I have trouble keeping male friends. How do I prevent myself from liking them more than a friend?
Not sure what bisexuality has to do with this?If you're falling in love if someone shows you attention, you might be lonely.If I were in your position, I would make a lot of male friends. At the same time. Get to know tons and tons of them to desensitize myself. Go out with female friends. Tons and tons of them. Go out with family, keep yourself socially busy. Join meetups, join organizations. Do what you can to meet a lot of people.
I am bisexual but I feel myself slowly turning lesbian?
I am attracted physically and emotionally to girls (mostly boyish girls) but sometimes i am attracted to boys emotionally like crushes. I am very confused as to what i want. I am talking to this guy although he is very attractive I find myself wanting a relationship with a girl more and more. Boys aren't fulfilling my emotional needs if this makes sense at all. I honestly don't even know how to put all of this in words. I want to just be lesbian but you can't just do that. I don't feel like being bisexual because i'm becoming more annoyed with boys. I don't understand whats going on with me. I know nothing is wrong but what am i? Does my question even make sense? GAhHhhhh ):
How do I defend my girlfriend's honor as a beta male?
Depends what you mean as beta, but if you are like me, and do not see yourself as masculine assertive or aggressive in any way, then what do you do when their in danger? More often than not, I surround myself with ones that can protect me. So if my gf is in trouble, it’s way over my neck, and I’m either frozen like an idiot, or hanging on to her coat tails..I would put my self between her and a firing squad, but only if I was accepting death, not defense. I courageously put myself first as test subject when it comes to painful fun. Usually it turns out ok, but sometimes it takes me 2 hrs to calm down from going too far..If she hangs around aggressive men, than she’s going to find herself in those situations.. as I’ve found myself around aggressive men. I do know that when a couple invited me over, she was dominant, and he begged off when we were going too far, but I think it was more emotional than threatening.When my gf at the time was pushed into a situation clearly she was uncomfortable in (he was naked and just talking to her) I couldn’t help but smile at the situation. I knew she could handle herself, and that these friends were safe, but as a alpha might step in, I was quite happy to watch.Of course, the worst, when I was really young, I froze up while to large boys pounded on my older brother, there was nothing I could do, and I felt terrible.. but I did what I could, I helped him get out of there afterwards..So, as a beta male, know your limits, and if she expects you to save her, do it like you would save yourself.. don’t try to be someone your not.
What are good strategies to make more male friends? I'm a 30 yr old female who discovered that I get along better with men and that the discussions are more often around topics that I appreciate, so I would like to surround myself with more men.
Have you considered joining a fantasy football or baseball league? Or join a golf club? These ‘sports related’ activities also have a large social aspect, without putting too much emphasis on the “boy-girl” hook-ups of hanging out at bars.Or go somewhere for a ‘trivia night’. While usually held in a bar, it is not a night focused on romantic encounters, and you join random teams to win contests.I would suggest that you make perfectly clear to whomever you are hanging out with, that you are NOT looking for ‘friends with benefits’, just want to find some nice people to hang out with.Oh, and your life will go so much easier if you make friends with their wives and girlfriends. A jealous spouse or SO can ruin these friendships that you are seeking to make.
How do you deal with a capricorn male with anger issues and a bad personality?
I have an interest in a Capricorn male who is extremely angre about a parent issue (his father) he doesn't really like him at all. He is not very hopeful when it comes to dealing with other people. He is very negative and it is quite sad. He's 40 years old and he seems to be nice but very mean and angry about most things. I am not sure what I should do regarding how to get him to open up. He is very introverted and it is very hard to get him to open up and be more talkative about his person self. i just don't know what to do about him. It makes me really sad that we won't be able to be friends because he is so unkind at times. I am a Leo by the way if that helps at all!!!!
Why do some women have way more male friends than female friends?
In my experience (knowing women, loving them and listening to them) I have found that when a woman says that she has more male friends than female ones several things come into play (some negative, some positive) with a high degree of regularityPositives:She tires easily of the competition and pettiness that is involved in many female friendships.She was a tomboy when she was younger and has carried at least some of that trend into her adulthood.She's a lesbianShe has had several exceptionally bad experiences with female friends and that has "soured" her on getting close to other females.She works in a profession that is mostly or predominantly male and draws her friendships mostly from her work life.Negatives:She's promiscuous or a man thief. Women have sussed this out shortly after meeting her and give her a wide berth. She realizes this and keeps her friendships mostly male.She is a serious flirt (this is different than being promiscuous or being a man thief, as she doesn't act upon her flirtations) Women quickly grow tired of her flirtatious nature and avoid her company.She has serious issues with intimacy (of any kind) and she prefers friendships that don't require closeness (most male friendships don't require the closeness that female friendships do.)She can't keep confidences. People tell her intimate details and she then relates them to others. This is a betrayal in the world of female friendships and she quickly finds herself ostracized.She has a poor relationship with her children and openly criticizes them to others. This is also an anathema to most women and many will avoid being around a woman that does this. Men aren't usually as circumspect and she finds them more amenable to their company.I'm not claiming that all of these traits are the reasons that women prefer the company of male friends over females; I have just found that when I hear of a woman that prefers men over women as friends one (or several) of the above ten items usually applies.
Why are 16-17 year old boys so superficial and immature?
I know. I find teenagers in general are extremely immature and shallow. I also find the kids that go on and on about getting laid or getting drunk are liars and looking for attention...which is so immature. Plus, it does not leave a good impression at all.