Losing friends after getting pregnant/married?
I am currently 22 years old and immediately lost friends due to my decision to get married and go to medical school. My husband and I are both second year medical students who've lost friends because of our busy schedules and change in lifestyle "at a young age." It didn't bother us much, actually it's a fact of life. When you begin a make a big lifestyle change in your life that separates you from the rest of your friends, most people who aren't ready to take that step sort of disappear. We honestly didn't notice. We have kept in touch with a few friends, but we no longer "hang out" as often as we did. My husband and I are usually busy studying and when we have free time, we spend it with each other. I don't really have a problem with it. We've both made great friends in medical school who don't know us as anything other as "the married couple," so to them, nothing has changed. The honest truth is friends are based on common lifestyles and interests. They come and go all of the time. We went from being fraternity and sorority college kids who were popular and loved among our campuses to married, medical students who are extremely busy, tight on cash and free time to have fun. Most of our newest friends are in the same boat... at least partially. I know it's difficult, but it gets easier when you keep these things in mind. My husband and I aren't thinking about having any kids soon because we are far too busy and cannot afford it, but I can definitely empathize about the marriage situation. I wish you the best.
I brought my thuggish boyfriend home and my mother fainted?
man i feel you...im thuggish and my girl friend's parents dont like me...but u know once u know me im a nice guy...i make others laugh and erry thing,back to da point,explain to ur parents about his personality...never judge a book my its cover u know what im sayen..and tell em to bring him for a dinner and den u guys can hav a nice evening if dat dont work out den i wish da best of lucks for ya girl...peace
My wife has confessed of having sex with our common friend.?
My wife of 3 yrs. has confesed that she had sex couple of times with one of her colleague in office and he used to give her gifts which she used to say, she got it from her students etc..once he gave some money also .. we are well settled and had no problems monetarily or physically..i used to love her very much and she also used to love me..In sex also i used to give her orgasms before me...i never felt of her affair untill she told me..we had a love marriage and were dreaming of our future..but this confession came to me as a thunder..i couldn't believe that my wife can do this..she is so loving, good, and family oriented...she said, she couldn't hide it anymore after seeing my love and affection towards her...she is very guilty and repenting for what she's done and fear for the future..As for me, I am feeling terribly cheated and also feeling that how my wife and our friend had cheated me. I used to booze with my friend and used to tell him how much i love my wife.PLS ADVICE.
Married young and now in love with another woman...?
I got married immediately after graduating college at the age of 23. I was always a wild man, and I enjoyed cavorting with my friends. I met my wife as a sophomore in college and quickly fell in love. I cheated several times regrettably, but only in a one-night-stand. We got married and moved so I could start medical school. Everything seemed great. I was still sexually attracted to other women, but never cheated, alcohol or not. After my first year of school, I went away for the summer to do military training and I met and made friends with another woman, a medical student also in the military. We only hung out on occasion. Despite partying like a rock star with my military peers during the training, I did not cheat on my loving wife at home. I returned and finished a year of school, and then I met that girl again randomly on a school event...the mutual attraction was obvious. We fell for each other. She has a boyfriend of 3 years with intent to marry...we are both confused
After I masterbated , I had this wet stuff on my fingers? (Uhh girls only)?
When you masturbate/are aroused your body produces natural lubrication. That is the white stuff on your fingers. There is absolutely no way you can get pregnant from it. You can only get pregnant from sperm from a boy. Your vagina may hurt from masturbating if you are fingering yourself and your nails are sharp (they can scrape the inside of your vagina), or if you are masturbating too hard or too fast the vagina can get irritated. I don't know what to say about your dog. I teach 7th grade health, and in the state I teach in (Utah) we aren't allowed to discuss masturbation at all. So this is probably something you would have had to ask someone else anyway. Hope this helps.
My 13 year-old-girl is still ingenuous and innocent, is this normal behavior?
She has periods and wears a bra like any girl her age, but is a bit childish. The good thing is she's a sweetheart, has never done anything bad, just small mistakes, treats me, my husband nad her lil bro with love, gets good grades, plays sports. But she's ingenuous, naive, I'm afraid she may be hurt by bad people. She acts like a sweet girl, likes to help people, laughs a lot, is innocent. Somedays ago we were in a shopping center and she get away from to look at some colthes. Then, she suddenly ran to me, gave me a big hug and said My mom! As a mom, of course I love such things, and I hugged her too. But I'm not sure if this is a normal behavior for a 13 yo girl. She still see boys just as friends and likes to go out with me and her dad. Well, at least she's a very happy girl. Should I be worried?