How can i tell my friend i don't want to sleepover?
You should ask her to sleep over your house! You still get to bond without her mom snoring. :)
Am I the only Mom who hates sleepovers?
I don't mind at all - if it's one child spending the night. It also depends on which child it is! My daughter very rarely goes somewhere else to sleep over - they always come to my house. Which is just fine by me - I know where she is, who she's with and what is going on. What agravates me is that other parents will just let their kid come over with out even confirming that it is ok with me! My daughter will ask if a friend can ride the bus home, and spend the night. I tell her yes - and then here they come on Friday on the bus. I know her mom said it's ok, because she has a note from her mom to ride the bus home with my daughter - but she never once talked to me. Who takes the word of a 5th grader about such things!?! And it isn't just one particular child - several kids are at my house - for sleepovers or just for the afternoon, and I have no clue who their parents are! I don't mind - I know where my kid is and who she's with - but I would never dream of letting her go to someone else's house without talking to the parents first! And besides, who called it a 'sleep over' no one ever 'sleeps'!!
Should I go to my friend's sleepover?
You should go, sleepovers are always fun. Only go if you want to though. If that girl you got into a fight with is there? Play cool, just be nice. You don't want to ruin it by starting an other fight. You are also showing your the bigger, better person here. Just smile at her and if there are any like games where you need a partner? Ask her at least once, to be your partner. Like I said, just be nice to her. Have a lot of fun! Hope this helps, ciao!!
Why do I hate sleepovers ?
Your just like millions of other people, I too don't like staying overnight at friends homes. I like to get up from my own bed and wake up, when I want to, and do my everyday normal wake up ritual. I train six days a week and look forward to my one undisturbed sleep in a week. I go home, rather than having to quietly pussyfoot around sleeping people, trying to find a cup or where they keep there coffee, while not being able to just switch on the TV and watch the morning news. I'm non conversing at least for a half an hour after I wake up. So the twenty questions about nothing in my face on waking would totally annoy me, and I'd probably become a little snappy before having a shower and my cup of wake up coffee. I tell my friends, I can at times be a real terror when I wake up or if woken, and not a pleasure to be around. For my need of my own personal territorial space in the morning on waking up. Maybe you should tell them this, as friends, they all should understand and respect you, being honest of why you choose not to sleep over.
My wife has sleepovers with her friends all the time. Do you think she is cheating on me? Is it normal for adults to have sleepovers?
Firstly, we’re not mind readers, nor do any of us have the super power to look into someone’s activities from random points around the planet.Secondly, from where is your paranoia based on? Have you ever had this issue? Is there anything she has done in the past that warrants this paranoia?Lastly, normality is irrelevant. If 10,000 people say it’s abnormal and 9,999 people say it is normal, who will you side with and why would it matter in the first place? People who ask whether something is normal or not, are usually people who lack the maturity to think and decide things on their own.Your wife has sleepovers with her friends. Is this a common theme with them since before you two met? If not, is this a part of her character to enjoy these sort of things? Perhaps, she has her sleepovers to get away from you? Why? Why would she do this? Do you overwhelm her with your paranoia and possible controlling tendencies? Do you smother her space and free time most of the time? Do you have healthy, open conversations? Do you ever speak with her, without accusing her of anything?It’s also possible, she has her sleepovers just because she enjoys them and has nothing to do with you.Who really knows? None of us do. If you have a hard time speaking with your wife about this, then your marriage has already cracked and is on the way to being broken further.You know what I do if I see something irregular in my relationship? I go to the source. I go to my wife and ask her what’s going on, then we talk about it. Sometimes, we have to talk about it a different day because she’s going through ‘Yellow or Orange Alert’ (PTSD). So I wait until she is ready. Often times, she just writes me a short letter, explaining why she is behaving the way she does.You see? Early on in our relationship, we made it definite, that we will openly communicate our feelings, thoughts and issues with each other. Why? Otherwise, we get a situation like yours. Think about it.
Is it normal to hate sleepovers?
I prefer to sleep in my own bed, without a person beside me. LOL. Sometimes, my friends will ask me shallow questions. EXAMPLE: "Who do you like?" I always tell them I don't like anyone (I honestly don't), but they don't believe me! "You have to like someone!" Haha.. Then, they will go through all of my drawers, trying to find my journal or something. It's just... annoying. Haha, the reason I'm asking this is because I recently had a sleepover, and realized how much I hate them! Haha, so is anyone else like this? I don't need advice or anything; I'm just curious. :)
Is it weird that i hate sleepovers?
My friends keep asking me to sleepover and I am always making excuses to bale. They are getting annoyed that I don't ever sleep over and complain that they only have had one or two sleepovers with me. I just feel uncomfortable at sleepovers like I don't see the fun of staying up all night with the same friends you see all day at school. I just don't like sleeping at someone else's house. I feel like if I tell them that I hate sleepovers they will all talk about how weird I am. Is it weird to hate sleepovers?
My mom hates sleep overs?
Well I'm a teenager, and usually now teens wanna hang with their friends, like in sleepovers...The problem is my mom has always hated sleepovers and limits me to where I should sleep over at. I have only been to a friend's sleepover once in my entire life.. My mom hates sleepovers because she doesn't know how my friend's parents could act...(like probably intending to rape me or something)...Even though I know she's being protective, I'm getting older, and I like to do other things rather than just go to the mall with friends all the time. I'm not gonna have sex or anything, it's nothing like that. I mean I have a cell phone so if she feels she needs to contact me, she can. How can I talk to my mom about her disliking towards sleep overs?
Why won't my parents let me go to sleepovers with my friends?
I assume you are a teenager (high school student or below), by the “sound” of the question.Maybe it’s because they don’t trust your friends or their families. However, if they have met your friends, then it must be something they see at them that you don’t see, or they just have a bad feeling about them. Are you sure they like your friends? Have they told you so? Because if they haven’t told you, looks are deceiving sometimes.There is a number of thoughts that usually go through their minds in case you have a sleepover: - You will somehow end up being impolite and bring a bad name to your family;- Your friends’ house might get robbed by a burglar;- Someone is going to offer you drugs or secretly drug you;- You will drink alcohol;- Your friends are guys or they will bring guys (if you are a girl) and they might attempt to sleep with you;- Somebody will kidnap you and sell you as an organ donor;- Somebody will hurt or kill you.Yeah, believe me or not, this is what they sometimes have in mind. I would worry too, if I had a child.If you have known your friends for a long time and you trust them, then you can try to convince your parents that it will be just one night and nothing bad will happen. You can ask one of your parents to give you a ride there and pick you up after, so they can feel better. You can also arrange some party at your place and invite your friends’ families, so your parents will get to know them better, strengthen the ties and trust them.However, if nothing goes as you expect, don’t lose hope. If your friends are serious and honest, they will understand. You will have plenty of time for sleepovers when you reach college years.