How do I accept that I will be alone forever?
Look, no one is so unattractive that not one woman on the entire Earth will be attracted to you. It's just not possible and honestly, as long as you have good personal hygiene, I know for a fact someone will be attracted to you. Also, you need to learn to be happy by/with yourself before you can ever have a successful relationship. Find your own self-identity first, establish your goals and dreams and focus on those, not so much on love. When you stop looking, she will find you.. Go find yourself and learn to love yourself because from what I am hearing, you don't know how to do that. How can you ever love someone else if you don't even love yourself? You can do it.
Should I accept I'll be alone forever?
I'm thinking I should accept I'll be single forever. This may not seam logical for most people, but it is when you have Aspergers and you live in a world where everyon is full of expectations. People misjudge me for being hostile, anti-social and anything they can think of. People are only capable of seeing things one way. Their way. In return, I do get angry about it at times. Or maybe Im not missing out at all. Nobody gives aspie people a break, it's like everyone holds sh*t against me
How do you accept being alone forever?
Looks are not an excuse I have seen very unattractive people find soulmates. Dont get so down on your self. I know you dont want to hear that. Obviously your reaching out for support and answers and I think you WILL find someone who will love and care about you. Trust me just because things feel like this now does not by any means it will feel like this later. I have seen the most unattractive guys but if they have confidance they are instantly attractive. They can pull woman in like a magnet. Hold your head up and know good things will happen for you!
Accepting your destiny as a forever alone?
I've never had a relationship and I'm closing in on the age where it really won't matter anymore. What do other forever alone's do to pass this time until death. I've been thinking about getting dog will this help? Also if you are not a forever alone please move on your perky attitude is not needed.
How can I make peace with being alone forever?
Oh boy, it's not easy. Nothing can prepare you to life of solitude if you have it in you to copulate.Being alone will eventually put you face to face with your biggest enemy, yourself.Yourself will bring a world of hurt on your ass. It will make you long for the good moments, and also make you relive your past failures. The more you advance in age, the bigger the package you drag along the road.You will talk to yourself, you will constantly reason with it. Continuous discussions in your mind, in front of the mirror, driving around and in your lunch breaks.You will fight battles with yourself, some you come out as a victor and feel true power of independence, but some you will lose and feel that small pain in your chest that pokes you from the inside.Eventually, you will start the fantasies, a world created by your own mind that you will hurry to every time you feel the cold sting of loneliness.You will not be able to really accept people around and you will find it hard to communicate with others, you will know for sure when you avoid looking into people eyes.Your body will start giving in and you will start developing weird eating habit, insomnia will throw a shadow over you. You will know the meaning of sleep paralysis, depression and the biggest one of them all detachment.Detachment is your final battle where you start losing interest in living inside the confines of society, then and only then if you are still standing, you will know for sure that you can handle it.However Buddy, no amount of tips or tricks can prepare you to take that journey, you have to take it on your own one way or the other.Whatever people will prescribe is only a sedative that will wear out sooner or later and you will find yourself standing alone in that dark forest of eternal solitude.One more thing, you will learn the hard way when you are alone, people lend an ear or hand from time to time, but the cardinal rule is nobody gives a shit.
Have you accepted the fact that you'll be alone forever?
Maybe not forever but certainly alone for this lifetime. Forever is an infinitely long time, I wouldn't even be around to know its forever.I feel somehow relationships are overrated. I've never been a big “dater" on the scene trying to impress girls so they could like me or notice me. I used to find this useful and a big part of my life when I was younger, I'm talking about between 18-21 years of age. But now I just dont care. I am not actively trying to put myself in a relationship. There are some people in this world who despise being alone. They hate it so much that they rather spend their lives with someone who they may not like so much just so they womt have to be alone. But I much rather prefer to be alone. I'll be honest, I am not the best looking Male out there and definitely not the most stable. But I don't pride myself by those superficial features. They will all disappear one day. It's whats inside of us that we should be looking at. Being a gentleman, curtious, respectful being someone that your spouse or GF can count on. I feel all these things no longer matter in today's society. You either have money, have the brains, have the “right” tough guy attitude or just plain looking to get laid and you'll say and pretend to be anything to get it.The gentlemen get no play. I can only sit back and observe. View the route society is taking and knowing deep down that I soon will no longer be a part of it. Alone everlong.
Most men are forever alone?
Women seem to have outward and inward disgust for low value males and pine for the attention, affection and relationships Ugly and low value men are the cannon fodder of society, we inherently have little to no use or value for women, they hate us and would much prefer a world in which we didnt exist women will do anything for either an attractive or high value male. this comes out mostly as the 80/20 rule Honestly sometimes i wonder why i should even exist or live as a low value man. intimacy from women for me is unattainable
How to deal with being alone forever?
I completely understand where you are coming from. People saying "it will get better" makes me want to do the same thing. They just don't get it! I've given up too, for a different reason probably. I've learned that I'm not really happy alone because I'm not the kind of person who prefers life that way, BUT keeping busy really helps. Making plans with friends and keeping a full schedule really keeps your mind off the fact that you are single (not alone). Just keep things light and friendly but don't be scared to be flirty even when you know it's not going to go anywhere (by your choice) since that can cause some fun times too. Maybe some pets would help too, for company when friends aren't around and to snuggle at night. You might not be able to keep being happy ALL the time, like cold, rainy nights sitting on your couch by yourself when a romantic comedy comes on tv, but hey for the majority of the time you can be. A job helps too, something dealing with the public like a restaurant host, salesperson, etc. since then you are around people as well. There are lots of cool experiences then as well. Best of luck on your journey through life as a single person! Sincerely, Another on the same trip.