Why are men so irresponsible?
Wow - how's that for equality! Welcome to the 21st century.
How do I deal with an irresponsible father?
You don't deal with him.You step up and take all the responsibilities.Take this as a golden opportunity.Someday you will be in his place and you have to take up the responsibilities which you are talking about.Suppose your team lead is irresponsible and your manager wants a new new lead from your team, tell me won't you step up?.Most of the family problems are solved just by speaking out directly with your family.If you do not want to do that just take all the responsibilities, maybe then your father will realise his mistake seeing you do all the work that he was supposed to do.Not all families are perfect.Imagine the guys/girls who lose their father at an young age. Don't the elder ones take up all the responsibilities?. They have to!, they will!.You can try and talk to your father and tell him what you are feeling. If there is no change, then just stop thinking about him, stop waiting for him to take up all the responsibilities, stop expecting him to be like other fathers.Just step up!
Ten year old stepson very lazy and irresponsible?
How can I get him to stop being so lazy is every ten year old like this I ask him to put his dish in the dishwasher he says why I put it in the sink your here like its my job to do it I tell him turn off the lights when your not in your room or bathroom they stay on along with his TV until I turn it off he leaves his wrappers on the counter when the trash can is less then five feet away even to the point he doesn't even flush the toilet after he's done and his room and bathroom. Smell horrible I have a eight month old daughter and his father and I work full-time when I'm home I want to spend as much time with melt daughter not spend three hours cleaning every day ...
Is having 2 kids while living with your mother a bad image?
Long story short, laid down with the wrong person, tricked me into thinking she was on Birth Control and now we have a daughter that is making a year in a few days. Before this, I had a girl I was dealing with for 2-3 years and we are back together now. Not even intentionally trying to get her pregnant, I would never rush that upon someone, but I really want another child by her because she means the world to me and we been through hell and back to get where we are and she stuck by me. The thing is, I’m living with my mom, and not saying I care about other people opinions but is that really a good image? A 21 year old with 2 kids and he is still living with his mom. I make sure my kids are straight regardless, they will never need for anything, it’s just I’m not in my own house. But I’m more than capable, i make $15 a hour, I’m about to get a new car, i just haven't made any moves because my sister just moved out and I’m helping my mom with bills and I refuse to just leave her here to deal with all of that by herself, no I’m not that type of man. It’s been on my mind a lot these last few weeks and I need help