I Like this girl in my group of friends! what are some ways to get closer to her!!?
I know what you mean because Ive been in your position before. Just relax, because you have your whole life ahead of you. Take your time and be easy with it. If you freeze up when you talk to her, do the cheesy stuff. It always gets me. Wink at her, smile at her... ask her for her number ... first talk as friends, then ask her on a date. Hope that helps.
How to get someone out of my group of friends?
ok there's this girl who just got kicked out of her group last year. One of my best friends was her classmate and so this girl went with my best friend (my friend is just too nice). Then my best friend invited her to eat lunch with us...we're four all in all (excluding the smelly girl) and everyone thought it was fine at first but she smells really bad...after going with this girl for a few days, we learned that she doesn't take a bath often!! EWWW GROSS... her hair has dandruff, her arms are always sweaty, she lies down on the ground like a dog and she bites her nails(putting saliva on them while she's at it) so it's gross when she touches us! She talks back to teachers, uses foul language and has disgusting habits... I thought that it was only me feeling annoyed with her and wanted her out ..but when i told my friends about it, they were thinking the same!!! we wanted her out but none of us want to tell her and we don't know how... so the sad part is..we just put up with this for the whole school year! we started ignoring her, didn't invite her to our parties etc. but she still didn't get the idea! .... now it's our summer break and we're gonna be seniors next year ... I DO NOT want to spend my last year being annoyed by the same person.. i want her out but i don't know how to do it... I don't think i can live with her smell for another year!
How to choose between 2 groups of friends?
Do what you want, I've always tried soo hard to put others first that I forgot about being true to myself. Which group makes you happiest? If you feel comfotable with group 2, stick with them. I you think you could do better with group 1, go with them. Or if its so bad, and both groups make you feel awarkward, find another group altogether, or get some new friends and start your own little group. Just forget about everyone else for a minute and concentrate on you and your instincts, what do you want?
I feel alone and left out by my friends in a group; what should I do?
When I was in middle school, I felt the same way about one of my friend groups. I noticed that they always seemed to have an easier time talking amongst themselves. They had inside jokes I wasn’t weighing in on, their humor seemed to become more and more foreign to me, and they seemed to not care at all when I wasn’t there with them. I felt like an outsider looking through the glass.About a year later, I looked back on this, and realized that I simply didn’t fit in with them. I had different interests, different perspectives, different humor, different philosophy, different lifestyle, different everything. I wanted to be in a group that I wasn’t meant to be in.Going further into this, I also understood the group dynamics that caused me to drift from them.I’m an introvert. When I hang out with friends, I started noticing that I start burning out after around an hour. I simply got tired of socializing and went back to my awkward self. I always preferred doing things by myself rather than with other people. Now the group I was in seemed to care more about how well you can socialize to make each other happy. I obviously lost when it came to that factor.I matured. I also realized that I matured at a much faster rate than the friend group I was in at the time. I was going through a rough time, and I had a lot of time to contemplate morals, values, ethics, as well as my beliefs, desires, and insecurities. I gained multiple new perspectives, while my friend group stayed in their middle school teenager mindset.I had different friendship values. The friend group that I was in during middle school, had different friendship values than me. I valued acceptance, tolerance, listening to each other, and cherishing each other, while they valued having a good time together, enjoying the now, and relating to each others’ interests. So from those principles, we naturally drifted. To be honest, I don’t really think they truly cared about me as a human being.That was my experience with being pushed out of a friend group.I can’t speak for you, but my suggestion to you would be to simply see how things go. You’ll want to be more communicative with them, and maybe it’s due to other factors for why you felt more distant. Eventually, you’ll know whether or not to stick with them. At the same time, go out of your comfort zone. Be open-minded and make some friends with other people.
I don't have a group of friends in high school?
I'm going to be honest you probably think high school is everything right now guess what? It's not you have your whole life ahead of you and i'm going to tell you just make friends don't go to a certain group because half of those people wont even be your friends and that's just apart of getting older. The easiest club to join is drama club or a because even if you don't perform you can be behind the scenes or a foreign club you sound like an awesome girl you will be just fine.Those mean girls probably don't and won't have anything on you !!! As for the 2 girls drop them and choose and talk to who you want to. Just have fun it's your world go out there and take it!!!!!!
How would you describe your group of friends?
We're the weird, English & Art kind of people. The freaks who get together and talk. Not to mention, the quiet one, Shawn, just sits there and stares at everyone who isn't in our group of friends. Don't ask me why, he just does. Kind of embarrassing, really.
How do I behave when with a group of friends?
My friend, you are on the right track if you have decided not to be your old-self in your new job and the new environment.We don't need to do something special to gain more friends. Believe me, the only thing you need to do is smile with confidence whenever they talk to you and become a good listener. Majority of them like to talk about themselves for a given situation. Try to encourage them to speak more and listen to them sincerely. Show appreciation. Believe me you will be loved by all. Greet everyone everyday. You are on the right trackCheerio :p
How can find all my mutual friends in groups I have joined and pages that I am a fan of on facebook?
I don't think there's a way. You could just go to See All and type in names in the search bar.
I hate my friend group. How do I handle it?
I’ve had many friend groups in my life. My current one is by far the worst but also the best. At first I got along great with these people. We were so alike and we just clicked. But slowly I realized they weren’t who I thought they were. They talked bad about our other friends behind their backs and said some horrible things. I’m ashamed to admit that I took part in some of the talk but at the time I was so desperate for friends that I thought that’s what I had to do. When I was with them I became a horrible person. So I began to distance myself. That was one of the biggest mistakes. It allowed for my best friend, the time, to hang out with two of the “head girls” so they bonded without me. They have inside jokes and make fun of me constantly. Whether it’s about my “cute and childlike” face or the way I eat, it’s always something. They’ve also started to hang out with our other friends and “forget” to invite me along. Then they proceed to post pictures with sayings like “With my best friends!” Or “Best Friend Night”. Now I know by now most people would’ve left but here’s my dilemma. I go to a small school, so many of the people in my grade I’ve known my whole life. This makes making friends harder. By this point most groups are formed and only new kids make the transition. So my only hope is that a new kid shows up and doesn’t make the cut for the other groups. I’m just at a lost as to what to do. Right now it’s pretty lonely. How would you handle this?