more than friends, and I still like her, so I don't know what to do. I don't want to lose her as a friend either though. I'm in love with her and I don't want to let her go. Yes, I know some people may think 3 months in a high school relationship can't really be love, but I really feel like I love her. I haven't told her that yet though. I haven't express some of my feelings to her either yet. Like how I feel pain and hurt, and how I love her, and how I want to be more than friends. I don't her to feel bad or feel like I'm desperate. I just want her smile to stay on her face. So currently, I'm pretending everything is good. I feel like I should tell her, but at the same time I don't. Sorry for all the details. What do you think I should do?
My ex-gf wants to be friends but i still love her?
So she dumped me for the 2nd time, she says she still loves me but is not crazy about me anymore so wants to stay best friends. i tried to cut relations but i fail so hard because if she texts me or even if she doesnt after 1 or 2 days i just talk to her again cause i miss her so much. I was her 1st love i know she isnt going to forget me but i dont feel her crazy about me like she was before and i cant handle that. we talk everyday but i miss the attention she gave me and when we dont talk i just get anxious and wonder what she is doing. I dont know what to do and i could use some advice. Thanks.
Me and my ex are best friends but I still love her and she doesn't know her feelings to me, what should I do?
Mate, Im in EXACTLY the same position as you. All my friends tell me to stop being friends with my ex because she hurt me. But I can't. Shes my best friend. After we broke up when she said she loves me just as a friend, She started dating this guy. I knew it was all a bit too quick for her. Shes been on my mind all this week, nonstop picturing her smile, her face, her body, her voice. I wanted to tell her but didnt want her to think I immediately wanted her back. She said out of the blue to me yesterday, after telling me about her new boyfriend is a idiot, she said "Laurence...I think i love you". After before she said she loved me as a friend, Now she loves me fully? After I've gone? It's true what they say, you don't know what you had till its gone. After she told me that, I spilt my guts, I told her all my feelings for her and how much I still love her. I miss being with her too mate. She flirts with me and talks about kissing and sex with me alot but shes still randomly with this guy, she said they discussed breaking up but I haven't asked her since. I don't really want to get back together with her now because all my mates don't like her for what she did to me, nor do I want to go through any pain like that again. But I still love her, I hope she doesn't break up with her new boyfrined just cause she thinks I want her back. But I am in the same boat as you mate. If you want to discuss it more, feel free to email or IM me. : )