I am very worried about my dad, Is a pacemaker operation risky?
Rae, a pacemaker insertion is no longer considered a risky operation as it was back when they were first develpoed. He will recieve a local anaesthesia and a general muscle relxatant. He may just fall asleep during the proceedure but many do not. He will be able to go home that very day. There IS a slight risk of complications but, even if one should occur, it can and will be handled in relative ease and comfort to your dad. Raji the green Witch
I'm really worried about our dog (punctured back of throat)?
You should call the local emergency vet office and explain your situation to them. It probably is ok to let this heal by itself but if she's in a lot of pain you should be able to give her something like benadryl to help her settle/calm down and rest. Give them a call, ask for advice, dosage of benadryl, and other possible treatment. Meanwhile maybe give her ice cubes to lick...the coolness will help ease the pain. If the vet says they want to see her again then please ask a trusted friend or neighbor to drive you.
How do I convince my parents to calm down about joining the Army?
I was in this similar situation when I decided to join the Navy at a younger age. I actually ended up talking to the recruiter without telling my parents. Unfortunately, the recruiter called my mom and told her I was there. Not the best idea ever. You have to be open with her, explain why you want to go in. I mean the way the economy is, it is nice to have a job. The military will push you mentally and physically. I wouldn't have it any other way. Good luck, it probably isn't the best time to talk to a recruiter now, wait until you are 17, and hopefully by then your mom will be more accepting of it, then you could get a wavier allowing you to enlist at 17 like I did. Good Luck.
I am Indian. How do I get my dad to stop worrying about me?
You can't really make your dad to stop worrying about you completely. Indian parents always worry. No amount of assurance will calm them.But considering your case, your dad is the one who needs change.I don't think yelling or talking for that matter helps much.Instead, create a positive environment at home. He seems irritated and hence the negative thoughts. Fill your home with positive energy, some colors and certain objects are known to calm the mind and generate a positive vibe. You could try that. Enroll him into a meditation or yoga class, get him to read positive messages and quotes everyday.( Text message, posters in room, books, newspaper, etc.). Sometimes, parents become paranoid if they here about lives of other's children- some mishap or incident. Try not to irritate him more. Calm his mind, eventually he will come around.Hope this helps!
How do I convince my dad to go to the doctor? He is very stubborn and says he is fine but has trouble swallowing and throws up often
U must be close with your parent that’s amazing.Ask him to have a convo with you when he accepts that, take him close and go like this: Dad do you love me?He would go like yes, do you really care about me?Yes, then please dad if you love me just a lil and you care about me make my one wish come true and he would go like sure what’s that?Please i’m worried about you as your daughter about your health in general, i have the right to worry about someone that i love and care deep down from my heart, can we go to the Doctor together, i know that you are doing fine however i’m just worried so make my only wish true and i’m pretty sure that you are fine however i just need to make sure.
How can I calm myself down and stop myself from being scared of my dad?
REGRETS Inspirational Video My Biggest Regret Powerful Story Of Avoidance Claudia B VogasI recommend while you are thinking of your dad or are around him, do Ho’oponopono, it is a Hawaiian healing process based on forgiveness. All you need to do is repeat these sentences in the language that you think:“I’m sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you.”Repeat them until you feel at ease. It might take 15 minutes or so. But you will feel a change. I promise.
How can I convince my parents for a love marriage?
Well, this is one of the most difficult tasks in your life. If you follow the right route, you may succeed. However, there are no chances of this being confirmed as we stay in India and love marriage is still a taboo. With religion and caste system being so on top, our love and interests are often negotiated and we do settle for less.I am surrounded by multiple couples in my friend circle and most of them are living in a live-in relationship for quite sometime. Due to work, we all have settled in bangalore for more than 4 years now. So I have this very dear friend who’s in a live in relationship with her bf. Both of them are pretty good and an inspiration to the couples out there. So the lady is from the land of beaches and the guy is from mountains. Both hail from typical middle class conservative families with parents totally against a love affair.This is one crazy story I am gonna tell you guys! So the lady’s parents were pressurising her for marriage and she felt it is the time to tell her parents. She didn’t go the usual way that this guy is my bf and I wanna marry him. She knew they would never agree this way. She went home and told her parents that this guy is proposing me. I do not know what to do because I don’t know how does relationship works. But he’s my best friend and my only go to person. I feel I will be happy with him. But no hurry, I do not have feelings for him as such and shall do as you guys say. Parents were pretty happy to hear that atleast the daughter is asking them. They took their own sweet time to realise and analyse things and called her one day. Asked her to bring along the guy as they want to discuss about marriage with him. She was the happiest that day. Same technique was also used by her bf and you won’t believe how easily the parents on both sides have agreed.As parents, they also want to feel special for they have given up on everything to make us feel special. I am not saying what she lied about is absolutely correct, but this is fair as long as no one is harmed. This way, parents also feel special and cared.