I just found out my 19 year old daughter has a boyfriend and a job after I told her she can't?
My daughter is 19 and is a college freshman living in my house. I told her she cannot have a boyfriend and cannot have a job, but today I found out she has both. How should I deal with this? Should I kick her out of the house?
Am I wrong for kicking my 19 year old daughter out?
I have a daughter who is 19 and she has a job. She refuses to pay rent and she won't contribute to the house in any way. She throws her personal belongings all over the house and expects my younger daughter and myself to clean up after her. She spends her whole paycheck in 2 days and just expects me to feed and clothe her. She won't bath! Just won't. She has a low self esteem and I know she feels badly about herself all the time. She won't see a therapist. She is overweight and people pick on her and make fun of her. These are the people she calls friends. I told her that all I expected from her was that she wash her clothes and clean up after herself and most of all take a bath and I would not kick her out. Well she would leave to hang out with her friends for days and come home long enough to eat and leave. She doesn't change her clothes often either. Well I had had enough and I told her that I could not take it any more. Well she left and kept coming back to eat everyday but she slept somewhere else. She would come in when I wasn't home. Well I really got angry with her one day when she gave me her nasty attitude and I told her that if she had a place to sleep every night then she should just move in with them. She though I was bluffing and she did the same as always. I packed up her stuff and put it all in the basement. I was going to throw it all away because it smelled so bad but I figured she would just have to buy new and she don't really make a lot of money. When she came in one day and noticed that all of her stuff was gone she snapped out and began screaming at me. Well she is about 5' 11" and I am 5' 3". But I didn't take her crap and I told her to leave and not come back. Well I didn't mean that I never wanted to see her again. I also wasn't really sure that she had a place to stay. I fear that she may not have anywhere to go and might get caught up in something terrible. Am I wrong for throwing her out? I know she doesn't respect me and my other kids but she is my daughter. I love her and hate her at the same time. I cant help but feel horrible for kicking her out but I also know that she will never do anything for herself and will still get into trouble while living at home. I am confused and don't know if I did the right thing.
My 19 yr old daughter is pregnant and I'm devastated...need advice please!?
Well I told my mom I was pregnant in febuary, I'm now 19 and baby's due on the 23rd. Then again I'm now moved out and with the baby's daddy who I've been in a relationship for over 3 years. I suggest you make her get a job. I was working until 29 weeks pregnant working the nightshift and went on early maternity leave because it was labour intensive work and my morning sickness was so bad I was throwing up everyday. But I would've continued working until 34 weeks if I could. You guys can sue the baby daddy for child support and get some money that way. If you live in canada all medical bills are paid for and if she works 600 insured hours she qualifies for maternity benefits. As for you not wanting to raise a baby, then don't. Make her get up in the middle of the night to take care of it. Make her feed and wash the baby, and if she tries to put that responsibility on you, scare her by saying you will take her to court to get full custody, and once you have full custody you will kick her out to the streets. How my mom delt with me being pregnant and coming to terms with it is the earthquake in Japan she told me "I bet there are so many mother who have lost their daughters and wouldn't care if they were pregnant as long as they had their baby back. I am grateful I still have you." Its not the end of the world, your daughter isn't a drug addict, an alcoholic or dead. Just pregnant. Yeah, she's stupid. But you make sure she takes responsibility. Don't take everything on yourself.
Why does my dad want me to get a job?
I'm 19 years old living with my dad and I just finished up 2 full years of college (pre-med) with no breaks or vacations, that means I took classes in summer, spring, fall, and I also did winter and may classes. I had no vacation and now that I finished up my second year It's only been one day since my final exams I decide to relax at home because I really haven't any time off, then here comes my dad bitching to me to get a job and saying that my sister has a job even though she's in high school..the guy doesn't know the difference, you get vacations in high school I didn't get anything for two years. I'm really getting tired of his bitching. I get all A's and I decide to take a few days off and the guy comes in and says 'FIRST THING TOMORROW YOU'RE GOING TO LOOK FOR A JOB" man get off my *** already.
I need a job in the worst way. i have a 12 yr. old that is losing faith in me.?
i have been unemployed for 5mo. now. i am a single parent with out no means of support. i am willing to try anything out there.i am realiable, hard working,and punticial.could i find something in the springfield area. thank-you