My wife and my sister both don't like each other. How can I clear this issue?
Don’t get involved in the issue between your wife and sister as you will only complicate things.Don’t take sides. Don’t talk in favor of your sister to your wife as she will dislike it.Don’t talk in favor of your wife to your sister as she too will dislike it.Let them resolve their problems between themselves.Let them have respectable space between them.Don’t force your sister on your wife. She cannot love your sister as you do, as she does not have your emotional bond.You should also never lose your love for your sister. It is a beautiful relationship. But your sister should understand that your wife is your top priority. She cannot compete with her.It is a common problems most women face. They cannot get along with their in-laws as in-laws never know their limits.
My sister-in-law is in love with me?
If you don't want to ruin your relationship with your wife, then you need to talk to your wife about it. If you keep it from her, she'll think you are hiding it. If she thinks you are hiding it, she'll wonder why you are hiding it. Then she will not trust you and that will lead to bigger issues. Tell her what is happening and ask her to have a chat with her sister. If it messes up their relationship, that's her sisters fault. If you keep quiet and it ruins yours, that's your fault.
How can I help my little sister learn how to read and write?
There are a lot of ways to help her learn to read and write just by playing with her. For example, write all the letters on small square sheets of paper so that each letter is on a seperate cut out square (you might need several copies of the poplular letters) and then spread the letters out on the floor and piece them together to spell words. Maybe you’d want to start with rhyming words like car, bar, far, jar. At first, you can read the word to her, but then see if she can sound out the word. Then just keep changing the first letter to help her read new rhyming words.If you have a smart phone or tablet, delete all the games she likes and download some letter apps. A lot of these apps are also fun and helpful.Most important is to remember that kids love spending time with you, so if you spend your time with her doing reading, spelling, or letters, she will love that too. And don’t worry if she doesn't understand in the beginning, it's more important that you do this everyday with her and have fun. Don't make it stressful, but spend everyday playing with letters and sounds and reading, and she will start to love it because she also loves you.
What is it like to be raised by parents who love each other unconditionally?
My parents had a love marriage in 1989. It was a big deal back then. They weren't Immature kids. Both of them were well educated and had an amazing job with them. But still they had to literally run away from the house and get married. They thought it would be easy to convince them after you are married. Poor kids were wrong :D They literally begged everybody to accept them and finally after big fights and struggles their families said “kettu ozhinga” ( tamil meaning just live as you like).So, now they are still living happily after 26 years of their marriage. One incidence I can never forget was I, mom and dad were having dinner and watching Neeya Naana ( A popular debate show in tamil). The topic was about love marriages. So on one side they were wives and on the other side they were their respective husbands. The debate was about how love reduces after marriage. Wives started complaining about how their husbands are not good at reciprocating love and how they have changed. One woman commented that her husband doesn't use I love you anymore and that makes her sad.Suddenly, my dad starts to blush and asks me to go to the kitchen and get something totally irrelevant. I understand that there is some loop in this task. I go to the kitchen and silently peep to check what is he upto.Dad towards mum - Viji? (My mother's name is Vijayalakshmi and he calls her VIJI)Mum - Sollunga. (Tell me)Dad - I love you di Viji.Mum - *Blushes*Isn't this true relationship goals. These people are such an amazing inspiration to the current day couples. I wish I too get to have a beautiful life like them.
Scorpio/Gemini sisters?
My two best friends are Scorpios, and yeah, we'll disagree from time to time for sure. But I've known them for so long, they may as well be my sisters. Being a Gemini, I would say that your sister needs to learn how to just let you do your own thing and not be so protective of you. She may also think that you make foolish choices (me and my bestie used to fight about this all the time), but she's got to realize that you are your own person with your own choices to make, and that her advice may be solicited when YOU want it and ask for it. This was hard for me to learn, too. My bestie was dating loser after loser and it was SO hard not to tell them off and tell her to pull her out of her...ya' know. :)> Also, something you can do: when she does pass judgement harshly, don't read too much into it. Some of us Gem's have a hard enough time trying to get the right thing out, and it may come off as brutal, but really, we're just trying to protect you. We think it's going to come out as sisterly advice, but we come off sounding more like your mom would. Listen to her, and say that you really appreciate her looking out for you, but calm down. You aren't going to change your mind, and she should respect your decisions. Not AGREE with them, but at least respect them. Edit: I also forgot to mention that while us Gem's are portrayed as unemotional and flighty, we are SEVERELY protective, CRAZED, really, over the ones we truly love. We will see red if anyone tries to mess with our loved ones. I believe that your sister loves you dearly, and this is why she thinks it's okay to unleash judgement on you. It doesn't make it right at all. I'm just trying to give you some Gemini insight, so the next time she "flips" on you, you have a better understanding. You wanna know what my friends did to me when I would start to nag them? They look at me, smile sweetly, and say, 'Aw, I love you too." I would stop, mid-fight, jaw to the ground. They caught on. They knew why I was being such a b***h. I was trying to protect them, but I didn't need to do that. Your sister will get it, don't worry. And like Gem's are really the ones to talk about responsibility and making good choices...LOL!!!