How do I impress my mother-in-law?
Start with impressing yourself. One thing you can do is focus on the good things about your bf's mom. Two good things, are that she is the main reason your bf is on the earth, and she loves him. And just respect and feel gratitude for her for these things, and ignore everything else however seemingly distasteful, that does not matter. Also, your bf loves her. She has given him something to love (her,) which is a good thing too, and makes him part of who he is. See, it does not really matter who she likes. It only matters who you like. If you can come to find peace at the good things she has provided, then you may realize that this is an impressive task on your part, and feel impressed with yourself. And then you may realize that she has also impressed you with her good qualities, and in reality, she is the one who had task to impress you, not you her. So you are the new Queen in a way--although she has impressed you just by being there, and by being herself, and by really doing nothing actually. And all this impressiveness, really came from you, your power, your good energy. And that is indeed impressive.Your peace of mind will bring you fresh attitude and behavior, born from good energy--this can be applied to everyone actually, not just limited to her. This will be a fearless attitude and behavior, because you will see her and everyone as friends, not enemies. And this fresh and kind fearlessness will be noticed by all, including her. So when you focus on good thoughts, then her harsh words and drama will fade to meaninglessness, and your heart will strike a healthy balance. So this way, you have not put any energy towards making her be impressed with you, that is not your job. Your job is to yourself, to release and free your good energy from the confines of bad thoughts. But be patient with yourself, and hold to no expectations of these good results I mention. Only hold expectation that the battle against hurtful emotions and thoughts, are a continuous lifetime endeavor. Just crush the bad thoughts, and nourish the good, then healing and goodness will be born pure and free, because it will be free even from your own expectations. control, and confinement.
My mother-in-law always gives me dirty looks so last night I said "do you have a problem with me" she said no?
I said so why do get these looks she said "you do terrible thinks" when I tryed to get her explean she didn't give a clear answer when this morning my wife was unset and said why did you yell at mom(even though I didnt) how to handle this?
Why would my Mother-in-law try to make me jealous?
My mil once told me that her daughter hair was longer than mines. She said this in a sarcastic way, with an evil look on her face. But the truth is, her statement was very untrue. My mil talks about hair around me all the time.I wonder if she can find something else to talk about than this. I am not jealous of my sil. I admire her and I do like her. Yes, I do have really long hair. Many people tell me that is is beautiful, including my mil. I sometimes forget that I have long hair. It makes no big deal to me. Hair is hair. This does not make a person. Why would she strive to make me jealous of my sil. I am not a jealous person. That is not my style. If she is content with her daughter, then why does she feel the need to bring me down. I am very nice to my mil. Helping her and giving her biblical books. Why is she trying to tear me down by treating me so unkind?
My bit*chy mother in law?
I have been recently married and living with my inlaws. yesterday, my mother in law severely reprimanded me and all. My fault: I was wearing a nighty during evening inside the house (which my husband bought for me). according to my MIL, she can clearly see the outline of my bre*asts through the cotton material..and I am "distracting" my father in law and brother in law by wearing such "bad" clothes. Yes a faint outline was visible - so what? Does it mean, they will to look at me???? Am i to blame??? She is forgetting that her son bought it for me. Should i fight back or let it go? I had worn my pa*nties inside the nighty and was not exposing myself in any way. I admit that i wasnt wearing a br*a as i was at home. Plus my SIL often wears a nighty thru which I can also see outline her panty. Why is she allowed to wear that then?
What if my future daughter will look like my mother-in-law whom I hate?
When I am upset with my husband over something, I sometimes over react. He so much resembles his mother in looks and body language that I feel it's his mother who is putting words into his mouth or making him act the way she wants, which is obviously not true. However, when I'm not in a bad mood, I feel thankful to her for the striking features and the good habits she has passed on to her son.Babies are just babies, cute and innocent. Whether your child looks more like you or your husband and his family or both is a matter of destiny and not choice. It would be wrong to speculate or fantasize about a designer baby. However, being a mother, you definitely will have edge over others when it comes to the child's upbringing.