How to confront my little sister about sex?
So here is the scenario: My family and I are currently on a cruise, and my mom invited ny bf and my little sisters bf to cOme along. I am 19 and in collage. I have been with my bf for two and a half years, and we share an apartment near our university. My little sister is 15 and is a sophomore in high school. She has been with her bf for just over a year. So basically the 4 of us are sharing a room. It has two twin beds and one queen. My bf Cole and I got the queen and lanie and he bf James each got a twin. The cruise is 2 weeks long. We have been on the boat for three days. So the "incident" occurred last night. It was about 10:30. Cole and I came back from a show to find lainie and James making out naked in one of the twin beds. Just as I was about to run up and scream at them, Cole pulled be back and told me to let them have their kinky fun. Reluctantly, I agreed and we went to get ice cream. They never noticed we were there. When Cole and I got back, they were both Laying together in one bed both asleep with Lanie wrapped in James's arms. This morning when we woke up around 8:30, they were in separate beds. I know I am not going to tell our mom, because she Is obviously mature enough to handle this aspect of a relationship, however, I want to talk to her about safe sex, and give her some condoms and lube. Just so they can stay safe. I am trying to be reasonable and remind myself that I was giving bj's and making out with guys at her age (even though Cole was the first guy I had sexual intercourse with.) I just want to be a helpful big sister, that's all. Thanks :)
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Hello Mary! How are you?I presume you are not incestuously married and that she is not your partner? Then its none of your business.
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