What is "you seem like an interesting girl" suppose to mean?
I've been talking to this guy from class recently, and we traded numbers for a group project were working on. Today he text me asking if I was on facebook and that said "you seem like an interesting girl". What does that mean in guy speak? Is it cheesy or is he just trying to play it cool?
Why does he seem so interested in me in person but not over text?
so he seems really interested in me in person were always flirting and seems like he like me and all my friends think so to. long story short my friend was trying to hook us up when she told him i was interest she said he smile and "blushed". the next time i worked with him a week later or so. everything was normal. we were flirting and joking around on break he ask me what i was doing this week end. i said nothing then he changed the subject. my friend gave him my number and he waited a day to text me. are boys just short with text messages or what? he texing the first time hey its bob just giving u my number. i had to keep making the conversation is that always the case with guys? he then asked what i was doing again this weeked of text i say nothing yet and he replys same! and some times he doesnt respond after a text! what should i say what should i do!!!??? i really like him. btw were 16
Girls: How can you tell if a girl is interested via text?
None of that matters. If YOU like her get to know her better. That's all there is too it. You're not asking her to marry you. Just get to know her more. Tell her that. "I find you interesting I want to know about you. " If you wait to see if the girl likes you most of the time they wont. Why because the woman wants a man to take the lead. Be confident. If she has to do it all most woman wont bother. Plus I dare to say many men married women who at first was not interested in them. Bu they saw what they wanted. Went after it. And put their all into the effort. Now women tell me if that does not make you feel good when that happens. So go from wishy washy to Winner. And if she is not the one for you, found out. keep looking.
Is she too busy to text or is she not interested?
Okay, i think you should have told her how you felt face-to-face. Although, it shouldn't matter and those are still your feelings i still feel you went about it the wrong way and honestly that's not even an issue, what you need to do is relax. Maybe she is a bit toooooo busy to text. I mean maybe you're stressing this a little bit to much and what you need to do is be easy, relax and don't think about it to much. Most likely once you find something else to do with your time other than stressing over this woman/girl then you'll get a message from her and a new start is all you two need. I don't think to much has changed other than the works shifts.
"If they don't text first, they're not interested." Is there any truth to this?
Here is the truth about most dating rules. Most of them are BS. Here are the dating rules I always followed, and the large majority of them worked out for me over the years. The few times that they didn’t, it was because of areas that were outside of my control (i.e., they were with someone else at the time).If you like someone, let them know. You like someone, but you don’t want to tell them because it makes you look desperate. So you drop hint after hint, but they don’t seem to get it, so you end up frustrated because they don’t ask you out. I just don’t get this. Humans evolved a long process of communication called speech that includes over one million words in the English language alone. Why is it taboo to say, “I like you. Would you like to get coffee/go to a movie/have dinner on Friday?” Language exists to communicate with others. Use it.If you are interested after a date, let them know as soon as possible. If you had fun on a date and want to see the person again, why shouldn’t you let the person know? What is wrong with saying, “I had fun. Are you interested in going out again? I’m available on Tuesday.” That doesn’t make you look desperate; that makes you look interested in seeing me again. I’m into that. If they aren’t, you know your answer at this point.Don’t play games. Playing hard to get or acting like your hard to get does not make you more attractive. Guys don’t like to play games or chase a woman. You either like him or not. If you like him and he is available to take you out at a certain time and you are available at that time, take him up on it. If you turn him down to many times in order to play hard to get or ignore him to often, he will find someone else who doesn’t. Playing games is for the insecure. If you want someone, make him yours.I hope my advice helps.