Do you or your friends consider you to be "cool"?
I liked the way Ellen went about it. So, even I took a poll.Sample size: 5Friend 1:Me: Hey, am I cool?F1: What?Me: Am I cool?F1: What again?Me: "AM I COOL", you deaf bastard!?F1: Why? Something wrong?Me: Just answer the question man.F1: Well... you're cool-ish. Me: What does that mean? What's coolish? Is it cool or uncool? F1: I gotta go man. I'm getting late for work. See ya laters!Friend 2:Me: Dude, you think I'm cool?F2: Yes. When you buy me a drink, you absolutely are.*He got the drink*Friend 3(Asked on WhatsApp):Me: Hey, I have a question for you. Am I cool?F3: Asking it is not so cool.Me: Just answer it.F3 (After a long time): I think you have a cool job!Me: Really?F3: Yeah. Since you have so much of free time to come up with shit questions like that.Me: Fuck you!F3: Thanks. I already have a boss. Ttul.Friend 4:Me: Hey, I wanted to ask.. Do you think I'm cool?F3: What do you mean?Me: Its a simple and straightforward question- am I cool?F3: You mean fashion wise or..? Me: Overall personality wise.F3: You've had girlfriends before. So don't worry, you'll do okay. I'll hook you up with someone if you want!?Me: No no, I am not lonely! I just asked it for.. you know what? Never mind. Friend 5 (Again on WhatsApp):Me: Hey. Can I ask you a serious question and expect you to not make fun out of it?F5: Never tried that before, but lets do it! Ask!Me: Do you think I am cool?Me (5 minutes later): Are you gonna answer that?F5: I took a snapshot of that and was posting it on Facebook. Haha. Thanks ;-pMe: You asshole! Don't do it! I'm gonna kill you man..F5: ROFL. Tag for the post- 'How cool is that?'Me: You're dead.F5: Hahahaha. Chill! I still haven't uploaded it. And.. it'll take a crate of beer to delete the snapshot. Me: Are you extorting?F5: Of course! See ya at 8. My place. Dumbass! Haha..Me: You're such an asshole!F5: And you're so cool man! You get me free beer!
How do you make friends with the cool kids?
Im in middle school and I dont have a lot of friends. My clique ditched me and made new friends without me. Now I have no one to talk to all day. My only friend made friends with the "in-crowd' and everyone seems to know her, and she doesn't treat me as nice as she used to. I want to make friends with the in-crowd because they're so nice and cool, and some of them are in my classes. But it seems like whenever I talk to them they ignore me and talk to someone else. Whenever I try to enter a conversation I don't know the people they're talking about and I can't keep up with everyone. Also I'm really shy. How do I make friends with the cool kids?
I'm everyone's friend but I have no friends?
In school I have friends who I would say are good friends of mine but I'm not in anyone's hangout group meaning that after school all my friends will go hangout with each other or on the weekends but I'm never invited so I spend almost all of my time home in my basement. I mean my parents go out with their friends more. I just don't get it in school I'm the kid who makes everyone laugh and everyone seems to be a friend but once school is over everyone seems to have friends who their super close with and all my friends who were like that went to different highschools but in the beginning of the year I used to have a group of friends that would always meet up on the weekends and hangout but when winter came along that stopped and then my friend had a birthday party and invited everyone from that group except for me and now they all hangout without me is it because I'm annoying because then wouldn't they ignore me in school too? But they don't they are always happy to see me and when I sit somewhere at lunch everyone else comes and sits with me so I don't get why I don't get invited to hangout with them outside of school
Old friends are too cool for me?
So i decided to move to a new town because the other one is a rich snotty ppl town where everyone was too cool for me, and i thought this would be a fun place to live because i know people here, and in the other place i didnt know anyone or couldnt make friends. and the ppl i knew here before i came here or when i would talk to them they would all act really excited to see me again. So I get here and everyone acts weird like they dont wanna hangout with me and like im bugging them and now they ignore me when i try to get ahold of them. In the last town i was in i was in a relationship for a year and was completely cut off from meeting or hanging out with anyone so now i feel completely socially awkward and like now i dont even wanna meet anyone because people act like im not cool or exciting enough for them, even though i try my best to be nice and talk to them. But anyways does anyone have any advice for me? I feel like iv completely lost self confidence in myself and like im incapable of making friends it sucks and its really depressing. What do u think???
My best friend is too cool for me now.?
We're seniors in high school and we have been best friends since 7th grade. High school changes everyone, right? Even me, I won't deny that whatsoever. Anyway, her change was going from a girl who kinda played by the rules and didn't get out much to a now party girl who gets drunk/high a lot. I'm not judging her for this at all, don't get me wrong. I have no problem with how she wants to live her life. The thing is, I'm on the completely different side of the spectrum pretty much. I don't have interest in parties and such, I'm quite the introvert. I don't mind being friends with someone so different from me, but it seems like she does. She makes plans with me and then blows it off last minute to hang out with her new party friends. It kind of hurts because I know she does it because I bore her. Like, idk. I still want to be her friend, but I feel like I am just becoming a burden or something. She is also been kind of colder to me this year, since she started doing all this stuff. I guess because she has new friends who are cooler and more her idea of fun than I am and so she realizes that she doesn't want to be my friend or something. So, what do you think? I just wish she would straight up tell me that she doesn't want to be friends anymore, or something. I hate being lied to. I hate not knowing. I just want the truth. What should I do? Am I overreacting?
Some of my friends say I'm too cool for them?
i was texting one of my friends and i said, "wait, why haven't i seen you in forever?" and he said i'm too cool for him. i was walking with another one of my friends and i asked, "are you gonna come stand with the rest of my buddies?" and he asked who and i said "everyone over there" and he was like," no they're too cool for me" i'm a girl they're both guys and i'm in 9th grade if that matters. i have my main group of friends that i see and talk to everyday and other people i just see from time to time but basically i'm friends with everyone, so i don't see what the problem is...why are they saying i'm too cool for them? what does that mean?