Im 15 and attracted to older men how can i stop being attracted to them?
well you are not the only one interested in older men, i am too although a little older then you and there is nothing wrong with liking older guys, you just have to be a lot more careful pedophiles are a common thing...lol if you just arent interested in people your age because they are too immature thats perfectly fine you just have to know when its a bit too ridiculous and just watch out for older guys... dont want them taking advantage of you :(
Why I'm easily attracted to someone? How can I avoid being that kind of person?
That is because you don't have a proper athourity over yourself. We are emotional. But we must discipline our emotions. Don't let people get inside your life and be attached to it personally. I know this sounds weird and unfair, and selfish. But you have a whole life to live by yourself.Why get distracted? Why let someone else change your ways unnecessarily?Now I must tell you attraction is a normal thing and not always love... We have been taught to love others and to like others since we were children. (not so wise. I must tell you.) I don't blame you for this. And that is not the only reason for getting attracted to others so quickly. The reason in fact, the main reason for a lot of people is that they are scared that no one will love or like them because others wouldn't find them attractivebor interesting. So as a result they get attraced to others as their innerselves have the latter feeling.Here is what you should do.Find your values from inside and outside.Don't overrestimate others. Don't be emotionally submissive.Be aware of who you are.Be aware of why you are here.Be aware of where you are going.Don't change the ways unless those attractions stand in your way to the big picture.Follow me on Quora…Chase greatness. Wish you luck, badass!
How do I stop feeling dirty or guilty that men are often attracted to me? I guess they like me because I am physically attractive, I feel good in my skin, and I am confident, but I don't feel comfortable receiving this much attention.
You won’t stop feeling that way unless you begin enjoying it. It has never happened for me though. I have been “well-developed” since I was about 9 years old. By the time I was 12, grown men would regularly approach, speak to and look at me inappropriately. It was so bad by the time I was 16 that I would lie about my age saying I was only 12 hoping this would make them leave me alone. It never became ok. No matter how much it happened I always felt dirty or guilty. I was raped or almost raped a number of times by men, most of whom I knew in some way, and I always felt like I must be doing something to warrant this since it happened so many times. I’m 40 and I still get looks and comments and I still feel icky about it. People are rude, disrespectful and gross sometimes. For some reason, both men and women seem to feel that certain inappropriate language should be seen as a compliment and everyone should be happy to get it. Not true. Just stay safe and retain your confidence and self-respect. But it probably won’t ever feel better. Sorry : (
How can I make myself stop being attracted to women?
Hatred. It's a powerful tool, giving superb results. Fill your heart with hatred for girls, and withing a short span of time you will loose all interest in girls. You will just hate even being around them, i have done it and it worked wonders. I was so disinterested in them that even a girl sitting next to me, made me uncomfortable. If your question is genuine and not a self pity story, this is what you should be doing. Hatred is a powerful venom which when fused into the system, delivers astonishing results. Although, my hatred isn't physical nor is it harmful for any women. It simply makes me uninterested in anything that i put my hatred against. You should try it, it is so effective that it gives you full control over your erections as well. Imagine having the ability to control being hard for a girl. Edit: It's possible, you just put hatred inside your heart. If someone puts you through hell, you hate them back, right? In this case, you forcibly hate every girl around you, with or without a reason.
How do I stop attracting unavailable men?
By staying away from them. Whenever you meet a guy, asking him about his availability. If he's married or with someone, then move on. Tell him right up front that you are not interested. Ultimately there is nothing you can do to stop them from being into you, but you CAN stop them from getting anywhere. Eventually they will back off. In the meantime, work on building your self-esteem and confidence. Men, in general, are attracted to confidence. The men going after the women with self-esteem tend to be controllers and abusers. Those are the "unavailable" men still looking for a date. Be confident, and you will attract all sorts of men. Then you can pick and choose. Good luck!
How can I stop being attracted toward good looking men?
You’re stating this like it might be something undesirable to you, did I read that right?The only way I can see this being a problem is if it’s an obsession, and interfering with other parts of your life. If so, then it’s not really your fault, so take some solace in that.Good looking men are extremely rare (let’s face it, we’re mostly the ugly sex), and usually these men are quite happy when you find them attractive (so it’s a win-win!). But the fact that attractive men are available to you makes it, likely, a somewhat irresistible temptation. That part is not your fault, it’s just attraction working its stuff on you.But temptation is probably the emotion you’d like to avoid here.The solution isn’t easy at all, and take some work, but at least it’s simple. Avoid men. Out of sight means out of mind. Don’t make eye contact. Don’t be overly nice when they approach you. Don’t make small talk. Avoidance is usually a poor way of dealing with issues, but in this case it is likely the only way to suppress temptation, especially a temptation that is so easily fulfilled.Hope that helps.
Why do I get attracted to guys so easily? I mean, I know that's normal for a 20 year old girl but why so readily? Does that mean I am desperate?
I think you should have provided more info.Well, With what I have, There are a few possibilities according to my assumptions. Let’s try to get it one by one.Past Experiences: I think this could be a considerable reason. Have you been involved with relationship with guys? If no, then this could be a reason. You maybe, are curious about how does it like to be with a guy.Maybe you see people(Guys) flawlessly: I mean there is a possibility that you never see negative points of a person(Guys, in your case) which is actually a good thing. That is why, you tend to see the only “good” in them and get attracted to them.Maybe you are easy to impress: Believe me ! Sometimes there are some people which takes a lot to be impressed, and I guess you are not one of them. So, a small bit of guy’s act impresses you.Maybe you don’t have someone special in your life: I mean there are some times in life, then a person actually needs someone even if he/she has friends and family. That space can be fulfilled by only that special person.Maybe you like the company of guys rather than girls: It is very common of girls that they like to be friends with guys rather than girls. Reasons are many.It is actually OKAY to get readily attracted as long as you are maintaining your dignity. As a fellow Quoran said, “Not everyone but usually guys don't miss any chance if they feel that a girl is attracted to them.”Be aware of what you are doing. Introspect !Hope I haven’t hurt your feelings or offended you in any manner :)
Iam 63 kg but guys get attracted to me a lot..i feel iam so fat? is is necessary to loose weight? plz ans me..
I don't know how tall you are, so it depends a lot on that. Definitely the necessity to lose weight is not measured by the number of guys that like you, but to health. If your physical condition is good you don't need to worry too much. There is a nice table you can fill in via www.slimtracker.com. You don't need to log in, but you can go to BMI calculator and get a result. Good luck !